I searched the web about sex on the first date rules, and I have something to say about it. All in my life I had been told, you don’t have sex on your first date if you want to see the guy more than once.
Why not? I am on a casual sex dating website, divorced and over 40. I chat with men via IM and webcam for a while than if things ok, we set up a public meeting.
It seems like such a waste of time, because guys don’t show up to that first date. What are they scared of?
Than finally someone show up, and we find each other sexually attractive, so I start to make the first move, and then I have the problem not having sex. And if I have sex with him, every time I did it was a one night stand.
So, what do you think; is sex on the first date or the first night you meet ok, or a no-no? Or is it only my personal not to lucky, because I am an older woman? Continue reading…
I don’t think it have anything to do with luck or with your age. If you do not have sex on your first date with those guys, than you might have on the second or on the third date and than those guys would stop to see you anyway, so that would be a waste of time too.
Majority of people comes her to find casual sex partners, so have sex with who meet here is kind of normal… Therefore, I think there is something else behind it.
I checked your photos out, if those photos recently made, than you are very attractive, you look like a late 20’s – early 30’s, not like someone who is over 40, but if those photos 10 years old, than this can be a reason… Continue reading…
I am, we are over 40 too and what I have been told… Women and couples in our age group more conservative in sex than younger people.
So the reason might be boring sex… Your profile sates it, you are into younger men. Younger guys wont get satisfied with some traditional, missionary sex. They want more than that, they want anal, they might want to bring their friend or girlfriend to their next play date. They might want to experience double penetration, etc.
If you are only into traditional sex, then you should find dating partner to close to your age. Than they might show up to the second date too. Continue reading…
What I hate is hearing from guys (and yes, this does happen) is that if a woman has sex on the first date then she’s not dating material.
Hello guys! This is a nsa sex dating website, and one night stand is nsa sex… Isn’t it?
Also some of those guys are so bad sex partners, I don’t even want to see them again…
And they are oblivious to the fact that they also have sex on the first date too, therefore they are not really dating material too. Don’t worry, you will find other men… Continue reading…
Sex on the first date is not a bad thing. One night stands
are not a bad thing, and this has nothing to do with missionary traditional sex position, or age.
The ridiculous thing here is that if a man had asked the same question, the answers would be totally different. Gotta love our patriarchal society.
I have learned that it is best if everyone lays out their expectations before hand so that no one is shocked, surprised, or let down. Pretty quickly I know what kind of relationship I am willing to have with someone. Continue reading…