Are you want to be a party animal at Valentines Day?

Valentines Day is lovers’ holiday, therefore people not really getting wild with their loved one, but it doesn’t mean you can’t be. If you want to be wild you can  be at any day, with out any reason, but Valentines Day provide  anyone with an opportunity  to  turn to be a party animal.

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Are you want to  be a party animal? You can be. Host your Valentines Day party and turn it into an  erotic party. Its wont be easy, but can be done, or as a second option,  find someone else Valentines Day erotic party. Erotic parties or sex parties are organized by people either for profit or fun. If you would like to participate in somebody else’s erotic party (for fun) in our member’s section you will find upcoming events posted by members for members. If you don’t feel like creating your own party, then feel free to join someone else’s!

Other type of sex parties run by swingers clubs for profit.  Swingers club will charge an entrance fee which can be very expensive at Valentines Day if you are single man. Single women usually can get in free, I know this is not fair, but life usually not fair at all.

Before you decide to go, you need to know, erotic swingers parties are divided into two categories, on premise and off premise parties, meaning sex allowed or disallowed on the premise. If intercourse allowed on the premise, the entry fee will be even higher.

On premises sex parties are illegal in many countries, however were legalized here in Canada  December of 2005. Previous to it was legal only in the privacy in somebody’s home.  A group of swinger couples gathered at one person’s house and what ever have happened there, it’s have  happened for fun…. Men and women love to have fun in our sexcentric world.  It shouldn’t be surprising that women participate in erotic parties for fun.

Women have erotic fantasies also. Sometimes, they are more sexual than men’s.  Women often fantasies having sex with strangers, special single women around Valentines Day. They feel very lonely and they want to get loved by someone for list one night.

Having sex with a complete stranger takes away the pressure. They feel like they don’t have a standard they have to live with, since they won’t be coming back for seconds. Women engage in this type of sex because they feel that they won’t be judged. Around Valentines Day more single women fantasias about sex than any other time – even group sex… Group sex can be exciting for a woman. I don’t mean that they want to get banged by seven horny men. Women tend to like the idea of a bunch of nude people together having sex with their partners, unless of course, if they like to have sex with multiply sex partners.

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Wild  Valentines Day Erotic Party

Please keep reading if you decide to join someone else’s  Valentines Day erotic party. If you would like to have a wonderful time, while you at a party, you should:

Show up by the time. If you are late, you might not get in. Erotic parties often happens behind close doors. You can leave at any time, but if you are late, nobody going to open the door for you.

Dress appropriately. Appropriate stand for suitable, proper. Blue jeans usually are not suitable for  erotic party, but you need to ask the host about dress code. Ladies can dress as sexy as they dare. They can show as much skin as much they want, however nobody have to. Wear something that make you feel comfortable as well as sexy. Guys should wear dress pants.

Circulate in the room(s) and mix and mingle with many people. If you just try to chase down the sexiest couple, you might have to go home alone… with out sexual satisfaction. Make contact and talk with a lot of people. Be carefully, don’t talk about your spouse, girlfriend, or boyfriend. You can talk about every day’s issues, weather etc, maybe Holidays. Show you are interested in some erotic play, but don’t start the conversation talking about sex. The sex talk will come later.

Don’t drink to much. This party supposed to be a sex party, not a drinking party.

Remember,  erotic parties usually organized for couples. In some cases limited single guys can attend. However either you are single or part of the couple, you can have a great time only if you leave your punk attitude at the door (if you have an attitude). Be yourself, be real and socialize. If you are a man ask a lady to dance and have fun. Maybe even ask her husband for permission to ask his wife to dance with. Talk to her husband and be friendly with him too,  if he doesn’t like you, you’re not getting anywhere with his wife. Take your time and don’t be in a hurry. If it is a couples game, all four of you have to find attractive the others.

If you are a single man, play with a couple will be even harder. Visit our “Single Men In Swinging” page  for more info. If you do not have to much lifetime experience I suggest you to browse our website and search the internet  for related info, before you try to attend any erotic party.

