My First Casual Sex Play

Dating in my life followed a pattern in my university student age, a pattern that I did not understand at that time. I’d meet a guy, we’d go out, have a good time, than go out a second time, than before the third date happened, I got a text message, or email from him, and he explained in: “Because I don’t have enough time for everything and because I have to concentrate on my study and on my future carrier, I’m not into romantic relationship. I’m just looking for something casual. If is okay for you, let me know.”

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Of course I was fantasize about casual sex, and sex with two men, like 90% of women today, that was my very secret erotic fantasy, but I could not go there and tell him, okay man, here I am do me… It just did not feel right. List he should put some effort and work into to get some kind of on going friendship with benefits. However casual sex wasn’t behind my dating efforts. I just wanted to have a boyfriend, to to things with, to love and being love by him.

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It happened more than few times with more than few guys, my thought was, guys are spineless, they can’t even tell, brake up in face to face. Its easy to send a “You are fired” text or email…

So I updated my dating pattern. I dated 2 guys at the same time. I treated young men, like consumable items. One was gone I replaced him with an other one. I was pretty, guys wanted to get into my underwear, but I wanted more, and there was about 7 thousands of them, just in the University, so there was almost unlimited supply of men. I believed, men who wanted nsa sex only, don’t care about their partner, they just care about their own sexual satisfaction, so I kept looking for romance. Sometimes I had some difficulties to manage my weekends, share it with two dating partners, but somehow it always worked out.

Than at one night… I’d booked two dates with two guys at a night club. I planned to go a little earlier, before my first date arrive and spend some time with my BFF, so I went there and had a drink with my lady friend and my first date showed up. He arrived earlier too. He recognized me and he came over to our table, which was okay.

Two girls and him, he wanted to impress us (maybe not just impress 🙂 ) and he bought several fancy cocktails. We kind of had fun and time went fast, than my second date showed up. It smelled like trouble… He found us and came to our table too. There is nothing suspicious, two girls, one guy, right? But he didn’t know that guy was there, because he wanted to get me into his bed…

So he sat down to our table and we changed our cocktails to hard liqueur. Rye on the rock in real Canadian style, that is a very good and effective method to kill our brain. Then before we drank ourselves under the table my lady friend’s man showed up. Because the alcohol, she introduced him to my dates as her sex friend. You should see the surprise on my wanna be boyfriends face when they realized both of them are at our table, because of me. Than my second date, asked me for some kind of explanation… I told him dude, there is no explanation, it is how it is, or people call it double date. Than he turned to be a total dude, called me bitch and left. He did not know what he missed…

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After one  more drink we decided to go to my BFF’s friend place and we partied there until next day, like there is no tomorrow. My lady friend and I had sex with both guys, or I can say my first casual sex happened at that night.

On a normal day, I would not do, what I did at that night, but because of the alcohol and because I was pissed about my second date the “dude” and I might try to prove something for myself, than my top secret erotic fantasy, plus my BFF and her friend virtually had sex at front of us, all of these things together get me into my first sex with multiply partners.

Sex was great, I did not regret  anything… and that night was the first night of a wonderful relationship. The guy, who was my first date at that night is my husband today. We are happily married over 8 years now and we still into casual sex.

My point is at the end of the story, there is no point… other than If you fantasize about something do it, and if does not feel right, than probably its not for you…

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