How To Host a New Years Eve Adult Themed Party

New Years Eve is just around the corner. If you have nowhere to go, you might host your own party, and if you want to go a step further, than host your own erotic New  Years Eve party.

If you do it right, your party will be a hit, that is almost guaranteed.  However you have to make your homework, to make that party a really memorable New Years Eve party.

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You need to invite the right people. In fact, the most important factor is the people with ability and willingness to participate in an adult party which might end up in casual sex. Casual sex is not for everyone, so if you are thinking about hosting an adult party you have to know people who will participate in your party. The next thing to decide is what sort of a party you want to have.

Some parties are for couples only, some are mixed, some like orgies, and some have playrooms for fun, some use the whole house and some are organized in a hotel room. As you can see, there are a lot of things that you have to deal with.

Before you do anything, you have to find a location. Host a adult party in your own home is not a good idea. The best place would be a hotel suite, with two – three rooms. One room should be dedicated to “play room”. So you have the location, than you need willing people.

The First Step Is The Invitation

Most people really want to go to a kinky party, but more or less conscious mental barriers stop them from going for what they want. Help them. Make it clear they can leave at any time. Or you can invite experienced party goers only, but there are a lot of people who are looking for new partners to party with all the time, and they can be a lot of fun. If you would like to have a really good party you should invite people with nsa sex experience and people who are curious first timers (new bie).

From this point you have to concentrate a little more on the first timers. They have to know that, you are inviting them to an erotic adult party. Probably they will have a lot of things in their mind. You have to explain to them there is nothing to be scared of NO means NO. Ask them what do they got to lose? If they are really serious they will accept your invitation because they don’t want to wonder about what could have happened if they had the courage to go.

Usually first timers will not leave the party. They have never participated in one and they cannot know what it is like. They are there for a reason, most likely they have an erotic fantasy and they will probably give it a try to make that  fantasy happen. For this reason you should let invite first timers to the event even if they beforehand declare that they are not going to do too much.  However ask them to confirm the attendance.

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Adult themed parties should be held late in the night. At late night people have calmer energy, and are more in the mood for pleasure. To make the party successful even at late night, there should be about the same number of male and female participants. It is a very bad idea to invite more males then females. However it might happen some couples would like to bring their “boy toy”. You have to be careful with extra men. Its okay, but let them know they coming together and leaving together and the boy toy has to stick with them.

Extra males might create intrigues (especially if they never participated in a party like yours) and intrigues are very destructive to the party. You don’t want a couple to leave; because one of the extra man doesn’t behave in a proper way. On the other hand some women’s fantasy is to make love with two men at once. You do not necessarily need an extra guy for this, even if you have two couples at present….

Alcohol Intake – Alcohol or Sex…

To parties like this people usually bring they own drink. Many people feel more self confident if they drink a little alcohol. Little alcoholic beverage is okay, but you do not need drunk people on your party.  Something go bad and people will blame the alcohol, easy to blame alcohol. And in addition, critical thoughts are silenced while the sex drive is amplified.

Therefore alcohol can destroy your party. Drunken people often behave badly, and that may make other people leave.

Go Slowly – Very Slowly

To help people overcome their own mental barriers, you should make sure that the action is slow. Everybody must want to go further some time before they actually do. Everybody should be horny and everybody should turned on. If someone gets into right to the action, for example goes directly from massage to penetration, others may start to think “I don’t want to do that!” Participants who rush destroy everybody else’s mood. The whole group should be do the same sort of things at the same time in the party’s early hour. Which can be talk, dance socialize, get to know each others.

Encourage the slowest. Hold back the quickest. Even if everybody is ready to go straight to the action, you should hold back. The longer you hold back the sexual energy, the stronger it will be when you let it loose.

At some point, unexpected things will happen. Let them happen. Do not disturb the group unless something or someone is threatening the entire party.

Starting Activities

You might start with playing games. Laughing together makes people ease up and creates a friendly atmosphere. Use games that for example include being blindfolded and holding hands. Dancing while being blindfolded and find out who is your dance partner etc.

Or strip poker. The losers have to take off a piece of their clothe. Do not use games in which the losers must leave the room. That would only make them passive.