You have to make your move, if you want to have fun at this upcoming Valentines Day, or you will run out of time. Remember, Valentines Day is just around the corner…

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Valentines Day is Coming

A few more days and Valentines Day is here. What does love have to do with Valentine’s Day? This question is being asked a lot lately. People who ask, usually keep saying, Valentine’s Day is only a candy holiday. Well, we can call it any name, but it is fact Valentine’s Day is  dedicated to celebrate love. If you plan to celebrate Valentines Day with candy or chocolate, just be sure you buy enough… If you are not a candy person the best thing to do on Valentine’s Day is to try something different. Do something that you usually don’t do.

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The problem is, people, singles and couples end up doing  things on Valentine’s Day that should have be done a long time ago. You should do something that makes you and your partner happy! So, whatever you are, single or couple, celebrate Valentine’s Day this year by doing something that makes your heart dripping from a romance or excitement. If you are a couple do something that make your partner extremely satisfied.

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If you are into casual sex, than you should play with friends that you know the best. You should party with someone who you know well.

If you are just thinking about something kinky, that you never done before, Valentine Day  give the best opportunity to stop thinking and start doing it! Singles hate t be singles at Valentines Day,  a lot of them looking for somebody to make their heart drip, even for a few hours…. at Valentines Day.

Valentine’s day is lover’s holiday and there is no love with out kiss, so  let’s talk about kissing. Continue Reading…

What Kissing Is?

“Kissing is an art and a highly individual and personal expression of affection…” said John L. Ferri, author of “Sex in the Romance“.

So what exactly a kiss is? Some people believe kissing is something that you can not give with out taking. I am talking about an erotic kiss on the mouth, or deep kiss, that called “French Kiss” not a good night kiss that mothers gives to their child at bedtime.

Mainly women but some men too, consider kissing more intimate than sexual intercourse. What do you think?

Either way, it has been proved by scientists, erotic or romantic kisses turn us on. Kissing peoples’ brains produce a chemical that have Oxytocin content. Oxytocin is a hormone that “available” during positive experiences, and not being depleted of it during negative experiences. From Oxytocin you feel “high” and your brain automatically wants to get more. So you want more kissing.

Relaxation massages caused oxytocin levels to rise slightly, so first you should give a massage to your partner, the oxytocin levels start to rise. Then you start to kiss him/her and if you do it right from here is no way back, because the Oxytocin level will rise more and your partner and every human wants to get more. Also Oxytocin is released in men and women during sexual orgasm, so making love as often as possible is one  secret of well being! . Continue Reading…

Interesting Kissing Statistics

67% of Americans and 64% of French likes to give/receive kisses on the neck, but only 15% of Danes likes to be kissed on the neck. Big percentages of Danes are on the wild site. 44% of them love to be kissed on X rated body parts.

Canadians love winter. Not only because winter is a hockey season, but because kissing. They spice up the long winter’s nights with love making and kisses on the neck. In fact the brain produces a chemical during kissing in the dark and it help you to find your partner’s mouth in the dark. Some 62% of Canadians say their favorite place to be kissed, after the lips, somewhere between the chin and collarbone.

If you are man and have foot fetish,  (fetish for feet) you have to go to Hungary. 10% of Hungarian women (which takes them at the first place in this category) enjoy having their tootsies sucked. Continue Reading…

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If you don’t ask most people don’t mind deep tongue kissing, but only 7% give a seal of approval. So don’t ask , just do it if you are not in Canada! According to the survey 41% of Canadian women don’t like to having a tongue stuck down their throat.

The best male kissers are the Norwegians following by the Italians. On the female department, 64% of Hungarians and 58% Mexican women do an excellent job with their mouth and tongue.

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Or if you prefer, you can try free web cam chat. Chat naked at Valentines Day from the comfort of  your living room. Actually you don’t need to be naked, but you chatting partners doesn’t mind to show what they got…

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Do you want to get kinky at Valentines Day?

Host a Valentines Day party, and spice it up with some kink. What kind of kink, its depends on those who you party with. A lot of single men, women, and some couples fantasize casual no commitment sex around Valentines Day. Valentines Day is lover’s holiday, but singles want to celebrate it too. This is when their Valentines Day erotic fantasy turns into overdrive. They need love and lovers too, even just for one night.

