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I found this website by accident… More is merrier, is it  true? I guess who ever is looking for, will find something. Let me explain, what got me here. I am a 35 year old married woman,  married since 22.

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In the first few years sex was good and that make life beautiful, however sex life has become stale. We get so bored with routine sex. We’ve tried toys, new positions, you name it, we’ve done it.

We’ve tried to be creative by trying to have sex at different places, but nothing seems to work! Sex isn’t fun anymore, and both of us know this. I want to have fun, I simply want to find someone else… but I love him and he loves me… but I am frustrated and shy as I am I feel that day to cheat is very close.

Ultimately I do not wish to be a cheater, I want to bring the spark back into our bedroom so I thought, I should ask here. What should we do? Any tips would be much appreciated.

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I am sure you are not alone with your problem. Once the honeymoon’s over and you settle into the everyday life, it’s easy to get bored. A lot of people burdened by the demands of career, family, mortgage, sex is the last thing on their what to do list. However along with food and shelter, we need sex. Some of us need more some others less, in recipes ranging from simple to spicy.

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As you wrote it creativity is very important. Creativity isn’t just for artists. We all have a creative side to us; creativity is the key to great sex.

You need to keep it flowing so no one never knows what to expect. Sometimes in life not knowing what is going to happen is great.

Variety is the spice of life. Without it, our lives really get old fast.

I mean, you have to have some changes in life to keep you on your toes. I have known people who do the same exact job their entire lives, but I can’t see how they do it. I mean, years after years do the same thing, I would get sick of it.

The same is true in bed. If you always go through the same motions, you won’t keep your partner interested. If the routine is, kissing him, he is going down on you and penetration, you are in a rut. He might like this, but some variety will wake him up too.

Not everything in life needs to be cut and dry. This is true in the bedroom. If you guys don’t spend time thinking harder of new ways to make love, sex will get to be too much of a routine activity. Every older couple knows what happens then. Either you think I can’t turn him on anymore, or you’ll think about cheat on him.  My partner say, work hard and play harder, and this works for us…

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Do I miss something here? She asked tips or advice what should they do to make their sex life fulfilling again,  and everyone talk about their own sex life.

What kind of advice is; “Work hard play harder”? What work have to do with sex?

Anyways, there are many things that anyone can try, or try  some that they think, you think you will enjoy both. For example:

Food in bed. Remember as a kid you were told not to eat in bed? Now that you are an adult, you can without the guilt. Use foods that are sweet and that you can smear on each other. Stay way from spicy or salty food. You don’t want to get that stuff around your privates, but whipped cream or foam, honey, peanut butter.  It can be fun.

Change your love making positions. This is an easy way to spice up your sex life. If you normally do it one way, switch to another way. Switch roles, you go on top of him. This will also give both of you a chance to explore what feels good for each of you.

Talk dirty. Pretend that both of you are enjoying phone sex with each other. Tell each other what you would do to each other while you masturbate. Not only this is a big turn on, but he can watch you while you bring yourself to orgasm. What is more fun than that?

Sex toys.  There are more toys than vibrators… Try them, figure out how to use them, that can be  a lot of fun. Be a kid again. Get some toys that both of you can use on each other. Explore, and enjoy each others new found sensual areas.

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Porn. Oh yeah, every healthy man loves porn.  Some women too, like myself… 🙂 This can add some spice into your sex life. Don’t do it too much, he might think you are looking for a porn star like man. I would suggest that you get a movie with a plot. Or get one of those android box, unlimited porn there. You will enjoy the sex, he will enjoy the movie.

How open minded are you, and how open minded is he? You said you are thinking about cheat on him. Don’t cheat, instead ask him to set up a mfm Threesome  for you. There are a lot o homework to do, before you get into this, but if you make it happen you might like it…

Three is company. You can start with a  couple… Why not have a three way? Do you have a buddy that would like to do you? His lady with your hubby in the same room? Is he curious about having sex with another woman? Actually you don’t have to do each other, you can watch each other. It can be a great turn on and a great amount of fun.  Why not see where it goes?