People usually want things, that they cannot have. Therefore, if you play a game nobody should partnering with her/his permanent partner. This will make them start to talk with each other.

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Erotic Games

The most difficult part of any erotic party, is how to start the erotic part. You can start with erotic games, like the one I mentioned above. Or give a four-handed massage for somebody. For example two ladies give a massage for one man, and then opposite way. At once have to start to play somehow. This is why you should invite experienced couple. They will know how and when to start to get serious.

There are thousands of erotic party games, you just need to google it.

It might happen, by now someone was leaving. It is okay anybody have a right to leave at any time. If somebody walks out you should tell the others he/she or they chickened out. This might stop others to leave. However if nobody leave your party yet, probably they will not leave until the end, because serious erotic activities might started around them.

People love sex, that’s why they are at your sex party and they will not leave until they haven’t try why they are there.

First Time Adult Party Goers

First timer couples and ladies who do not participates in the actual sex, should be allowed to come and look into play room, (if you have play room) even if they declared that they are not going to do too much (they may try!).

Single men with out sex partner should not be in this room. No expectation!

You should try to make your sex party an aesthetic event, to avoid the porn feeling. Is sex party aesthetic and sensual? Or is it a cool party? Or an expression of raw, sexual lust to fulfill the participant erotic fantasy…

Like anything else in the life what is aesthetic and cool for one that is disgusting for others.

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A lot of people think sex with multiple partners is immoral. They should not judge anybody, until they didn’t try it. Some others believe, they have only one life and they want to enjoy it to the max.

Hard Core Sex Party

Participation in a hard core sex party should be your own decision. Is it a swingers sex party? Than you should know swinging is much more then sex… but no commitment sex is a important part of it! Also not every swingers party is a hard core sex party. Plus in some countries illegal to organize and held on-premises parties (which is mean intercourse allowed on the premises) and in some others illegal to organize in a public place in a restaurants or in a hotel room. If you would like to have information how to organize a “regular” swingers party check out this web page.

End Here At The End

You never plan the end of the party. It will end, whenever it ends. Usually not until the next morning, when everyone used all of their sexual energy….

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Erotic Holiday Party Tips

Are you want to be wild at the Holiday Season?

You can be. Two ways  to go…

Host your own erotic party, or find a wild sex party. Sex parties are organized by people either for profit or fun. If you would like to participate in somebody else’s erotic party (for fun) in our member’s section you will find upcoming parties and events posted by members. If you don’t feel like creating your own party, then feel free to join someone else’s!

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Check our partners website out for Erotic Holiday party list.  You can find adult themed party in the Holiday season almost in every big Canadian city and of course every city in US too.

Other type of sex parties are run by adult clubs for profit.  Adult clubs or often  name swingers club will charge an entrance fee which can very expensive in the Holiday Season, specially at New Years Eve. Erotic swingers parties are divided into two categories, on premise and off premise meaning sex allowed or disallowed on the premise. If intercourse allowed on the premise, the entry fee will be even higher.

On premises sex parties are illegal in many countries but were legalized in Canada in December 2005. Previous to it was legal only in the privacy in somebody’s home. A group of open minded couples and some selected singles gathered at one person’s house and what ever have happened there, it’s have happened for fun…. Men and women love to have fun in our sex centric world.

It shouldn’t be surprising that women participate in erotic parties for fun, they have erotic fantasies also. Sometimes, they are more sexual than men’s. Women often fantasies having sex with strangers. Having sex with a complete stranger takes away the pressure. They feel like they don’t have a standard they have to live up to, since they won’t be coming back for seconds. Women engage in this type of sex because they feel that they won’t be judged.

Around New Years Eve more women fantasias about sex than men – even about group sex. Check them out here.

Group sex can be exciting for any woman, if she into this kind of  sex play. I don’t mean that they want to get “destroyed” by several horny men. Women tend to like the idea of a bunch of nude people together having sex with their partners, unless of course, if they like to have sex with multiply sex partners.

If you decide to host your own erotic party, you can find a lot of “How To Host Your Erotic Party” information on our personal website.

