New Years Eve is just around the corner. If you have nowhere to go, you might host your own party, and if you want to go a step further, than host your own erotic New Years Eve party.
If you do it right, your party will be a hit, that is almost guaranteed. However you have to make your homework, to make that party a really memorable New Years Eve party.
You need to invite the right people. In fact, the most important factor is the people with ability and willingness to participate in an adult party which might end up in casual sex. Casual sex is not for everyone, so if you are thinking about hosting an adult party you have to know people who will participate in your party. The next thing to decide is what sort of a party you want to have.
Some parties are for couples only, some are mixed, some like orgies, and some have playrooms for fun, some use the whole house and some are organized in a hotel room. As you can see, there are a lot of things that you have to deal with.
Before you do anything, you have to find a location. Host a adult party in your own home is not a good idea. The best place would be a hotel suite, with two – three rooms. One room should be dedicated to “play room”. So you have the location, than you need willing people.
The First Step Is The Invitation
Most people really want to go to a kinky party, but more or less conscious mental barriers stop them from going for what they want. Help them. Make it clear they can leave at any time. Or you can invite experienced party goers only, but there are a lot of people who are looking for new partners to party with all the time, and they can be a lot of fun. If you would like to have a really good party you should invite people with nsa sex experience and people who are curious first timers (new bie).
From this point you have to concentrate a little more on the first timers. They have to know that, you are inviting them to an erotic adult party. Probably they will have a lot of things in their mind. You have to explain to them there is nothing to be scared of NO means NO. Ask them what do they got to lose? If they are really serious they will accept your invitation because they don’t want to wonder about what could have happened if they had the courage to go.
Usually first timers will not leave the party. They have never participated in one and they cannot know what it is like. They are there for a reason, most likely they have an erotic fantasy and they will probably give it a try to make that fantasy happen. For this reason you should let invite first timers to the event even if they beforehand declare that they are not going to do too much. However ask them to confirm the attendance.
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Adult themed parties should be held late in the night. At late night people have calmer energy, and are more in the mood for pleasure. To make the party successful even at late night, there should be about the same number of male and female participants. It is a very bad idea to invite more males then females. However it might happen some couples would like to bring their “boy toy”. You have to be careful with extra men. Its okay, but let them know they coming together and leaving together and the boy toy has to stick with them.
Extra males might create intrigues (especially if they never participated in a party like yours) and intrigues are very destructive to the party. You don’t want a couple to leave; because one of the extra man doesn’t behave in a proper way. On the other hand some women’s fantasy is to make love with two men at once. You do not necessarily need an extra guy for this, even if you have two couples at present….
Alcohol Intake – Alcohol or Sex…
To parties like this people usually bring they own drink. Many people feel more self confident if they drink a little alcohol. Little alcoholic beverage is okay, but you do not need drunk people on your party. Something go bad and people will blame the alcohol, easy to blame alcohol. And in addition, critical thoughts are silenced while the sex drive is amplified.
Therefore alcohol can destroy your party. Drunken people often behave badly, and that may make other people leave.
Go Slowly – Very Slowly
To help people overcome their own mental barriers, you should make sure that the action is slow. Everybody must want to go further some time before they actually do. Everybody should be horny and everybody should turned on. If someone gets into right to the action, for example goes directly from massage to penetration, others may start to think “I don’t want to do that!” Participants who rush destroy everybody else’s mood. The whole group should be do the same sort of things at the same time in the party’s early hour. Which can be talk, dance socialize, get to know each others.
Encourage the slowest. Hold back the quickest. Even if everybody is ready to go straight to the action, you should hold back. The longer you hold back the sexual energy, the stronger it will be when you let it loose.
At some point, unexpected things will happen. Let them happen. Do not disturb the group unless something or someone is threatening the entire party.
You might start with playing games. Laughing together makes people ease up and creates a friendly atmosphere. Use games that for example include being blindfolded and holding hands. Dancing while being blindfolded and find out who is your dance partner etc.
Or strip poker. The losers have to take off a piece of their clothe. Do not use games in which the losers must leave the room. That would only make them passive.
People usually want things, that they cannot have. Therefore, if you play a game nobody should partnering with her/his permanent partner. This will make them start to talk with each other.
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The most difficult part of any erotic party, is how to start the erotic part. You can start with erotic games, like the one I mentioned above. Or give a four-handed massage for somebody. For example two ladies give a massage for one man, and then opposite way. At once have to start to play somehow. This is why you should invite experienced couple. They will know how and when to start to get serious.
There are thousands of erotic party games, you just need to google it.
It might happen, by now someone was leaving. It is okay anybody have a right to leave at any time. If somebody walks out you should tell the others he/she or they chickened out. This might stop others to leave. However if nobody leave your party yet, probably they will not leave until the end, because serious erotic activities might started around them.
People love sex, that’s why they are at your sex party and they will not leave until they haven’t try why they are there.
First Time Adult Party Goers
First timer couples and ladies who do not participates in the actual sex, should be allowed to come and look into play room, (if you have play room) even if they declared that they are not going to do too much (they may try!).
Single men with out sex partner should not be in this room. No expectation!
You should try to make your sex party an aesthetic event, to avoid the porn feeling. Is sex party aesthetic and sensual? Or is it a cool party? Or an expression of raw, sexual lust to fulfill the participant erotic fantasy…
Like anything else in the life what is aesthetic and cool for one that is disgusting for others.
Sex With Multiple Sex Partners
A lot of people think sex with multiple partners is immoral. They should not judge anybody, until they didn’t try it. Some others believe, they have only one life and they want to enjoy it to the max.
Hard Core Sex Party
Participation in a hard core sex party should be your own decision. Is it a swingers sex party? Than you should know swinging is much more then sex… but no commitment sex is a important part of it! Also not every swingers party is a hard core sex party. Plus in some countries illegal to organize and held on-premises parties (which is mean intercourse allowed on the premises) and in some others illegal to organize in a public place in a restaurants or in a hotel room. If you would like to have information how to organize a “regular” swingers party check out this web page.
End Here At The End
You never plan the end of the party. It will end, whenever it ends. Usually not until the next morning, when everyone used all of their sexual energy….