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Invite them, host a party. The most important factor to host a satisfying party at Valentines  Day and any other given day is the people with ability and willingness to participate in a party.  Its even more important if you want to make your party a kinky or  an erotic party. Erotic party is not for everyone, so if you are thinking about hosting one, special at Valentines Day, you have to know the people who will participate in your party.  Before you invite those people you have to decide what sort of  party you want to have.

Some parties are mellow tea party like parties, get together for socializing – get to know each other, and than people make their own party after your party is over. Some other parties more than this, they are usually for couples only, some are mixed, some can be kinky, some use the whole house and some are organized in a hotel room. As you can see, there are a lot of things that you have to deal with.

The First Step Is The Invitation

Most people really want to go to a party at Valentines Day, but more or less conscious mental barriers stop them from going for what they want. Valentines Day used to be a  chocolate holiday for lovers, so if they hear, you are planing to host a Valentines Day party for  “open minded” people, it might get their fantasy go. Help them, and make it clear your party wont be chocolate eating competition,  much more going to be happen there, but  anyone free to leave at any time.  If you want to make your party a kinky party and or an erotic Valentines Day party, than you need to invite people with “related – party experience.”

Very likely you will have people there without erotic party experience… They have to know, you are inviting them to a Valentines Day party, that might turn in to a party, that they never experienced before. Probably they will have a lot of things in their mind. You have to explain to them there is nothing to be scared of, NO means NO. Ask them what do they got to lose? If they are really serious they will accept your invitation because they don’t want to wonder about what could have happened if they had the courage to go.

If they have never participated in a party like yours, they cannot know what it is like, and if they show up, they wont leave early.  They are there for a reason, most likely they have Valentines Day’s erotic fantasy and they will probably give it a try. For this reason you should let invite first timers to the event even if they beforehand declare that they are not going to do to much. I know, it takes a bit of courage to invite first timers to an erotic Valentines Day  party, but do it anyway. What can happen, they might show or might not show up. The best  way to invite them is to speak with them,  few days latter ask them to confirm the attendance.

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Erotic parties should be held late night. At late night people have calmer energy, and are more in the mood for pleasure. To make the party successful even at late night, there should be about the same number of male and female participants. For a first party to invite more males then females is a very bad idea. However it might happen some “experienced” couple would like to bring their “boy toy” with them. You have to be careful with extra men. Its okay, but let them know they coming together and leaving together and the boy toy has to stick with them. Extra males might create intrigues (especially if they never participated in a party like yours) and intrigues are very destructive to the party. You don’t want a couple to leave; because one of the extra males wasn’t behaving in a proper way.

On the other hand some women’s fantasy is to get entertained by two men at at the same time. You do not necessarily need an extra guy for this, even if you have just two couples at present….

Alcohol & party and love making. Which one is better, drinking hard or make love, or maybe have  sex?

People usually take their own drinks to parties like this. Many people feel more self confident if they drink little alcohol. Little alcoholic beverage is okay, however you do not need drunk people at your party. Things can go wrong and alcohol is easy to blame, and in addition, critical thoughts are silenced while the sex drive is amplified. Too much alcohol can destroy your party. Drunken people often behave badly, and that may make other people leave.

Starting Activities

You might start with playing games. Laughing together makes people ease up and creates a friendly atmosphere. Use games that for example include being blindfolded and holding hands. Dancing while being blindfolded and find out who is your dance partner etc. Or strip poker. The losers have to take off a piece of their clothe. Do not use games in which the losers must leave the room. That would only make them passive.

People usually want what they cannot have. Therefore, if you play a game nobody should partnering with her/his permanent partner. This will make them start to talk with each other.

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Start With Erotic Games

The most difficult part of a party to turn it into an erotic party. The best way is to start with erotic games, like the one I mentioned above. Or give a four-handed massage for somebody. For example two ladies give a massage for one man, and then opposite way. At once thinks have to start somehow. This is why you should invite experienced couple. They will know how and when to start to get serious.