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Please keep reading if you decide to join someone else’s erotic party. If you would like to have a wonderful time, while you party, you should:

Show up by the time. If you are late, you might not get in. Erotic parties often happens behind close doors. You can leave at any time, but if you are late, nobody going to open the door for you.

Dress appropriately. Appropriate stand for suitable, proper. Blue jeans is not suitable for New Years Eve erotic party. Ladies can dress as sexy as they dare. They can show as much skin as much they want, however nobody have to. Wear something that make you feel comfortable as well as sexy. Guys should wear dress pants.

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Circulate in the rooms and mix and mingle with many people. If you just try to chase down the sexiest couple, you might have to go home… with out sexual satisfaction. Make contact and talk with a lot of people. However you should not talk about your spouse, girlfriend, or boyfriend. Talk about life and maybe Holidays. Show you are interested in some erotic play, but don’t start the conversation talking about sex. The sex talk will come later.

Don’t drink to much. This party supposed to be a sex party, not a drinking party.

Remember, New Years Eve’s erotic parties usually organized for couples. In some cases limited single guys can attend. However either you are single or part of the couple, you can have a great time only if you leave your punk attitude at the door (if you have an attitude). Be yourself, be real and socialize. If you are a man ask a lady to dance and have fun. Maybe even ask her husband, boyfriend or partner for permission to ask his lady partner to dance with.

Talk to her man and be friendly with him too, if he doesn’t like you, you’re not getting anywhere with his lay. Take your time and don’t be in a hurry. If it is a couples game, all four of you have to find attractive the others.

If you are a single man, play with a couple will be even harder. Visit our  partners “Single Men and NSA Sex” page for more info.

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No string attached adult fun in Canada

I have to state it, before any misunderstanding; in the next post when I talk about adult dating, it stands for erotic adult dating or no string attached adult dating. Usually it begins with an open minded couples. A couple would like to play (erotic) with an other couple, or a husband want to share his wife with a single man.

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However there a lot of men women couples, single men and women are into no string attached adult dating for many different reasons, but the end result is the same, no string attached adult fun.

It starts with a couple, or a single persons, who are looking for couples for casual sex. Easy to find a willing couple, if you are looking for casual sex with your partner, spouse, wife or husband.

We have found a willing couple! What is next?

Meet them at a neutral setting (i.e. restaurant or lounge). This makes it much easier to leave if things don’t go well. Be on time and make sure that you have given each other specific contact information (i.e. what kind of car, dress, etc).

Prepare preset signals to communicate with your partner, such as “Yes”, “No”, “Maybe”, and “Let’s get the hell out of here!” Generally when you are just starting out you should never arrange for another meeting that night, this gives you and your partner time to discuss your feelings before making a commitment to the other couple.

There is one exception, you can go further on your first meeting, if you are looking for one night stand.

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 We’ve met and we want more. What we should do?

Don’t be shy, ask! Make it clear what do you want. Open conversation the best. Talk about your rules. Same room, different rooms, swap, or just, some kind of soft, erotic play, etc. Once everyone is agree, just go for it. Just remember, “NO” means NO, at any time.

I’m a single man. Is no string attached adult dating  just for couples?

Adult dating, erotic adult dating can be a lifestyle that couples enjoy to help them live out their fantasies with other adults. Singles can be involved in this, and are involved, since many couples are looking for either an extra male or female to help them live out a threesome fantasy.

What singles must remember when they are lucky enough to be involved is that it is a privilege and they must treat it as  privilege. Many of the problems single men have in trying to get into this lifestyle are brought on by themselves.

Most of them treats ladies as sluts or nymphomaniacs. Casual sex with a couple mean, the single man is their sex toy. If you can’t handle this, than play with your girlfriend only.

Why can not find girlfriend?  Oh, your girlfriend not into nsa sex? Then you shouldn’t either, or find other girlfriend. Remember, no string attached adult fun is two sided.  But if you are single and really want to get into nsa sex, keep trying. Be friendly, clean, very polite, see thinks positive and who know maybe one day you  may get what  you want.

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How should I dress for a sex party or an adult dating get together?

When I said adult dating get together, I meant; Our website have many adult groups. Some of these groups organize, adult dating get together on a monthly basics.