You tried threesome and its not enough. Well, you can take your sex life to the next level, which is Swinging. If your marriage and love strong enough let’s get kinky.  Hey, why not try it? You can go to a swingers club and observe… If you don’t like what you see, you can walk out… or stay and walk on the wild side…

I am sure there will be couples like you there. You can just have sex with your own man, while an other couple is in the same room. A couple who you like. If you are feeling on the edge, you can play erotic games together with them. If two couples start to play erotic games it’s usually ends up in great sex.

Role plays and Costumes.  It can be a great way to add something different into your sex play. You can role play in an old Halloween costume. He can be super man while you are little red riding hood. Or teacher – student, photo model, porn star, prostitute, etc.  Some of this role play scenario does not even need costume.

Sex doesn’t have to be boring. I know, if you have sex with the same person for years, it will get boring. It will  get more boring if you allow it to, but there is always a way to spice it up. The question is: How far would you go?

Happy banging. I hope it helped a little.

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Rick and I had been married for a little over four years. The first six months we spent catching up on all the sex we thought we’d missed out on while we were both single. Neither one of us was very experienced sexually before we started dating each other. Our lovemaking had become pretty much unexciting and routine in our four years of marriage.

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Sure, we’d tried a lot of various positions and explored our desires. We were very happy with our marriage but felt we were missing out on something and wouldn’t discover what it was. In bed of an evening we’d often small talk about people we’d like to have sex with. Just talk, nothing we’d ever expect to really experience. We had a good, solid marriage, no jealousy or apprehension between us. Rick and I both had a roving eye but neither of us ever pursued an extramarital affair.

In bed one evening, we were watching a porno movie on Android box, something about swingers couples. Porno movies always turned me on especially if one or more of the guys was exceptionally well endowed. Rick’s about average in size I guess, not that I’ve had much to compare it to. I’d only been with one other guy and that was before I met and fell in love with Rick. Just figured most guys had about seven inches except for those porn stars. We got to talking about how some of the women in the movie had seemed a little reluctant to get into wife swapping. I kidded Rick about why they didn’t call it “husband swapping”. Rick just chuckled and said “wife swapping” sounded sexier.

On the drive to work the next morning, Rick brought up the subject of “swinging”, another term I’d heard for wife swapping. I figured he was trying to get me to voice my opinion on the subject. I kidded him about me being with another guy while he was with another woman. I figured Rick would get insanely jealous at the sight of me with another guy sexually. We’d been out with some of our friends nightclubbing and dancing. Rick always seemed to keep an especially attentive eye on me if I was dancing with one of our friends. If dancing would cause him concern, then having sex with another guy would put him well over the edge.

I wouldn’t approve of Rick having an extramarital affair. I’m pretty open minded but not that open minded. Rick kept chatting away about how exciting it must be to experience sex with a lot of different people. It did get me thinking that it might be very exciting but also very dangerous to our marriage. I tossed a few questions to Rick about how he’d really feel and react to seeing me getting fucked by another guy or sucking on another guy’s cock. The questions almost caused him to drive off the road, don’t know whether it was out of excitement or distraction. I toned down the conversation a little so we’d make it to work safely.

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All day at work I kept thinking about the conversation Rick and I had on the drive in that morning. I’ll have to admit I was kind of giving the idea a lot of serious thought. I’d been hit on by a couple of guys at the office but never took it seriously. The girls always referred to them as “hunters”, guys just out to score with as many women as they could. “Running Up the Scoreboard” was the way one of the girls called it. No way would I ever consider an office romance, that would be definitely heading for a disaster. During lunch I got to chatting with my closest friend, Sheila. The conversation pretty much revolved around how some of the guys in the restaurant looked very handsome in their expensive suits and silk ties.

