Back to school erotic party

We got a very interesting e-mail from a female reader. She has some problems with her husband’s role playing habits. Actually we are not sex therapist, so we are, not sure why she emailed us, in fact I am even not sure it is really on-going true happenings with her, or she just created it.

However either way, it worth 2 minutes from anyone times (who into adult dating)   to read he message.

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She wrote it:

I found your web site after searching through my husband’s search history on his computer. Yes, that might sound bad but it isn’t. I don’t care if he looks at porn or sex pictures, I look at them some times with him  and they turn me on. I was looking for a website that I had visited a few days ago and I noticed he visited here. I was curious about what your site was all about. I think you guys have a great site for people who are into  adult dating and adult dating related plays.

Actually I am not sure what exactly he was looking for here, because he can get as much sex as much he wants at home. He is very healthy, in fact can’t be any healthier, therefore he is often horny and  ready for sex at any given time. Anyway, here is my problem. I hope you can give me some advice.

My husband likes to wear costumes in bed. Let me put it differently, he likes to wear them when we have sex. He usually stock up on the cheap ones on sale after Halloween. I’m open to the idea of this, but these cheap costumes made from cheap plastic very cheaply, and they sometimes cut me. He cut my vagina once when has was wearing one of those plastic masks while he gave me oral sex.

I don’t mind the costumes, well I kind of do. I don’t like them because they are cheap and because he feels weird in them. I don’t wear them, he only he does. The plastic outfits don’t feel right on my skin.  As I said before these costumes are the cheap ones that  all made from synthetic materials.

Sometimes they come with fake hair, but that is another story. He buys them in the Dollarama.

Once again, for reading my email, I like your website, so much, I have recommended it to my girlfriend.  She told me something wrong with her husband sex drive. He isn’t into love making anymore. I thought they were going to break up, but she found a guy to screw her together with her husband every now and then.

I am not sure it is right or not. Sometimes I fantasize to get screwed by two guys at once… and in that fantasy, I would not mind to wear a costume.

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As I said we are not sexologist, but your messages got my attention and I Googled your mail’s subject. Actually you could do the same… just Google it. Anyway I found a website, and they have an on-line adult dating magazine, there are few similar posts. Check them out, several people responded with several different  ideas.

Here is what  our stuff and I suggest to you.

I would ask him what type of costume turns him on the most. Then I would go to your local costume or adult store or it might be a Fetish store. Yes, there are costume and fetish shops still around. Look in your phone book or search the world wide web. At these shops they will have better costumes. Some of them might actually be made right there in the shop. Some places do this in case you need the costume changed to fit you perfectly.

I would go through the store and find one that he likes. Make sure it doesn’t have plastic or sharp metal parts or anything that can cut you. If you can get silk or crushed velvet, that would be the best. That will feel good against your skin. This might sound a little weird, but I would suggest to him that you also get one. Maybe because he is into the whole costume thing, he might be into you wearing one and you said you would not mind the have a  three way if you are in a costume, so you can consider this like a practice… Practice makes perfect, you never know, you might will have a wild night of sex with you hubby.

Unless this is something that he always does, I wouldn’t get too worried about it. Be more worried about the health hazards from the cheap costumes. If he is doing it once or twice a month, it is just a fetish, or erotic role-play. We all have some kind of kinky thing in our mind that we might  try to do, and that is completely normal. Of course there are some borders, that no should cross, but lets not go there now.

If you are already having a good sex life, don’t let his role play practice  stop you. Embrace it for all its worth. It could be something else that makes your sex life good. Never knock something until you try it!

About the second part of your email. If I were you I would not worry about your girlfriend’s preferences with men, but if it really does bother you, you can try to do something about it. I am not sure how open minded are you, but if you really worry about her, why don’t you do something more than give her advice. You wrote that you thinking about having a threesome and your husband is ready for sex at any time. Her husband and she already experienced  in your fantasy sex play, so  ask her to help you out, and you fix two problems at once.