Your outfits depends on the get together reason.  if that reason is a erotic party, than ask your host, about the dress code.

if no dress code, than usual dress will be casual, but neat. If it will be pyjama party you should wear pyjama too. If you don’t and everyone else do,  you will be uncomfortable. But you can wear any dress, just  relax.

Usually ladies show up very sexy, they are trying to make the best impression what they can. Men  can shows up in casual wear.

But, if you plan to participate in a “swingers” party, in most of the clubs jeans and running shoes are not allowed.

Sex party, casual dressing ok. If you are serious, sooner or later you will un dress in your undies… so sexy underwear would help for ladies…

What about sexual diseases, (STD)?

There are many scary diseases, therefore anyone in casual sex should practice safe sex only. Some women’s profile states it, bare back only, or we are into penetrative sex with out condoms.

If this happens with you, than you have to think like Forrest Gump (the movie). Run Forrest, run!

Never let anyone to dictate you:  No protection no NSA sex.

However, the risk of disease should not be the reason not participate in no string attached casual sex, because it can be minimize very easily. I strongly recommend condoms for any type of penetrative sexual encounter. You can make your sex life as safe as you want it to be!

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Set up rules and keep them, if you find them to tight lose them, but always communicate with your partner. Don’t do anything what don’t want to do, or what make your partner uncomfortable or jealous.

If you practice no string attached casual sex or swinging this way, your marriages will improve and your relationship will be stronger and  better all the time.

Quality or quantity? We’re talking about nsa sex. 

This question usually comes from males. Ask any women, they’ll will give you the same answer.  You should not test yourself how many times you are able to do it. One quality experience is much more better then one night long  mediocre pussy pounding.

But a fore play never long enough. You can make this as long as long you wish, it just will make better quality.

What  should I know about casual sex & swingers lifestyle… 

Hard to say. What very important for me, maybe not that important for you.

However always be be open, be clean and positive, if something bothering you, let  your partner know it.

I believe the most important, one way or other, have fun, and be sure your partner have some fun  too, because if  don’t (special if your partner is your wife)  maybe that was your first and last no string attached casual sex experience with her.

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Interest of some men…

Attempting to hire an escort or sex worker to go to a sex party or to an adult dating event with you, if you don’t have a regular female partner, just so you can get in the door is a terribly poor idea.

This is considered inappropriate at every adult club I have ever heard of, is generally sufficient to get you black listed, and is a ruse that is highly likely to be noticed by others.

A related concept is taking along someone who isn’t really your primary partner and isn’t really interested in adult dating activity; such folks are called “tickets” (i.e. you just used them as a “ticket” to get in the door), and this practice isn’t looked upon favourably either.

If you want nothing more than to see your female partner have sex with another woman, you will probably be better off forgetting about it until she brings it up.

Wandering around by yourself attempting to find a woman who wants to have sex with your lady, or otherwise trying to push this personal choice into happening, is considered quite crass.

Finally, please remember to converse with both members of a couple you and your partner are interested in, not just the partner you are interested in having sex with. Ultimately it’s your ability to form friendships with COUPLES which will determine the quality of your erotic experience in the adult dating community.

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How I convinced my wife into casual – swingers sex

I tired to convince my wife into no string attached swingers sex  longer than a year, I did not push her hard but I talked my head off. I explained millions of times, sex and love are not just two different words, but two different acts too. I did not understand why she is rejecting the idea. I know she used to have a playmate girlfriend (her room mate in university) and I know she is still bi curios.

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Finally one day she said okay, she will give it a try. I registered us in one of the local swing clubs for a weekend dance, before she changed her mind.

And today is the day. I hope today is the day to have some adventurous casual sex.

I tried to get myself mentally ready all day. I wasn’t 100% sure how will I handle, if I will see my Carla make out with another man or maybe with men, and I was not sure she is psyched up enough to allow me to make it with other women.

She already took a shower. It was my turn in the bathroom. I washed myself like a maniac. Brushed my teeth, shaved, fixed my pubic hair a bit and put on my best cologne on (everywhere that is important). I got dressed up, checked the condoms one more time in my pocket and just realized my wife is talking with somebody downstairs.