Sheila is quite a character and outspoken about how she loves sex. Don’t think she’s ever had an office romance, if she has, she’s never let it be known, not even to me. I kind of smiled and recounted the discussion Rick and I had on the way to work that morning. Sheila’s draw just about dropped to the table as she blushed when I told her I felt Rick was trying to talk me into swinging with another couple. I felt comfortable telling Sheila about it since we keep our close conversations just between the two of us. Sheila grabbed my hand frantically and said we should give it a shot. “We’d love it” were her exact words. I asked her how did she know Rick and I would like it. Sheila whispered to me that she and her husband, Mike were into it and had there own little group of couples.

“You mean you meet with other couples and have sex with them?” I asked.

Sheila smiled. “Damn right we do and we love every minute of it. There’s nothing like it. We have four other couples that we meet on a regular basis and sometimes all get together for a big party, an orgy, so to speak.”

At first, I thought Sheila was just pulling my legs, but the look on her face told me otherwise. She was dead serious and not backing down from her statements. I was a little shocked at first but I had to ask questions. My main question was how it affected their marriage, had it caused any problems of any kind. I was afraid maybe she and Mike were having problems with their marriage and the “swinging” was a way to temporarily cope with it.

“No way are Mike and I having problems, in fact, our marriage is stronger now than it’s ever been”

“What about jealousy, surely there’s a chance someone could have a problem with that” I asked.

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Sheila’s reply was “Couples who are jealous of each other don’t stay in the lifestyle for very long. They drop out before it gets to be too big a problem.”

Sheila talked about a lot of the aspects of the swinging lifestyle including a few do’s and don’ts. I listened so intently I forgot to eat. The more she talked the more interested I became.

“Do you think you and Rick would be jealous of each other having sex with other people?” Sheila asked.

“I don’t think I would be jealous of Rick but I’m not sure he could handle the idea of me being with another guy. I’m not really sure.”

Sheila suggested she felt it best if Rick and I sat down and really talked it out before giving “casual sex” a try. “Make sure it’s something you both think you’d like to try and both of you can handle without any problems afterwards.”

“OK, we’ll talk about it this evening and I’ll see if I get any sort of hesitation from Rick if I tell him I’m interested”

I don’t think I realized what I’d just said until I said it. I’d pretty much let Sheila know that I was willing to have sex with another guy and not feel guilty about it afterwards. Sheila smiled coyly and I got an impression she had some ideas of her own. We hurried back to work running just a little bit late.

At the end of the day Sheila and I picked up our conversation where we’d left off. I usually have to wait a short while for Rick to pick me up so it gave us a chance to continue asking questions about what “swinging” and casual sex was really all about in married couples case, like we both are. I didn’t realize swinging wasn’t all about sex, but about forming good friendships and doing things socially. “Sex is just the icing on the cake” was Sheila’s favorite quote.

On the other site, casual sex, can be just a one time thing, so I definitely liked the idea of swinging much more.

Rick stopped in front of the office and Sheila and I walked towards the car. Sheila’s a bit of a flirt and she really put it on heavy when she got close enough to speak to Rick. He smiled and slightly blushed when Sheila leaned into the car to say “Hi”. I think she “made his day” to have her flirt with him a little. Sheila’s always got the top couple of buttons on her blouse undone and when she leaned into the car, I knew Rick could look down the top of her blouse.

The drive home was pretty uneventful, just idle chat about the workday. He’d had a pretty rough day at work and seemed very tired. After dinner and watching the evening news I got Rick’s attention away from the television long enough to get a conversation going. I had to admit I didn’t know how I was going to get the conversation headed towards swinging so I just came right out and asked him if he’d gotten over his idea of getting into wife swapping. He grinned like a kid with a new bicycle and said;

“Hell no, I kept thinking about it all day at work.”

“Well, I thought about it too. I even talked about it with Sheila at lunch and after work”

Rick couldn’t believe what I’d just told him.

