You can be a male or a female, either way, to have excellent love life your sexual organ(s) should be healthy and your hormone activity should be in “good working condition”. Your love life excellent only if you and your lover, sex partners are satisfied. When things get to serious and love making or sex comes to satisfying sex, men and women are not the same.
Erotic visual things, body parts can turn men on and can give enough sexual energy to have an erection, to perform a intercourse and to have an orgasm. If this does not happen, than you need to see a health care professional to find solution for your problem.
A woman’s mind works differently when and if the subject is love making or casual sex, for them to see or watch erotic things or sex plays are not enough (but might help). Ladies need to have chemistry, they need to get into the mood, need to be “turned on” before they consider erotic play. Someone is turned on, when want to make love, want to have sex.
Chemistry only wont make any woman aroused. Her partner knowledge plays a larger role in arousal, in her orgasm and her sexual satisfaction. If you are a man and if you want to make your spouse or sex partner’s love life, sex life satisfying, you really need to know what you do when time comes to make her satisfied.
I am not going to talk about, how to turn a woman on here on this page. Instead I will talk about the G-Spot.
If you are a sexually active man, probably you would like to know everything about female orgasm. Experienced men knew, the biggest and the best female orgasm is the G-spot orgasm. G-spot is stand for Grafenberg Spot after gynecologist, Ernest Grafenberg. He was the first who realized how important is that spot in women’s vagina to reach a mind blowing orgasm.
Some scientists still do not believe in G-spot orgasm, not even in G-spot. In fact they say, there is no such a thing like G-spot. Well, they are definitely not females, or of they are, than they should talk about women who have experienced G-spot orgasm. Those women know from their own experience, G-spot is real and it can make wonders in erotic plays.
How Can you Find The G-spot?
She lies on her back with slightly open legs. Insert two fingers (first and the second) into her vagina, point them upwards. About five centimeters from the belly button, but her tallness, her vagina and belly button “location” effects this 5 cm. Anyway around 5 cm from her belly button, try to apply light pressure on the vagina wall. There are more then one way to know, you found the right spot. At first your partner feel need to urinate like pressure. Be careful, if you do this and perform oral sex in the same time, because a lot of woman ejaculate from G-spot orgasm (squirt). Some of them squirt out up to 2 cups worth at a time, and if you are down there, when this happens, than your face will get really messy…
A healthy woman vagina should feel soft and smooth inside. When the G-spot is being simulated, that smooth vagina begins to feel harder and ridged.
The best way to stimulate the G-spot is: Form your inserted fingers into a V shape and bend them into a hook, so the top of your finger tips touch the vagina ‘s wall. Put a light pressure on the vagina wall and turn your hand, left and right in move a bit back and for. You should not move your fingers all the way out and should not poke them all the way in.
Remember, you do not want to finger fuck her, you would like to give her a G-spot orgasm, but to do so, you have to find her G-spot first. If you did she will moan. Right now is time to put a light pressure on that magic spot and massage it slightly.
Once you found her G-spot, don’t stop. She will need some time to achieve orgasm. The pressure, the moving motion, the speed and the lubrication are important factors, so you might have to spend some time down there if you want to make her day… The good news is, if you do it right, she wont mind it. She will experience feelings, that she never felt before during other sex plays.
G-spot and Sex Toys
You might not be succeed at the first time. If she lies on her stomach you pressing her vagina down, toward to what ever she lies on, and what ever is that, it will give support for your fingers. This doesn’t sound to romantic, but definitely very erotic activity.
If you can’t succeed with your finger, you should try with sex toys. There are several specially banded G-spot vibrators available to buy in every adult store. The vibrator part to stimulate her clitoris. G-spot and clitoral orgasm one after the other going to make her scream from the joy….
Even if you have the best G-spot vibrator or even if your fingers are very educated and you have the best G-spot reaching technique, it might not be enough.
Your partner emotional and mental states are more important than all of the above. Your partner has to feel relaxed and she should be comfortable. She also should be turned on enough to get her vagina naturally wet. If you poke into her dry vagina, she never going to have an orgasm.
She should go to the washroom, before you start to play with her G-spot, so if she feels the need to urinate, then you will know, you do it right.
A sex partner with love making knowledge knows that he can also reach the G-spot with his penis, although this is a bit trickier than just moving a finger around. You and your lady must try a couple of different positions in order to find those that allow you to give the G-spot a good rubbing.
Doggy style comes to mind, because the penis can rub against that sensitive patch of flesh both when going in and when pulling out. Of course, the positions featuring the woman on top are also very good because the lady can adjust the angle of insertion to make sure that the penis takes the correct route.
So there you have them, the three options, if you would like to put some twist into your regular sex. There’s probably no better way of pleasing a woman that full stimulation of both the
G-spot and the clitoris at the same time. Men should not be ashamed to ask the ladies to help them locate the G-spot, especially since the ladies will certainly be eager to help. After all, it’s in their best interest, however not all women enjoy G-spot pressure and G-spot sensation.
The key element is communication. Your partners keep telling you, she is not in the mood, If this happens, than you do not do the right things… Than you need to educate yourself and practice, Practice makes it perfect.