Swingers spice their sex life up with sex partners outside from their permanent relationship and no string attached swingers sex parties. They might organize a gang bang or a similar themed sex party, special around this time of the year (Halloween) but swinging and sex partying is not for everyone.
You don’t need to be a swinger to spice your sex life, or love life up. With a little imagination you can make things very erotic, even kinky if you wish to, and if your partner is willing to participate in. For example if you are the male part of the couple, here are some ideas for you. Sex is usually controlled by men (well not really, but men think they are in the driver seat if we are talking about sex).
For a change let her drive, let her dictate by giving her total sexual control over you. I mean what I say, let her be on the top, actually on top of you. It’s already sounds good, doesn’t it? Continue reading…
Boost Your Sex Life With Kink
It is simple; you get to lie on your back while she jumps on you and does her erotic things. Let her control what ever she wants to, the speed and the deepness. I guaranty it won’t be bad at all. Most men dream about a hot horny babe riding on top of them, even half dead men want to die like this. So ask her to do it. Ask her to screw you hard, ask her to let you feel that you are not in control.
Probably you going to obtain a really big orgasm, it might be the biggest that you ever had. Do not do anything and have a mind blowing orgasm, I am sure you are going to like it.
After few times and several orgasms, you will want her to always be in control, you want to lie on your back and have a mind blowing orgasm, again and again.
As the time goes by, you can put some kink into your sex, let her punish you, let her dominate you.
Sex can be good if you see what you do and can be great if you don’t see what other(s) do with you. You have to feel it.
That is why blindfolds are so popular. Blindfolds are great tools to learn for her, how be in control in the bedroom.
Have her put them on you and you have nothing else to do.
Lie on your back and happens what ever happens, but you should not take those blindfold off. Continue reading…
There are millions of blindfolds on the market, but you can make your own. Use a man’s neck-tie or a silk stocking. Let her tie them around your head so you can’t see, and let your private erotic show begin.
The show where you don’t need to see, you just have to feel. She can tell you what she is going to do in great details. In fact she should tell you before she does it.
She might give you alternatives: “Maybe I will put ice cube on you dick or Martini on your chest and I’ll lick it up. I might bite your nipples.
What do you think, which one should I do?” Or she can hold a buzzing vibrator to your ear and explain you in details how she going to masturbate with it. I hope you did not take you blindfold off and did not run away. To make sure you won’t do it, she should chain you to the bed first.
Are there any more stockings in the house? Use as a rope and let her tie you to the bed with it. Just be careful – if she can’t reach the orgasm,she might sit on your face, and you can not run away. She might even give you a prostate massage with her vibrator. Oh you like that? I wonder why? Continue reading…
There is one more thing that you need to know. Don’t do this too often. If you do it every second day, sooner or later it will be routine again. It is just an example how can you spice things up with some creativity.
There are tons of ideas, different sexual role play scenarios are all over the internet, but you can make your own with a very little creative. For example if you really want to get wild, you can buy a variety of masks costume and even whips for erotic play. These whips from sex store wasn’t created to cause excruciating erotic pains, they designed and made them cause little pain with big pleasure. A whip to get real punished if you are being a bad boy.
If you go this far, make sure that both of you are okay with it. It won’t be fun if one of you feels uncomfortable and the target is having fun, pleasure and orgasms. Continue reading…