Talk with your hubby and talk with your girlfriend. For starters organize a Back to School  costume party together, this time of the year that Back to school erotic parties are all over, but if you do not need a reason for partying, than make  a party in sexy costume. I am sure your husband is going to like that. If you think this is way is too much, you should suggest to her to visit the same erotic on-line dating magazine, that I  suggested to you, and she will find a lot of sex life related tips and advises, what to do and how to do…

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If you do not want to partying with your girlfriend and with her husband, than you just need to find a few wanna be party animal guys. Its easy to find, students moved to colleges and universities, so you just need to go somewhere  close to colleges and or universities, or visit bars that these students like to visits. If it does not work for you, then you need to search the Internet, for example our partner – sponsor’s members here.

Hope it will work out for you…

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Married woman want more. More is merrier.

I found this website by accident… More is merrier, is it  true? I guess who ever is looking for, will find something. Let me explain, what got me here. I am a 35 year old married woman,  married since 22.

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In the first few years sex was good and that make life beautiful, however sex life has become stale. We get so bored with routine sex. We’ve tried toys, new positions, you name it, we’ve done it.

We’ve tried to be creative by trying to have sex at different places, but nothing seems to work! Sex isn’t fun anymore, and both of us know this. I want to have fun, I simply want to find someone else… but I love him and he loves me… but I am frustrated and shy as I am I feel that day to cheat is very close.

Ultimately I do not wish to be a cheater, I want to bring the spark back into our bedroom so I thought, I should ask here. What should we do? Any tips would be much appreciated.

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I am sure you are not alone with your problem. Once the honeymoon’s over and you settle into the everyday life, it’s easy to get bored. A lot of people burdened by the demands of career, family, mortgage, sex is the last thing on their what to do list. However along with food and shelter, we need sex. Some of us need more some others less, in recipes ranging from simple to spicy.

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As you wrote it creativity is very important. Creativity isn’t just for artists. We all have a creative side to us; creativity is the key to great sex.

You need to keep it flowing so no one never knows what to expect. Sometimes in life not knowing what is going to happen is great.

Variety is the spice of life. Without it, our lives really get old fast.

I mean, you have to have some changes in life to keep you on your toes. I have known people who do the same exact job their entire lives, but I can’t see how they do it. I mean, years after years do the same thing, I would get sick of it.

The same is true in bed. If you always go through the same motions, you won’t keep your partner interested. If the routine is, kissing him, he is going down on you and penetration, you are in a rut. He might like this, but some variety will wake him up too.

Not everything in life needs to be cut and dry. This is true in the bedroom. If you guys don’t spend time thinking harder of new ways to make love, sex will get to be too much of a routine activity. Every older couple knows what happens then. Either you think I can’t turn him on anymore, or you’ll think about cheat on him.  My partner say, work hard and play harder, and this works for us…

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Do I miss something here? She asked tips or advice what should they do to make their sex life fulfilling again,  and everyone talk about their own sex life.

What kind of advice is; “Work hard play harder”? What work have to do with sex?

Anyways, there are many things that anyone can try, or try  some that they think, you think you will enjoy both. For example:

Food in bed. Remember as a kid you were told not to eat in bed? Now that you are an adult, you can without the guilt. Use foods that are sweet and that you can smear on each other. Stay way from spicy or salty food. You don’t want to get that stuff around your privates, but whipped cream or foam, honey, peanut butter.  It can be fun.

Change your love making positions. This is an easy way to spice up your sex life. If you normally do it one way, switch to another way. Switch roles, you go on top of him. This will also give both of you a chance to explore what feels good for each of you.

Talk dirty. Pretend that both of you are enjoying phone sex with each other. Tell each other what you would do to each other while you masturbate. Not only this is a big turn on, but he can watch you while you bring yourself to orgasm. What is more fun than that?

Sex toys.  There are more toys than vibrators… Try them, figure out how to use them, that can be  a lot of fun. Be a kid again. Get some toys that both of you can use on each other. Explore, and enjoy each others new found sensual areas.

