Same Room Fun
Most couple’s first casual sex experience or swinging experience is usually some type of soft swing, example same room erotic fun, kissing, touching. Usually this happens at parties with friends in the heat of the moments. Than some of them like those experiences and t.hey go further.
Oral sex count as soft swing. Kissing, touching erotic games but not intercourse with the other couple, or people is count as soft swing.
Hard core swinging can be same room fun too. Most of the people thinks that “swinging” means partner “swapping”, but there are many different types of swinging and or no string attached sexual activity.
Same Room fun is a common example, happens what ever is happens, it will happen in same room, with your partner. You may have opportunity to watch your partner in sexual activity with someone else, if you want, you can help to make your partner even happier.
Often is not just in same room, it maybe in same bad too. Hard core swinging usually mean that sexual intercourse and or partner exchange included.
However to have no commitment NSA fun, at first you have to find a willing partner. Someone who are looking for casual sex. The easiest way to go is, create and post your profile. You can do this free. With free membership, you can not contact anyone, however if your profile is catchy, other members will contact you.
How to create a catchy profile? Continue reading…
We Have Found a Couple! What is next?
Meet them at a neutral setting (i.e. restaurant or lounge). This makes it much easier to leave if things don’t go well. Be on time and make sure that you have given each other specific contact information (i.e. what kind of car, dress, etc). Prepare preset signals to communicate between the you and your partner, such as “Yes”, “No”, “Maybe”, and “Let’s get the hell out of here!” Generally when you are just starting out you should never arrange for another meeting that night, this gives you and your partner time to discuss your feelings before making a commitment to the other couple.
Now We’ve Met And Want More. What is Now?
Don’t be shy, ask! Make it clear what do you want. Open conversation the best. Talk about your rules. Same room, different rooms, swap, or just soft-swing, etc. Once everyone is agree, just go for it. Just remember, “NO” means NO, at any time.
I’m single, is swinging just for couples?
Swinging is a lifestyle that couples enjoy to help them live out their fantasies with other adults. Singles can be involved in the lifestyle, and are involved, since many couples are looking for either an extra male or female to help them live out a threesome fantasy. What singles must remember when they are lucky enough to be involved is that it is a privilege and they must treat it as privilege. Many of the problems single men have in trying to get into this lifestyle are brought on by themselves.
Most of them treat the ladies as sluts or nymphomaniacs. Swinging is sharing, what the single guy share? Why can not find girlfriend? Oh, your girlfriend not into swinging? Then you shouldn’t either, or find other girlfriend. Remember, sharing is two sided. But if you single and really want to get into the lifestyle, keep trying. Be friendly, clean, very polite, see thinks positive and who know maybe one day you may get what you want.
How Should I Dress For a Sex Party or a Swingers Party?
Dress depends on the party. Ask your host, or if it in the club other club members. Usual dress will be casual, but neat. If it will be pyjama party you should wear pyjama too. If you don’t and everyone else does it, you will fill uncomfortable. But you can wear any dress, just relax.
Usually ladies show up very sexy they are trying to make the best impression what they can. Man are dressing casual, but in most of the clubs jeans and running shoes are not allowed.
Sex party, casual dressing ok. If you are serious, sooner or later you will undress in you undies… so sexy underwear would help for ladies… Continue reading…
What About Sexual Diseases, (STD)?
There are many scary diseases, so if you want to practice safe sex make it clear before any serious action happen. Never let anyone to dictate you: No protection no NSA sex. It should be your and your partner choice.
The risk of disease should not be the reason not participate in NSA sex or in swinging, because it is easily prevented. I strongly recommend condoms for any type of sexual encounter. You can make your sex life as safe as you want it to be!
We are a Married Couple. Can Our Marriage Be Damaged If We Get Into NSA Sex with Buddies?
Set up rules and keep them. If they to tight lose them, but always communicate with your partner. Don’t do anything what don’t want to do, or what make your partner uncomfortable or jealous.
If you practice casual sex or swinging this way, your marriages will improve and your relationship will be stronger and better all the time. Continue reading…
Quality or Quantity? We’re Talking About Sex.
This question usually come from males. Ask any lady, not necessary most to be swinger lady, but you can ask any swingers couple too. They’ll will give you the same answer. You should not test here yourself how many times you are able to do it. One quality experience is more better then one night long mediocre experiences. But the fore play never long enough. You can make this as long as long you wish, it just will make better quality. Continue reading…
What I should Know About the Swingers lifestyle…
Hard to say. What is very important for me, maybe not that important for you. Be be open, clean and positive all the time. If something bothering you, important to let your partner know. It is means the communications important. But I believe the most important, one-way or other, have fun, and be sure your partner have some fun too, because if don’t (special if your partner is your wife) maybe that was your last swinging experience with her. Continue reading…
Attempting to hire an escort or sex worker to go to a sex party or to a swinging event with you, if you don’t have a regular female partner, just so you can get in the door is a terribly poor idea, this is considered inappropriate at every club I have ever heard of, is generally sufficient to get you black-listed, and is a ruse that is highly likely to be noticed by others.
A related concept is taking along someone who isn’t really your primary partner and isn’t really interested in swinging; such folks are called “tickets” (i.e. you just used them as a “ticket” to get in the door), and this practice isn’t looked upon favourably either. Continue reading…
If you want nothing more than to see your female partner have sex with another woman, you will probably be better off forgetting about it until she brings it up, wandering around by yourself attempting to find a woman who wants to have sex with her, or otherwise trying to push this personal choice into happening, is considered quite crass.
Finally, please remember to converse with both members of a couple you and your partner are interested in, not just the partner you are interested in having sex with, ultimately it’s your ability to form friendships with COUPLES which will determine the quality of your experience in the swinging community. Continue reading…