Back to school erotic party

We got a very interesting e-mail from a female reader. She has some problems with her husband’s role playing habits. Actually we are not sex therapist, so we are, not sure why she emailed us, in fact I am even not sure it is really on-going true happenings with her, or she just created it.

However either way, it worth 2 minutes from anyone times (who into adult dating)   to read he message.

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She wrote it:

I found your web site after searching through my husband’s search history on his computer. Yes, that might sound bad but it isn’t. I don’t care if he looks at porn or sex pictures, I look at them some times with him  and they turn me on. I was looking for a website that I had visited a few days ago and I noticed he visited here. I was curious about what your site was all about. I think you guys have a great site for people who are into  adult dating and adult dating related plays.

Actually I am not sure what exactly he was looking for here, because he can get as much sex as much he wants at home. He is very healthy, in fact can’t be any healthier, therefore he is often horny and  ready for sex at any given time. Anyway, here is my problem. I hope you can give me some advice.

My husband likes to wear costumes in bed. Let me put it differently, he likes to wear them when we have sex. He usually stock up on the cheap ones on sale after Halloween. I’m open to the idea of this, but these cheap costumes made from cheap plastic very cheaply, and they sometimes cut me. He cut my vagina once when has was wearing one of those plastic masks while he gave me oral sex.

I don’t mind the costumes, well I kind of do. I don’t like them because they are cheap and because he feels weird in them. I don’t wear them, he only he does. The plastic outfits don’t feel right on my skin.  As I said before these costumes are the cheap ones that  all made from synthetic materials.

Sometimes they come with fake hair, but that is another story. He buys them in the Dollarama.

Once again, for reading my email, I like your website, so much, I have recommended it to my girlfriend.  She told me something wrong with her husband sex drive. He isn’t into love making anymore. I thought they were going to break up, but she found a guy to screw her together with her husband every now and then.

I am not sure it is right or not. Sometimes I fantasize to get screwed by two guys at once… and in that fantasy, I would not mind to wear a costume.

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As I said we are not sexologist, but your messages got my attention and I Googled your mail’s subject. Actually you could do the same… just Google it. Anyway I found a website, and they have an on-line adult dating magazine, there are few similar posts. Check them out, several people responded with several different  ideas.

Here is what  our stuff and I suggest to you.

I would ask him what type of costume turns him on the most. Then I would go to your local costume or adult store or it might be a Fetish store. Yes, there are costume and fetish shops still around. Look in your phone book or search the world wide web. At these shops they will have better costumes. Some of them might actually be made right there in the shop. Some places do this in case you need the costume changed to fit you perfectly.

I would go through the store and find one that he likes. Make sure it doesn’t have plastic or sharp metal parts or anything that can cut you. If you can get silk or crushed velvet, that would be the best. That will feel good against your skin. This might sound a little weird, but I would suggest to him that you also get one. Maybe because he is into the whole costume thing, he might be into you wearing one and you said you would not mind the have a  three way if you are in a costume, so you can consider this like a practice… Practice makes perfect, you never know, you might will have a wild night of sex with you hubby.

Unless this is something that he always does, I wouldn’t get too worried about it. Be more worried about the health hazards from the cheap costumes. If he is doing it once or twice a month, it is just a fetish, or erotic role-play. We all have some kind of kinky thing in our mind that we might  try to do, and that is completely normal. Of course there are some borders, that no should cross, but lets not go there now.

If you are already having a good sex life, don’t let his role play practice  stop you. Embrace it for all its worth. It could be something else that makes your sex life good. Never knock something until you try it!

About the second part of your email. If I were you I would not worry about your girlfriend’s preferences with men, but if it really does bother you, you can try to do something about it. I am not sure how open minded are you, but if you really worry about her, why don’t you do something more than give her advice. You wrote that you thinking about having a threesome and your husband is ready for sex at any time. Her husband and she already experienced  in your fantasy sex play, so  ask her to help you out, and you fix two problems at once.