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Porn. Oh yeah, every healthy man loves porn.  Some women too, like myself… 🙂 This can add some spice into your sex life. Don’t do it too much, he might think you are looking for a porn star like man. I would suggest that you get a movie with a plot. Or get one of those android box, unlimited porn there. You will enjoy the sex, he will enjoy the movie.

How open minded are you, and how open minded is he? You said you are thinking about cheat on him. Don’t cheat, instead ask him to set up a mfm Threesome  for you. There are a lot o homework to do, before you get into this, but if you make it happen you might like it…

Three is company. You can start with a  couple… Why not have a three way? Do you have a buddy that would like to do you? His lady with your hubby in the same room? Is he curious about having sex with another woman? Actually you don’t have to do each other, you can watch each other. It can be a great turn on and a great amount of fun.  Why not see where it goes?

You tried threesome and its not enough. Well, you can take your sex life to the next level, which is Swinging. If your marriage and love strong enough let’s get kinky.  Hey, why not try it? You can go to a swingers club and observe… If you don’t like what you see, you can walk out… or stay and walk on the wild side…

I am sure there will be couples like you there. You can just have sex with your own man, while an other couple is in the same room. A couple who you like. If you are feeling on the edge, you can play erotic games together with them. If two couples start to play erotic games it’s usually ends up in great sex.

Role plays and Costumes.  It can be a great way to add something different into your sex play. You can role play in an old Halloween costume. He can be super man while you are little red riding hood. Or teacher – student, photo model, porn star, prostitute, etc.  Some of this role play scenario does not even need costume.

Sex doesn’t have to be boring. I know, if you have sex with the same person for years, it will get boring. It will  get more boring if you allow it to, but there is always a way to spice it up. The question is: How far would you go?

Happy banging. I hope it helped a little.

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What are you after?

Either way 10 things to do at Easter time, and when Easter is over, anyone free to do this 10 things on any weekend… Of course you can do the next things only if you have someone to do things with…

Not easy to figure out what to do on Easter’s Saturday night, if you not plan to spend it with your family and even harder if we are talking about a normal, boring Saturday night. The hard part is to find someone to spend that Saturday night with, if you have someone than you need to be smart.

You have to make your partner understand, what it is you’re really after. The hard part is avoiding misunderstandings about what you want. Whether it’s everlasting love or casual o string attached play, you’ll want to tailor your plans accordingly.

The following advises should help you clearly and effectively convey your true intentions. I assume you are a man, than.

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ASKING HER OUT IF IT’S ROMANCE
Call at least four days in advance, requesting the pleasure of her company.

IF IT’S VANNA HAVE NSA RELATIONSHIP
Call her at least 20 minutes in advance, and ask, “Can I come over?”

DRESSING FOR THE EVENING IF IT’S LONG TERM ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP
Maximize class factor. Channel Audrey Hepburn.

IF IT’S CASUAL
Maximize jiggle factor. Channel Pamela Anderson.

EATING INIF IT’S ROMANCE
Cook most the meal yourself, but invite your partner to join you for the finishing touches, to give a sense of partnership. This meal should convey the idea that loving domesticity can be a feast for the senses. Choose a homey yet delicious menu, such as roast chicken or rack of lamb. Drizzle truffle oil over mashed potatoes, transforming this ordinary dish into a veritable bowl of luxuriousness.

IF IT’S WANNA HAVE CASUAL PLAY
Prepare appetizers before your guest arrives: finger food, nothing fancy. Keep the lighting low, romantic music, scented candles, and some mild kinky movie in the DVD player. The idea is that she may nibble, but YOU are the main course.

EATING OUT IF IT’S MIGHT BE A NEVER ENDING LOVE
Choose a restaurant based on romantic potential: soft lighting, somewhat quiet ambiance, a menu rooted in the Romance Languages: French, Spanish, Italian, quiet jazz – bar music.

IF IT’S CASUAL
Choose a restaurant where you can order over protein rich foods, like oysters, foie gras, chocolate mousse, that spoil quickly, implying that this is a onetime opportunity, and there’s no chance of a repeat performance.