It might happen, by now someone was leaving. It is okay any one free to leave at any time. If somebody walk a way you should tell the others he/she or they chickened out. This might stop others to leave. However if nobody left your party yet, probably they will not leave until the end, because serious erotic activities might started around them. People love sex, that’s why they are at your party and they will not leave until they haven’t try why they are there.

Go Slowly – Very Slowly

To help people overcome their own mental barriers, you should make sure that the action is slow. Everybody want to go further some time before they actually do, if they don’t they would leave your party by now. At some point, unexpected things will start to happen. Let them happen. Do not disturb the group unless something or someone is threatening the entire party, but if it did not happen, well there will be Valentines Day next year too.

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Valentines day threesome, the father the son and I

I red a lot about Valentines Day and Valentine Day‘s dilemmas here. I have my own and I would like to hear others opinion, advices about it. I know, some of you wont like me after read my post… but that is okay, I can live with that.

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As you can see at my photo, I am not a teenager, but it is not about my age, even though I never been married and not get to get married in the near future.

I used to date a man for several moths. I had few casual relationship before him and I  I thought he is the real deal, and I thought I love him, he was a nice guy, even thought sex wasn’t satisfying enough. I was sure  we will get used to each other and with time, sex will get better, but instead it get worse…

But one day I was in his house and I had sex with his father… My boyfriend  was 29, lived his father who was  50 at that time. His mom died in car accident few years back, so the two men lived in a big house.

He hit on me while his son went to work and I was in at their house….so I went for it. His timing was good, because it happened after a sexually disappointing night with very unsatisfying sex and I was horny and somehow I felt for his father. Damn he was good….he did me hard…I told him about his son sexual performance level and he understood.

Anyway, when my boyfriend came home, I told him too and he did not freak out.  He said my dad must have needed it, well I said I needed it more.

That day started a three way relationship, the father the son and I. It worked for few months, than it started to get messy, than I tried to get out and at that time it turned to be very messy, but I ended it.

Here comes the problem. I have a friend with benefits (I always have) lets call him my permanent sex partner. We play together and play with others too. At next weekend we will go with his friends a married couple to a  lifestyle Valentines Day dance and I know from the host couple, my X boyfriend and his father will be there too.

I really don’t care wat they tell or not tell about our past, whatever… but I don’t want to be at the middle of a circus… and if my X boyfriend drinks a little, never know what will he do..

The question is should I got or should not? Continue reading…

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When I was university student I loved older women. I did a mother and then the daughter. I dated the mother and she invited me over for overnight and she left me there when she went to the grocery store to pick up something to eat.

I was having coffee in the living room and her 20 years old daughter came on me… I said what the hell, and did the daughter too, the mother came home and we got catch.

She did not make  any “circus”, I had casual relationship with both of them until the seminar was over, and I have to leave the city,  but we never  had a threesome. They shared me and they decide who I spend the night with, it was okay for me, in fact I kind of found it very cool…

If I were you, I would explain your problem to your sex freind and let him make the decision. If anything happens there, list he knows why happens… Continue reading…

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I would feel like a pervert if I had threesome with father and son… For Gods sake, that is not right!

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A long time ago I wasn’t married and I had sex with my best freind mother on his grandmother retirement party. My friends mom is older than may mom, and it was ongoing for a while..

I learned a lot from that lady, he trained me how to perform oral sex…

Why do you worried about that life style Valentines Day party. Your ex boyfriend should worry, you should tell him,if anything stupid happens, you will tell to anyone… whit out his father he can not even properly fuck a woman. I am sure he would not like that. Continue reading…

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Valentines Day fun a week before Valentines Day

My husband’s younger brother visited us at the previous weekend. We decided to go out for dinner and after dinner we will go to the restaurant’s new Whisky Bar style dance club, to have few drinks and dance a little.

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I love to dance and hubby’s brother is much better dancer than my husband.

We had our dinner and walk to the other side of the building to the Whisky Bar. It was a busy, but we manage to find empty booth. We did not even warm the chair up when my husband cell rang. He checked the number and he told us, it is my work I have to pick this up. Continue reading…

For privacy reason I am not getting into where he works and why he had to pick that phone call up, but I know he had no choice.. Anyway, he said he have to leave for a half hour or less, and he will be back as soon as possible, and he left.