Talk with your hubby and talk with your girlfriend. For starters organize a Back to School  costume party together, this time of the year that Back to school erotic parties are all over, but if you do not need a reason for partying, than make  a party in sexy costume. I am sure your husband is going to like that. If you think this is way is too much, you should suggest to her to visit the same erotic on-line dating magazine, that I  suggested to you, and she will find a lot of sex life related tips and advises, what to do and how to do…

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If you do not want to partying with your girlfriend and with her husband, than you just need to find a few wanna be party animal guys. Its easy to find, students moved to colleges and universities, so you just need to go somewhere  close to colleges and or universities, or visit bars that these students like to visits. If it does not work for you, then you need to search the Internet, for example our partner – sponsor’s members here.

Hope it will work out for you…

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My friend and I did his wife

My best friend Jack, was always oversexed. As a single man he spent a lot of weekend sex parting and he loved to go to swingers club too. I figured that, when he will get married, he would slow down.  Eventually he married a lady, but I never met with his wife, not yet anyway. I used to work outside of the country when they started to date. At the time when I got back to the state, they have been married more then six months.

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One of the first thing that I did, was to visit Jack. That was my first meet with his wife.  She was a dark-haired, average looking Hispanic lady with grapefruit size of tits and very nice shaped long legs. More importantly her personality was much more better then her look. She played pool as a man, liked watching sport news on TV and did not offended at our course language.

Few weeks were gone by and I begun to forget she is a women, even though I found her sexually very attractive. Then one Saturday afternoon Jack reminded me how sexy she was. We had a few drinks while watching the hockey game and just as the third period started Ria brought in a plate of nachos.

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– You really found the prefect wife I said.
– Yeah, isn’t she a piece of beauty? Jack asked, sliding his arms around her. His hands dangled down to her boobs and begun caressing them. I looked quickly to the TV, but Jack voice turned me back to them.

– And her boobs are the best I ever had. Come here and fill them. I wasn’t sure what should I do. Jack had always been wild horny guy, but he just offered to take a close look at to his wife boobs. Did he really want me to check out his wife tits front of him? I looked at Ria, she drew her tongue across her lips very sexily. I realized she wanted me to do it. Well what the hack, am I a healthy man or what? I asked from myself and somehow I went over the sofa next to her and begun touching her boobs.

They were killer, I know that from the first moment when I saw her. She never wear bras, she doesn’t need them. Her boobs are tight and pointing to up direction. Her nipples poked through the fabric of her blouse.  Continue Reading…

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I am a 44 year old woman. I consider myself attractive. My husband passed a way 3 years ago, leaving me widowed. I don’t need a husband, I don’t need commitments but I do need sex. Even though I am 44, there can be a first time…

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Because of my professional (I own and run a law office) I don’t want to get into the bar scene. I didn’t know where to find what I need, until recently. Continue reading…

On that day I got a case with a new client. She was the owner of the local swingers club, with a website. It is very similar to swingers couple’s website. She believed her website hosting service redirects her web traffic, on simple English it is stealing. But I am not here to talk about my job.

Because of my job and of course of my curiosity, I spend a lot of time analyzing her business’ website. At one night I browsed it and read a lot of very erotic ads, and those ads turned me on.

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I have long time erotic fantasies, to make love with two young guys at once, and I found an ad. “Two young couples looking for older women for adult fun,” and a phone number. I did not hesitate, I dialed the number. A man with deep sexy voice answered my call. I was very nervous, but what the heck,” I am the person that they are looking for.” I told myself. I explained everything to him.