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“Are you crazy, we don’t want anyone to know that we’ve even discussed it let alone actually thought about doing! Sheila might let it out and then we’d be faced with a lot of embarrassment”

I had to chuckle just a bit when I told him Sheila and her husband Mike were into the swinging lifestyle. The look on his face was one I’ll never forget. He’d always thought Sheila was just a big flirt and that was about it. He couldn’t get over the idea that she and her husband were into the “lifestyle”. It was like I’d breathed new life into him. He was all attentive and wanted to know everything Sheila and I had talked about. I filled Rick in on everything I could remember. I had my hand on his chest as I recanted the discussion. I could feel his heart beating faster and harder as I told him about the group of couples Mike and Sheila were involved in. I mentioned that I’d asked about the jealousy thing and how we’d have to handle it if it were to come up. I could see the look of concern on Rick’s face and I figured he might be hiding his concern about it too.

“I wouldn’t be jealous of you fucking another guy. After all, I’m going to be busy fucking the daylights out of another woman. I won’t have time to be jealous.”

Somehow I just couldn’t believe he actually meant what he’d just said. Saying you wouldn’t be bothered is one thing, but saying it after your spouse has just had sex with another person is another.

Rick asked, “Do you think you’d feel jealous or betrayed if I had sex with another woman?”

“Nope, not at all.” I quickly replied.

Couldn’t believe I’d admitted it to him so blatantly. I guess it was the way I actually felt. Think I must have been keeping it hidden and just blurted out unexpectedly. We kind of fell into our own little trains of thought as we smiled at each other. Not knowing what to say next, Rick asked me if I wanted to give it a shot and see if the swinging lifestyle was for us.

“I’m willing if you are, but if either one of us has any qualms about it, we get out and get out fast”

“Sounds good to me Babe. Now we need to decide how we go about finding another couple. Got any ideas?”

I knew by the sly grin on his face he was thinking about Mike and Sheila, probably fantasizing about getting his mouth on her breasts and his rock hard cock in her pussy.

“Let me talk with Sheila tomorrow at work and see what we can come up with”.

Rick wanted me to phone her right then but I told him I’d feel more comfortable talking with her face to face than over the phone.

We went to bed early that evening, enjoyed great sex and wore ourselves out but don’t think either of us slept much. I think the whole idea of swinging had us too excited or maybe it was just apprehension keeping us awake.

The drive into work the next morning was pretty quiet, mostly listened to the radio. We didn’t bring up any conversation about swinging. Maybe Rick was starting to have doubts, maybe he was just tired from lack of sleep. Continue Reading…

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I tired to convince my wife into no string attached swingers sex  longer than a year, I did not push her hard but I talked my head off. I explained millions of times, sex and love are not just two different words, but two different acts too. I did not understand why she is rejecting the idea. I know she used to have a playmate girlfriend (her room mate in university) and I know she is still bi curios.

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Finally one day she said okay, she will give it a try. I registered us in one of the local swing clubs for a weekend dance, before she changed her mind.

And today is the day. I hope today is the day to have some adventurous casual sex.

I tried to get myself mentally ready all day. I wasn’t 100% sure how will I handle, if I will see my Carla make out with another man or maybe with men, and I was not sure she is psyched up enough to allow me to make it with other women.

She already took a shower. It was my turn in the bathroom. I washed myself like a maniac. Brushed my teeth, shaved, fixed my pubic hair a bit and put on my best cologne on (everywhere that is important). I got dressed up, checked the condoms one more time in my pocket and just realized my wife is talking with somebody downstairs.

I walked down and met with Darlene. She is 36 years old and Peter’s wife. Peter is an old friend of mine. “Oh no” I thought not today. She is a bit on the hefty side but far from bimbo. If she sits down somewhere she can sit and talk day and night. But I had other plans for tonight; I did not want to listen this woman chatting all night. What should I do?

