Oral Sex – Cunnilingus – Fellatio

A lot of people love to give and receive oral sex everywhere – even in very conservative countries. It is fact, oral sex can be the most exciting sexual experience.

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Oral Sex means both, mouth contact with the vagina, which is called cunnilingus, and mouth contact with the penis, which is called fellatio.

Cunnilingus comes from a Latin word for vulva (a woman’s exterior sex organs), cunnus, and from the Latin word for licking, lingerie.

Fellatio comes from the Latin word fellare, meaning to suck.

Either form of oral sex can be done with one partner stimulating the other individually, or both partners can stimulate each others genitals simultaneously. Oral sex, if the sex partners perform on each other at the same time, commonly called 69.

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Oral sex (cunnilingus) can be dangerous. If a man performs oral sex on a woman (go down on her) and he blows into the vagina, accidentally or on purpose, he is quite likely to kill his partner one through air embolism! Death in such circumstances can be remarkably rapid, a matter of seconds. There are some such instances in the medical literature.

Fellatio

Oral sex, performed on men is called fellatio. Fellatio’s street name is blowjob. If anyone decide to give a blowjob for someone, the most important thing is: You as a giver, must love the penis you play with. You have to remember the penis is not a baseball bat, don’t hold back. Some gals (an bi men too) try to give a head while holding their partner’s penis at arm’s length. Give a head mean perform oral sex on men.

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If you decided to perform a blow job you have to appreciate the beauty of penis. They are all different, but there is something to love about nearly every one of them. Maybe it nice and big, or silky or strait, perhaps it have dashing curve.

If you are a female and unable to love penis with out turning off the light, then you have got a major problem in your sex life.

How to perform oral sex on a woman? At first you should know does she likes oral treatment down there… Ask her what make you happy?
If she says nothing – it means you are going to have to go down on her.

She should cum first so you need to spend as much time down there as much she needs to obtain her orgasm. Be sure you take your time and be gentle. Remember, your “assignment” is to make her cum and not to rip her pussy apart.

The ideal position to do this: She is lying in her back, you are lying between her legs, or you might be on you knees between her legs. Either way push your face very close to her pussy and inhale the smell of it and use your fingers to play with her clit a bit.

Be ready, her pussy might not smell like a flower garden. It can’t smell like flower, but it will smell and should smell even should taste as a clean vagina supposed too. No any man want to perform oral sex on a pussy that wasn’t washed in details…

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After a few minutes taste her. Gently open her pussy lips and take the inside pussy lips between your lips. Get it really wet with your saliva.
Then, grab her two inner lips between your lips. Rub them back and forth against each other with your lips and let it go.

Time come to use your tongue. Flick your tongue in light feathery kisses along the fleshy folds of the outer labia, smoothing away the pubic hair if she did not trimmed.

Finally, lay your tongue onto her clitoris. Start with little licks with the tip of your tongue. Move very gradually inwards with your tongue. Vary your movements according to your partner’s response. If she is grinding her hips a little, you know you are definitely on the right track. If she pulling her but a way, you are applying to much pleasure. It might hurt her.

If she pushes her pussy up, you’re not applying enough pressure, and if she starts jumping on your nose and shaking, don’t stop, she might cum.

If you made her cum with your tongue, you might start the action with your penis. If you “gonna make her cum” by intercourse too, she will tell to everyone that you are a sex god.

Her and the blowjob

If you are thinking about perform a blow job on someone and you never done it, before you do anything I have to tell you, to take a stinky, dirty penis into your mouth is not fan.

Therefor if your guy stinks, don’t do it. A lot of North American women believe, only a circumcised penis is a clean penis. They are wrong, someone is circumcised or non circumcised is not the indicator of a man cleanness. To get a penis circumcised usually is the parents decision, when the baby born.

It is fact, easier to keep clean a circumcised penis then an un circumcised, but both type of penis need to be washed on a regular basic…

I don’t want to get into circumcise a penis is a right or wrong decision, but as a circumcised penis can be dirty as a uncircumcised penis can be clean. In both cases some soap and some water can make a wonder.

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As I stated at above, You must love the penis you’re with. You have to remember the penis is not a baseball bat, and not ice cream. Guys love to receive blow job, not a dick-licking service.

How start to perform your magical blow job.

Trace a vertical line from his eye down to his penis. Start at up on his body and go down slowly. Use your tongue to lap, lick, or nibble along this line. Play with his, ear, neck and nipples. Kiss them suck them. It will turn him on big time.Guys can go from zero to 60 in a matter of seconds, it means a limp penis can turn to be a hard erected cock in a couple of seconds, if you do your things right.

Do what ever you do, but always go back to the a horizontal line. You can wonder left ans right, than back to the middle horizontal line of his body  and lick your way to his belly button. Spend some time there, just a few seconds. If he moans he likes it. Than you may spend some more time there. Finally go down to his genital area.

Glide your hand up his penis, gripping it firmly. Once you reach the crown, twist your wrist and open your hand so the flattest part of your palm is resting on the head. Caress the head — alternating between back-and-forth and circular motions — for just a few moments. Then grip your palm around the head and continue down the shaft with closed fingers.

At now you can start and should start with your mouth. The experience of having his penis sucked, licked and kissed is one that most men find intensely exciting. In some cases, there may be psychological barriers to overcome.

Some men fear being bitten during oral sex. You should open your mouth as wide as possible, and close your lips, but not your teeth, over his penis. Using all the muscles in the lips and tongue will mean that the teeth should not come into contact with the penis at all.