I told him I had built up a lot of frustration the past three years and now I need men. I don’t need their wives, I just need them. Also I told him because of my personal life, discretion is a must. After this I wasn’t nervous anymore. We chatted for about two hours on the phone and at the end we set up a meeting at a café at next evening. Continue reading…

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I hung the phone up and started to think? What am I doing? At a café? I am not a virgin. I don’t have time for these dating games. I need sex and a lot and need it now or as soon as possible, and I made a plan. After several phone calls everything was ready for a party. I reserved a suite for tomorrow in one of the downtown hotels. Continue reading…

The day past by fast. Around 7, I called the yesterday’s phone number. The same bedroom voice answered the phone. I told him something happened and I can not go to the café at 8, but I do not want to cancel our date. I asked him what about if he and his friend wait for me in the hotel room. He did not have a problem with this.

Basically not a thing have happened, but this was the easiest way to invite them to the hotel room and this left me a narrow escape way, if they turn to be not attractive enough. In that case I can say that, sorry gentlemen, but I have to leave you because something happened.

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I arrived at 10. A tall handsome young man opened the suite’s door. He introduced himself as Sam and with a gesture invited me to the room. He was the deep voice guy that I talked with the day before. The living room was nicely furnished and soft music was playing. He asked me what would I like to drink. I told him a Martini is fine. Continue reading…

He yelled my order to the other room, (I figured there was the bar and the other guy) then he took my hand into his and asked me what my expectation was from this night. I thought I was to shy to talk about my expectation, because it was only XXX rated sex. However his gentlemanly manner and deep sexy voice made it easy for me. We were chatting soon about love making details, when the other guy came in with a tray, and three glasses on it.

Sam introduce me to Larry. Larry was tall and blond. He wasn’t wearing a shirt. One look at his athletic body made my juices flow. He excused himself for a moment and left into the other room while Sam invited me to dance. We were very close, I felt his penis on my crotch. I thought my nipples would burn a hole in my bra… Finally Sam’s hand found my breast and his mouth my neck. I swooned as he started to play with my hard nipples. Continue reading…

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Larry returned, but I did not see him until he pulled my dress’s shoulder straps off my shoulder. I let it fall to the floor and in one step and I was dancing with a young man who was a stranger to me, only with my sexiest lace panties and bra on. Larry rubbed his hard-on against my ass.

Then Sam knelt in front of me and Larry took my bra off. At the same time Sam pulled my panties down, spread my vaginal lips and started to perform oral sex on my pussy. Larry held me from behind by my breasts. My nipples perked out from the erotic excitement. It had been over three years since a man touched my naked body and over 20 years since someone performed oral sex on me. Continue reading…

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We’re a late 20’s fairly attractive married couple. Either of us would not have any problem to find sex partner, but we do not want that… Our long time fantasy is, do it together in a form of mfm threesome.

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Actually it was his fantasy… but over the years he made me wonder, how, sex would be with two horny men.

After a long hesitation we made our move and find a guy. We had a meeting at first, than a date at second and a dinner at third. After the dinner we went to our hotel room and nothing happened.  I got a hug when he left at morning.

After that, he did not even responded to our messages, so we had to find someone else. Took us some time, but we managed it. At this time, we made a short cut, and went to the hotel room after the second meeting. At this time I did not even get a hug… He disappeared too

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My first threesome just happened

True threesome erotic story: By  always horny “Ann” not monogamous.

I always was curious how sex with two men would be, and it just happened. Not exactly as I fantasized about it, though. Last weekend my boyfriend… whom I’ll call Chet… and his best friend, whom I’ll refer to as Gene… went off camping.

mfm threesomeThey gave me a phone call at Friday night from their campgrounds and invited me up Saturday morning. Gene fixed lunch over an open fire for us and we then we decided to call around to make motel reservations nearby for our future encounter.

We picked out something that sounded nice and secluded, so we decided to take a drive to check it out. Chet and I went into the office to make the reservations and found that we could get a room with a kitchen, double bed and waterbed for only $60 per night. And, the best thing was that since we were staying on a Sunday night, there was only one other room reserved besides ours. So there would be mucho privacy.