“Hello” I said to Darlene and sat on the sofa opposite to her. At this moment my wife walked in to the living room with an open bottle of wine and three glass in her hand. She was very sexy. Her black skirt was cut way up high, allowing me to see her long sexy legs all the way up until the edge of her hard ass. I did not see any panties line so I guessed she doesn’t have panties on. Also, her black blouse’s V cut was deep enough to show she does not wear bra. She poured a little wine in the glasses.

“Hello Jack. Peter had to go to fix something at his parent’s house. He won’t be home all weekend. I came here to spend a night with you guys”, said Darlene.

I wasn’t happy about this. My swingers dance started to fade away. I watched her and just I wanted to say something polite when I realized her big hooters burst through her see through blouse. Why did she wear a see through blouse on?

She red my face and saw how much she surprised me…

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“A few days earlier I told Darlene what is our plan for tonight and she knew how much of a stud you are. She wanted to bring Peter, but unfortunately he had to leave the city. They decided she will come along with us but I think she wants to get a test ride before we leave”. Said my wife.

What is going on here? Was the question in my mind but I could not say a world and I could not take of my eyes off of Darlene’s big tits.

The two honeys did not waste any time, they stripped out of their clothes and stood before me. They pulled of my pants, my underwear and shirt in no time. My wife’s soft haired neatly trimmed slit already trembled from the excitement. Darlene angled her hips my way. I smiled, peeking at the pinkness she flashed apart by playing with her cunt with her finger. It is great being at the center of two sexy women’s attention and I lapped up Darlene’s snatch.

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She shoved her pussy into my face. It looks like she knows exactly what she wants. I started to lick her cunt lips. Her pussy juice dripped into my face. I just found her clit with my tongue and she immediately had a climax. Before I had a change to take a few deep breath both of them started to give me head.

He is big, Darlene told to my wife, and took my manhood deep in her throat. Carla just watched. Naturally my wife is not a watcher and I know she can play with women and Darlene is hot and horny now… Probably she read my mind because she hosted Darlene in a doggy style position, went down on her knees behind her and started to eat her pussy.

Darlene sucked my shaft with a greater force. I knew my wife found her clit. She took my manhood and rocked upward a few times and that was it for me. I freed my cock from her mouth and shot a geyser of cum into the middle of the living room. Some of the stuff hit Darlene on her face. She just wiped off with her hand.

“Next time I want to swallow all” she smiled on me and licked up few drop of cum from her fingers.

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My wife kept eating her. I went to my wife’s assistance. We laid Darlene on the couch and licked and sucked her heated juicy pussy together. Then Carla decided Darlene head would be much better place under her pussy and she sat down with wide opened legs on Darlene mouth and started to massage her tits with both hands. I was eating Darlene and she was eating my wife. My wife was playing with her tits. It was very erotic and it made me hard again.

I could not control my tongue anymore. I opened a condom and rolled it on and put my cock into Darlene with one big steady push. My balls hit her cunt crack. She pushed my wife up from her lips and told me.

“Give it to me harder”. “Harder”? I already tried to do my best with my 9 inches manhood, but I speed up more. I gave it to her with such a big power, she was moving up on the couch when I pushed, until the end of the couch hold her. I fucked her like I never fucked a woman before. My wife banded over her and sucked her big tits. Darlene fingered my wife with her middle finger. After about 10 minutes bed gymnastic she started to moan and then she climaxed again.

Well I wasn’t finish yet and my wife wasn’t finished either.

She ripped off my condom and rolled a new on my rock hard dick, pushed me on my back and she sat on my man hood. Darlene started to suck my balls, and kept fingering Carla’s click at the same time. It did not take Carla too long to reach an orgasm and I did not take me too long to fill up the condom with my white stuff. This was my second orgasm and the night just began.

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The story author is “Dave.” He doesn’t want to publish his real name. The bigger part of the story is true and really happened with him. We hope you enjoyed Dave’s little adventure as much as he did.