WHEN THE BILL ARRIVES and if you want to be loved by her in the rest of your life
Discreetly take it as soon as it arrives, and don’t allow her to see it. Decline her offer to split it with you. After all, her company is payment enough.

IF IT’S No string attached
Look at the bill. Then look at her. Say, “So. Are you coming over?”

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TAKE HER TO THE MOVIES IF IT’S ROMANCE
Ask her if there’s anything she’d like to see. After all, how bad can Samurai Tomb Destroyer’s new adventure really be?

IF IT’S CASUAL
If she want to movie, try to choose something really boring. Sit in the back row. But the best thing would be to take her home and watch kinky movie.

IF IT’S LOVE and she does not want to go to the movie theater.
Go home with her and rent a movie on pay per view or AMAZON, what ever system you use at home.Go for a popular drama, comedy, or foreign film.

IF IT’S NSA and she isn’t into kinky movies.
Than rent a DVD and try to find something that labeled, “Terms of Endearment.” But make sure you’ve switched the disk inside with the adult title, “Terms of Endowment.” Once you’ve turned it on, feign surprise, then say, “Well, we have no choice now, so might as well watch this one.”

GOING TO A PARTY IF IT’S ROMANCE
Tell her she’s the most beautiful woman in the room. Then take her up on the roof or into the garden to look at the stars. Kiss her on the lips.

IF IT’S CASUAL
Tell her she’s the hottest babe in the room. Then take her into the bathroom. Kiss her everywhere but the lips.

THROWING YOUR OWN PARTY Not a bad idea at Easter IF IT’S LOVE
Proudly introduce her to everyone by her name and as “She is my lovely girlfriend”. Don’t invite ex-boyfriends unless they’re truly good friends with no ulterior motives.

IF IT’S Casual
Just say, he name and look uncomfortable. Make sure you invited as many of your exes as you could. If it doesn’t work out with her, maybe you’ll get lucky with one of the ex.

CULTURAL EVENTS IF IT’S LOVE
Surprise with box seats at the opera. Offer to buy her outfit and go with rented limousine to pick her up.

IF IT’S Casual
Surprise her with seats at a strip club. Offer to buy her a lap dance from man dancer.

If you manage to follow the above advises, does not matter you are after her because you want to build a long lasting romantic –  based on love relationship or you just want to have string attached sex play, either way, if  you do it right you will succeed and you will have a memorable Easter.

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Rick and I had been married for a little over four years. The first six months we spent catching up on all the sex we thought we’d missed out on while we were both single. Neither one of us was very experienced sexually before we started dating each other. Our lovemaking had become pretty much unexciting and routine in our four years of marriage.

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Sure, we’d tried a lot of various positions and explored our desires. We were very happy with our marriage but felt we were missing out on something and wouldn’t discover what it was. In bed of an evening we’d often small talk about people we’d like to have sex with. Just talk, nothing we’d ever expect to really experience. We had a good, solid marriage, no jealousy or apprehension between us. Rick and I both had a roving eye but neither of us ever pursued an extramarital affair.

In bed one evening, we were watching a porno movie on Android box, something about swingers couples. Porno movies always turned me on especially if one or more of the guys was exceptionally well endowed. Rick’s about average in size I guess, not that I’ve had much to compare it to. I’d only been with one other guy and that was before I met and fell in love with Rick. Just figured most guys had about seven inches except for those porn stars. We got to talking about how some of the women in the movie had seemed a little reluctant to get into wife swapping. I kidded Rick about why they didn’t call it “husband swapping”. Rick just chuckled and said “wife swapping” sounded sexier.

On the drive to work the next morning, Rick brought up the subject of “swinging”, another term I’d heard for wife swapping. I figured he was trying to get me to voice my opinion on the subject. I kidded him about me being with another guy while he was with another woman. I figured Rick would get insanely jealous at the sight of me with another guy sexually. We’d been out with some of our friends nightclubbing and dancing. Rick always seemed to keep an especially attentive eye on me if I was dancing with one of our friends. If dancing would cause him concern, then having sex with another guy would put him well over the edge.