I walked down and met with Darlene. She is 36 years old and Peter’s wife. Peter is an old friend of mine. “Oh no” I thought not today. She is a bit on the hefty side but far from bimbo. If she sits down somewhere she can sit and talk day and night. But I had other plans for tonight; I did not want to listen this woman chatting all night. What should I do?

“Hello” I said to Darlene and sat on the sofa opposite to her. At this moment my wife walked in to the living room with an open bottle of wine and three glass in her hand. She was very sexy. Her black skirt was cut way up high, allowing me to see her long sexy legs all the way up until the edge of her hard ass. I did not see any panties line so I guessed she doesn’t have panties on. Also, her black blouse’s V cut was deep enough to show she does not wear bra. She poured a little wine in the glasses.

“Hello Jack. Peter had to go to fix something at his parent’s house. He won’t be home all weekend. I came here to spend a night with you guys”, said Darlene.

I wasn’t happy about this. My swingers dance started to fade away. I watched her and just I wanted to say something polite when I realized her big hooters burst through her see through blouse. Why did she wear a see through blouse on?

She red my face and saw how much she surprised me…

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“A few days earlier I told Darlene what is our plan for tonight and she knew how much of a stud you are. She wanted to bring Peter, but unfortunately he had to leave the city. They decided she will come along with us but I think she wants to get a test ride before we leave”. Said my wife.

What is going on here? Was the question in my mind but I could not say a world and I could not take of my eyes off of Darlene’s big tits.

The two honeys did not waste any time, they stripped out of their clothes and stood before me. They pulled of my pants, my underwear and shirt in no time. My wife’s soft haired neatly trimmed slit already trembled from the excitement. Darlene angled her hips my way. I smiled, peeking at the pinkness she flashed apart by playing with her cunt with her finger. It is great being at the center of two sexy women’s attention and I lapped up Darlene’s snatch.

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She shoved her pussy into my face. It looks like she knows exactly what she wants. I started to lick her cunt lips. Her pussy juice dripped into my face. I just found her clit with my tongue and she immediately had a climax. Before I had a change to take a few deep breath both of them started to give me head.

He is big, Darlene told to my wife, and took my manhood deep in her throat. Carla just watched. Naturally my wife is not a watcher and I know she can play with women and Darlene is hot and horny now… Probably she read my mind because she hosted Darlene in a doggy style position, went down on her knees behind her and started to eat her pussy.

Darlene sucked my shaft with a greater force. I knew my wife found her clit. She took my manhood and rocked upward a few times and that was it for me. I freed my cock from her mouth and shot a geyser of cum into the middle of the living room. Some of the stuff hit Darlene on her face. She just wiped off with her hand.

“Next time I want to swallow all” she smiled on me and licked up few drop of cum from her fingers.

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My wife kept eating her. I went to my wife’s assistance. We laid Darlene on the couch and licked and sucked her heated juicy pussy together. Then Carla decided Darlene head would be much better place under her pussy and she sat down with wide opened legs on Darlene mouth and started to massage her tits with both hands. I was eating Darlene and she was eating my wife. My wife was playing with her tits. It was very erotic and it made me hard again.

I could not control my tongue anymore. I opened a condom and rolled it on and put my cock into Darlene with one big steady push. My balls hit her cunt crack. She pushed my wife up from her lips and told me.

“Give it to me harder”. “Harder”? I already tried to do my best with my 9 inches manhood, but I speed up more. I gave it to her with such a big power, she was moving up on the couch when I pushed, until the end of the couch hold her. I fucked her like I never fucked a woman before. My wife banded over her and sucked her big tits. Darlene fingered my wife with her middle finger. After about 10 minutes bed gymnastic she started to moan and then she climaxed again.

Well I wasn’t finish yet and my wife wasn’t finished either.

She ripped off my condom and rolled a new on my rock hard dick, pushed me on my back and she sat on my man hood. Darlene started to suck my balls, and kept fingering Carla’s click at the same time. It did not take Carla too long to reach an orgasm and I did not take me too long to fill up the condom with my white stuff. This was my second orgasm and the night just began.

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The story author is “Dave.” He doesn’t want to publish his real name. The bigger part of the story is true and really happened with him. We hope you enjoyed Dave’s little adventure as much as he did.