His brother and I had a drink while talked and listened the music, than we decided to dance. One song than other and few more, when the DJ slowed down and said something like, its almost Valentines Day, everyone should get close and feel  each other. The drink (I know it is not an excuse) and the dancing couples around us, got us into the romantic – erotic dancing move.

Than the music was over and he escorted me back to our booth, my husband was already back. His brother excused himself and left to the men’s room. My husband told me:, “I saw the two of you out there. I saw how he caressed your ass, then I watched as you pressed your body tightly up against his and he kissed your neck  at the end of the dance. He excites you doesn’t  he?” Continue reading…

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Before I could respond, he went on, “Would you like to fuck him?”

“What!” I gasped, “Are you serious.”

“I am,” he replied, with a smile on his face. As we sat side-by-side in the booth, looking into each others eyes, he quietly continued, “We talked about this and fantasized about it a lot. We joined that erotic adult dating website to find a partner, it did not happen yet, but this is a perfect opportunity. I  want to watch him fuck your brain out, and hear you scream as he comes inside you.” Continue reading…

“Honey!” I replied with a gasp, “He is you brother, we never considered him as a casual sex partner.”

With a broadening smile on his face, my dear husband said, “I never  really did, until just now. I mean, I have thought about it, but I  didn’t think it could ever happen. However there is very good thing in,  discretion… What happens in the family stay in the family.”

What about Klara? (Klara is his brother wife).

We will deal with Klara latter on, now we have more important think to do, my hubby stated.

Hearing that, my mouth just sort of hung open, my hearth rate sped up, as I waited to see what might happen next.

As the two of us smiled at each other, husband looked over to his returning brother. To my surprise, my husband said, “Well I just talked it over with her… and I’m not used to this sort of thing… so I’m just going to  come out and ask you…. How would you like to have sex with her?” Continue reading…

play coupleI almost coughed into my drink as I considered what my husband had just  said. I looked first at my husband, with questioning eyes, then toward his brother as he began to speak.

“Well this is just a little bit of a surprise, as you can probably imagine,” he said. “But I find her so incredibly attractive and I was wondered many times over the years how it would be to have sex with her, so I would be stupid to say no. So, I think I can try.

I finally gathered my wits and said to him, “Can you excuse us a moment? I need to talk with your brother a little more.”

“Sure,” he replied, and left the booth for a few minutes. Continue reading…

As soon as he left I looked my husband in the eye and said, “Baby, this is crazy! We have never even talked about doing this with him.  I know we have been reading that on-line swingers magazines, and those articles always turned us on, but… he is your brother,
do you really want me to screw him?”

He looked into my eyes, gave me a gentle smile, and said, “Honey, from  what we have been reading, I think you would enjoy it, and I don’t think it would hurt our relationship, maybe even improve our sex life… if you occasionally got to experience a new cock, and a new lover’s techniques.

adult datingWe just sort of looked at each other, still smiling, but saying nothing for a few moments. Then I said, “You know, when I dressed up extra  sexy tonight, it was NOT in anticipation of attracting your brother and  have sex with him. I just sort of wanted to see if at age 39 I am
considered attractive enough for other guys to… ”

I went on, “Yes, those articles in that erotic on-line magazines did intrigue me, did cause me to wonder what it would be like to feel the nude body of  another man, and they left me with a curiosity about having sex with another man. But, I have never even considered your brother, and I think the only way I could have sex with him if both of you play with me at the same time.”

He put his arm around me, gave me a big kiss, and said, “Yes! Sure I will be there… lets get into the car and go home, before he changes his mind… and he called his brother and told him, Okay bro, lets go home and have some pre – Valentines Day funContinue reading…


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“She wants to have our very own, small erotic house party, or I can say a sex party at Valentines Day. In fact she wants more, then just a Valentine’s Day sex party. She is curious about threesomes and wants to taste a woman while I watch them at first and maybe join in later.

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