I wouldn’t approve of Rick having an extramarital affair. I’m pretty open minded but not that open minded. Rick kept chatting away about how exciting it must be to experience sex with a lot of different people. It did get me thinking that it might be very exciting but also very dangerous to our marriage. I tossed a few questions to Rick about how he’d really feel and react to seeing me getting fucked by another guy or sucking on another guy’s cock. The questions almost caused him to drive off the road, don’t know whether it was out of excitement or distraction. I toned down the conversation a little so we’d make it to work safely.

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All day at work I kept thinking about the conversation Rick and I had on the drive in that morning. I’ll have to admit I was kind of giving the idea a lot of serious thought. I’d been hit on by a couple of guys at the office but never took it seriously. The girls always referred to them as “hunters”, guys just out to score with as many women as they could. “Running Up the Scoreboard” was the way one of the girls called it. No way would I ever consider an office romance, that would be definitely heading for a disaster. During lunch I got to chatting with my closest friend, Sheila. The conversation pretty much revolved around how some of the guys in the restaurant looked very handsome in their expensive suits and silk ties.

Sheila is quite a character and outspoken about how she loves sex. Don’t think she’s ever had an office romance, if she has, she’s never let it be known, not even to me. I kind of smiled and recounted the discussion Rick and I had on the way to work that morning. Sheila’s draw just about dropped to the table as she blushed when I told her I felt Rick was trying to talk me into swinging with another couple. I felt comfortable telling Sheila about it since we keep our close conversations just between the two of us. Sheila grabbed my hand frantically and said we should give it a shot. “We’d love it” were her exact words. I asked her how did she know Rick and I would like it. Sheila whispered to me that she and her husband, Mike were into it and had there own little group of couples.

“You mean you meet with other couples and have sex with them?” I asked.

Sheila smiled. “Damn right we do and we love every minute of it. There’s nothing like it. We have four other couples that we meet on a regular basis and sometimes all get together for a big party, an orgy, so to speak.”

At first, I thought Sheila was just pulling my legs, but the look on her face told me otherwise. She was dead serious and not backing down from her statements. I was a little shocked at first but I had to ask questions. My main question was how it affected their marriage, had it caused any problems of any kind. I was afraid maybe she and Mike were having problems with their marriage and the “swinging” was a way to temporarily cope with it.

“No way are Mike and I having problems, in fact, our marriage is stronger now than it’s ever been”

“What about jealousy, surely there’s a chance someone could have a problem with that” I asked.

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Sheila’s reply was “Couples who are jealous of each other don’t stay in the lifestyle for very long. They drop out before it gets to be too big a problem.”

Sheila talked about a lot of the aspects of the swinging lifestyle including a few do’s and don’ts. I listened so intently I forgot to eat. The more she talked the more interested I became.

“Do you think you and Rick would be jealous of each other having sex with other people?” Sheila asked.

“I don’t think I would be jealous of Rick but I’m not sure he could handle the idea of me being with another guy. I’m not really sure.”

Sheila suggested she felt it best if Rick and I sat down and really talked it out before giving “casual sex” a try. “Make sure it’s something you both think you’d like to try and both of you can handle without any problems afterwards.”

“OK, we’ll talk about it this evening and I’ll see if I get any sort of hesitation from Rick if I tell him I’m interested”

I don’t think I realized what I’d just said until I said it. I’d pretty much let Sheila know that I was willing to have sex with another guy and not feel guilty about it afterwards. Sheila smiled coyly and I got an impression she had some ideas of her own. We hurried back to work running just a little bit late.

At the end of the day Sheila and I picked up our conversation where we’d left off. I usually have to wait a short while for Rick to pick me up so it gave us a chance to continue asking questions about what “swinging” and casual sex was really all about in married couples case, like we both are. I didn’t realize swinging wasn’t all about sex, but about forming good friendships and doing things socially. “Sex is just the icing on the cake” was Sheila’s favorite quote.