Anyway, I digress from my main topic. We drove back to the campground and sat outside the cabin and talked about absolutely nothing  with some other campers… and drank some beer. Chet and I drove over to a nearby beach and went wading. Meanwhile Gene had gone to take a shower. (The cabin did not have running water.)

first mfm threesomeWhen we came back from the beach, Chet excused himself to take a shower. When he returned, he asked for us (me and him) to have some time alone together. So we went into the cabin, closed the door and pulled the shades down. I told Chet that under the circumstances I didn’t want to “go all the way” but just give him a blow job. Frankly, I was in a hurry to get back home. While I was going down on his cock, he started asking me if I would suck Gene’s cock, I thought that this was as good a time as any but played “hard to get” at first and made Chet talk me into it.

Chet pulled his pants back on and went outside to find Gene, Gene was just then driving off in his car.

I put my top back on and Chet and I took my car to find Gene. We found him where he had pulled off at the beach. Before Chet went over to tell him what was going on, I asked him to make sure this is what Gene wanted to do too.

We all went back to the cabin. Chet took his pants back off and I started back into sucking his cock. Gene watched for a while but kept his clothes on until I took my top and bra off and he saw what a nice pair of tits I had. Well, then you should have seen how fast his clothes came off!

Chet asked me to start sucking Gene’s cock, and soon we three were all on the bed. Gene kept telling me how beautiful my breasts were and playing with them and sucking on them. I started taking turns sucking their hard, stiff cocks. I would use my hand on the dick I wasn’t sucking. Chet came first, in my mouth and then sat back to watch Gene and me.

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I would have like them to eat my pussy, but I hadn’t taken a shower like they had, so that would have to wait for another day! Gene told me that he was a pussy man and wanted to fuck me so… off went my shorts and panties. By that time, Chet was getting horny again, so while Gene was fucking me I started sucking on Chet’s cock.. Gene used his fingers on my clitoris to make me come, and then shortly after that came himself. He put his clothes back on and left the cabin so Chet and I could finish up in private. Chet put his by-then rock-hard cock into my “eager beaver” and told me he wished he could fuck me for hours. Needless to say, he climaxed soon after we started!

The three of us had another session the next afternoon at the guys’ house. This time, I had bathed before going over there, so I felt more sexually confident. Gene brought out a vibrator which Chet gently ran over my pussy while I sucked Gene’s cock. Then as Chet was eating my pussy, I asked Gene to suck on my tits. WHAT A GREAT SENSATION!

Chet told Gene to “come have a taste of this” so Gene took over the pussy-licking activity. I couldn’t get over the shit-eating grin on Chet’s face! He looked like a kid in a candy store! Well it wasn’t too long until I came from Gene’s tongue so the three of us went into the bedroom.

Gene entered me from, behind (vaginally, I don’t really care for anal sex) and I started sucking Chet’s cock at the same time. They traded places several times, or one guy would take a “breather” just to watch me with the other one. Gene came first while fucking me “missionary style,” while I was giving Chet a blow job. Gene then excused himself and Chet and I fucked each other until he came. Would you believe that only after  about fifteen minutes Chet started getting horny again!

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The two of us resumed our activity later that night at my home. All in all, it was a pretty exciting experience. Both men made sure I enjoyed myself and treated me with tenderness and respect. I did tell Chet later that we should wait until Gene brought the subject up again before we got together again. I don’t want Gene to think we’re using him or putting pressure on him.

I kind of felt like we were three little kids playing doctor. I guess that was because of what we did is “forbidden.” Sometimes those naughty forbidden things are the most fun, as you probably well know! But as Chet and I told each other, no one was cheating on anyone, and we all had a good time. The three of us care about one another in many ways.

I don’t think I could have done this with Gene if we hadn’t established a friendship first. I have to hand it to Chet… he picked out a very attractive and younger man (9 years younger than me!) for our first threesome.

Well, there you have it… my first threesome. If the three of us don’t get together sexually before, I’m really looking forward to our motel getaway. Which reminds me of a question. How do you discretely manage to get a third party into a motel room? Or would you go ahead and pay for another person?

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