On the other site, casual sex, can be just a one time thing, so I definitely liked the idea of swinging much more.

Rick stopped in front of the office and Sheila and I walked towards the car. Sheila’s a bit of a flirt and she really put it on heavy when she got close enough to speak to Rick. He smiled and slightly blushed when Sheila leaned into the car to say “Hi”. I think she “made his day” to have her flirt with him a little. Sheila’s always got the top couple of buttons on her blouse undone and when she leaned into the car, I knew Rick could look down the top of her blouse.

The drive home was pretty uneventful, just idle chat about the workday. He’d had a pretty rough day at work and seemed very tired. After dinner and watching the evening news I got Rick’s attention away from the television long enough to get a conversation going. I had to admit I didn’t know how I was going to get the conversation headed towards swinging so I just came right out and asked him if he’d gotten over his idea of getting into wife swapping. He grinned like a kid with a new bicycle and said;

“Hell no, I kept thinking about it all day at work.”

“Well, I thought about it too. I even talked about it with Sheila at lunch and after work”

Rick couldn’t believe what I’d just told him.

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“Are you crazy, we don’t want anyone to know that we’ve even discussed it let alone actually thought about doing! Sheila might let it out and then we’d be faced with a lot of embarrassment”

I had to chuckle just a bit when I told him Sheila and her husband Mike were into the swinging lifestyle. The look on his face was one I’ll never forget. He’d always thought Sheila was just a big flirt and that was about it. He couldn’t get over the idea that she and her husband were into the “lifestyle”. It was like I’d breathed new life into him. He was all attentive and wanted to know everything Sheila and I had talked about. I filled Rick in on everything I could remember. I had my hand on his chest as I recanted the discussion. I could feel his heart beating faster and harder as I told him about the group of couples Mike and Sheila were involved in. I mentioned that I’d asked about the jealousy thing and how we’d have to handle it if it were to come up. I could see the look of concern on Rick’s face and I figured he might be hiding his concern about it too.

“I wouldn’t be jealous of you fucking another guy. After all, I’m going to be busy fucking the daylights out of another woman. I won’t have time to be jealous.”

Somehow I just couldn’t believe he actually meant what he’d just said. Saying you wouldn’t be bothered is one thing, but saying it after your spouse has just had sex with another person is another.

Rick asked, “Do you think you’d feel jealous or betrayed if I had sex with another woman?”

“Nope, not at all.” I quickly replied.

Couldn’t believe I’d admitted it to him so blatantly. I guess it was the way I actually felt. Think I must have been keeping it hidden and just blurted out unexpectedly. We kind of fell into our own little trains of thought as we smiled at each other. Not knowing what to say next, Rick asked me if I wanted to give it a shot and see if the swinging lifestyle was for us.

“I’m willing if you are, but if either one of us has any qualms about it, we get out and get out fast”

“Sounds good to me Babe. Now we need to decide how we go about finding another couple. Got any ideas?”

I knew by the sly grin on his face he was thinking about Mike and Sheila, probably fantasizing about getting his mouth on her breasts and his rock hard cock in her pussy.

“Let me talk with Sheila tomorrow at work and see what we can come up with”.

Rick wanted me to phone her right then but I told him I’d feel more comfortable talking with her face to face than over the phone.

We went to bed early that evening, enjoyed great sex and wore ourselves out but don’t think either of us slept much. I think the whole idea of swinging had us too excited or maybe it was just apprehension keeping us awake.

The drive into work the next morning was pretty quiet, mostly listened to the radio. We didn’t bring up any conversation about swinging. Maybe Rick was starting to have doubts, maybe he was just tired from lack of sleep. Continue Reading…

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There can be benefits in a casual relationship and there are a lot of erotic benefits in NSA sex.  Than comes romance and marriage. I just heard somewhere, marriage is the last legal form of slavery…

I like to be a sex slave, but I don’t want to be talk about my like… Instead you should decide what are you looking for, legal form of slavery or casual no string attached relationship.

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A lot of people say, enjoy life  before you get married and if you get married you should slow down. They think casual sex is part of the before marriage enjoyment and they love older womenOlder women exemplifies the experienced teacher of sexuality that many men fantasize about.

An older MILF. The definition of MILF is: MILFs are mothers, whether married, separated or divorced, that a male individual sees as physical attractive enough to want to have sexual intercourse with them. It does not have any age bracket, any mother in any age can be a MILF, but usually people do not call MILF a young single mother…

The best place to learn about sex is a bed with an experienced woman. MILFs are mothers, so very likely they have love making experience. Of course you need to have some basic knowledge and confidence too…

Sex with an older woman can have great benefits, for both partner if both of you comfortable with the idea of having sex. A MILF definitely comfortable to get into the bed with a young man, that is why she visits website like this.

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But are you comfortable to play with her? Do you want to make out with an older woman? Do you want to have sex with a woman, who might have children close to your age?

I know you think that, it is just sex. Yes it is true, but there can be something more then just sex…

I mean yes, the sex is great with someone when there is no strings attached to it. Nothing is more satisfying than being able to please yourself and your partner without having to worry about her bitching about the trash that needs taken out afterwards. No drama, and she does not want you to introduce you to her parents.

In fact you don’t even need to take her to the movie theater, list not to often, she does not want you to pay in the restaurant, she is financially stable, so very likely she wont cost you a will of fortune.

However, as I said above, there can be something more in this kind of relationship then sex. One night stand is ok, and beneficial, even if you make it two nights, but if you wanna be a  regular returning “visitor”, than you need to be very carefully… .

As I said, one night NSA sex is great thing with a MILF, but if your, older lady sex partner, turns into a regular sex partner then you need to know few things.

At first, everyone needs a companion include MILF or any older women. I like to think of this as a unleaded relationship. You are there, when there is a need, if the other person needs someone to talk to, and to full feel both of your sexual needs, she call you, and you go. It is like being in a relationship without all the nagging and other responsibilities that you have.

There is no need to worry about her bills or putting food on her table, or her having to worry about doing your laundry or taking care of the house.

However there are potential dangers comes with relationships like this though. Sometimes people may begin to mistake sex for love. When it comes to oral sex, she performs the best blow job what you ever had.

After awhile you are not a shy young man anymore, you begin to feel comfortable with her and you come to expect the sex. Then you might fall in love with her body. She can get you hard just to show her heart shaped naked ass, end if she bends over, you are ready to penetrate her.

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Things can happen with her too. She might mistake lust for love. She enjoys the pleasure that you are able to give her, and in her mind she think it is love, she thinks you love her.

While the only thing you are thinking about after sex, how erotic was to penetrate her in doggy style, how erotic was to see your hard cock slides in and out from her wet, nicely trimmed and shaved pussy. If you are not be careful these types of relationships turn into long term romantic  relationships.

NSA sex have no age limit as far as the partners are in adult age, there are no maximum limit in age difference. It happens between two adults, does not  matter  who is 22 years and who is 40 years old. This happens between them and it is only their business.

The sex is good, you don’t want to ruin a good thing, right? Why would you turn down an experienced lover for a lonely time with you and your bottle of hand lotion on a Saturday night?

Because  you do not want romance with someone who old enough to  be  you school teacher. That will cause trouble, sooner or later but that trouble will come.

These types of relationships are never good ones to per sue long term. They tend to end abruptly and cause a lot of pain. You better move on before you get dumped… or before those troubles arrives. Every man knows what I am talking about.

Casual sex with older women good only, if you are too busy for a real relationship. If you do not have enough time to date a girl in your age, or if you want to learn erotic things in a bed, then this is the best way to go.

Older women pay attention for details, for example protection. They know how important to play safe.

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Therefore you need to know when to get out, even from a NSA sex relationship. Does not matter if she is a MILF or she is a Cougar, does not matter how hot and young looking she is, you have to get out, before she or you might think, there is something more in your relationship then sex.

In the case you love older women,  there are a lot of them here, find an other for yourself, or let them find you…

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