All men are different, so there is no any written rule what you should do. Keep trying it and if you have difficulties your partner will help you. However something that many men complain about is that women forget that a penis has three parts. It has a balls, a head and the body. For most men the balls are the most sensitive part and often this part receives the least attention. So suck his balls too if you want to finish him fast…

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Safe Oral Sex

Although there is no chance for pregnancy to happen from oral sex, unprotected oral sex puts both partners at risk for a number of sexually transmitted infections. The risks of infection are generally quite a bit lower with unprotected oral sex than with unprotected vaginal or anal intercourse, using a barrier during oral sex can further decrease those risks.

For oral sex on a man,  condom reduces the risk. In almost every sex shop possible to buy condoms in any colour and any taste that are designed and made for oral sex only.

For oral sex on a woman, risk of infection can be reduced by using a dental dam, Glyde® dam, plastic wrap, or cut-open condom to cover the vulva.However, personally I never met any woman who used dental dam or anything to cover her pussy to receive oral sex. They say, receive oral sex with dental dam, is like you take shower but your jeans is on.

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Otherwise, spitting may reduce the risk of certain infections more than swallowing. Of course, keeping ejaculate out of the mouth is even safer.

Perform or receive oral sex, both partners need to be prepared. Bath, trim, shave, and brush your tongue. Put some perfume on the right places, but never, ever, wear cheap to strong cologne. If you can not afford a good quality perfume, then don’t wear perfume at all. Use only deodorant.

Eating a woman’s pussy is the most wonderful thing a man can do for her. It makes her day. It’s very polite from the guy to do her first. You shouldn’t give her signals to go down on you, before you did it on her. If you do not like eating pussy, you better change your likes and dislikes, because most of ladies in our today’s open sexuality word love oral sex much more then the actual intercourse.

You should know, even if you have the smallest dick in the entire world, but if you have a magic tongue, you will be appreciated as a fabulous lover.

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How to play with your male sex partner balls (testicles)?

An easy way would be, just suck it, but it is not that simple.

An open minded woman said: I was very young when I performed my first blow job on a man, (actually he was a teen boy) I was unskilled and did not really know what to with that penis in my mouth, however I loved his penis. I liked the smell and the taste of it, and I started to love his peniswhen I realized he liked my activity too.

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Also I figured out fairly fast, I hag control over him. I was very unskilled, I guess I was an orally talented sex partner, because without any experience or knowledge, I could control the hardness of his erection and I was even able to delay his orgasm…

I was very young but I already loved penis. Later on, that year, I met with an older guy and he taught me how to perform oral sex and what to do and what not to do whit man’s sex organ, including how to play with testicles.

The most important thing that you need to know, before you go down on a man; You must love the penis you’re with. You have to remember the penis is not a baseball bat, don’t hold back. Some gals try to give a head while holding their partner’s penis at arm’s length. If you decided to perform a blow job you have to love and have to appreciate the beauty of penis, including the smell and the taste.

Different Penises

Men are different and their penises are different too, but a clean penis is very suck-able.  Men usually loves it when their female sex partner perform oral sex on them.

You as a woman should find something to love in every one of them. Maybe it is nice and big, or silky or strait, or it have an erotic curve. If you are a female and you can not to love penis, don’t even bother to try to perform oral sex. Your partner wont like it. However I am not here to teach you how to perform fellatio, I assume you already know that. If you don’t you can find some fellatio related info here.

I am here to explain you, what you should do with his testicles or let’s call them balls while you perform oral sex on him.

The male testicles are very sensitive, you should not be rough down there, it can be painfully. You want to pleasure him, not to cause pain… I assume your tongue is dripping wet, because you already sucked his shaft all the way from the bottom  to the top.  Sucking a wet cock with a wet mouth sounds very erotic.

Start to massaging those balls, with your hand lightly maybe scratching them very lightly with your fingernails. If you want to take him to the orgasm’s haven you may also want to reach behind and underneath the balls to get to that very sensitive area just before the anus.

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His Anus Area

A lot of nerves ending are in that are and those nerves can effect his erection.  You can be sure your activity will produce reactions in his cock. If you know what you do, then now is time to play with his golden hole area. If he pulls his but a way give it up, but if his erection getting harder, then he likes what you do, so keep doing it. You might place your very wet (from your saliva) index finger into his ass hole.

Your finger is in his ass-hole, with your other hand you left his cock up a bit and start to play with his balls with your tongue. However this varies of his position. The best position to do this, he is laying on his side, his bottom leg is strait and the top one is bend into a triangle.  You are between his legs. This position give you easy access to his genital area.

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Let’s get back to his balls. Suck them, you can suck one and the other, I don’t think both will fit in your mouth at once. Be gently, very gently. Already mentioned at above those balls are extremely sensitive to pain.  Most of the men like that when their lady partner kisses and licks the skin around the testicles, so do it. Perform a hand job on him, like you masturbate him. You should try to pull the balls away from his body with your wet, hot lips. If you think he will cum, slow down. You don’t want to take him to the no return point. If you delay his orgasm several times, his joy will be bigger and better when he reach it.

Before he reach the no return point you might notice, his penis starts to swell, the skin on his testicles will get tighter and his balls will travel up to close to his body.

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What else can you do with his balls? If you having sex in doggy style, you should reach behind him, between your leg, and pull his balls slightly a way from his body. With this move, you get into the drivers seat. You can control the speed and the deepness of his trust and he is going to have a mind blowing orgasm.

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Why some women do swallow semen?

In my experience there are women who love to give blow jobs and swallow a man’s semen, some other just spit it out or did not even let me discharge into their mouth.

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My wife swallows (my cum only) and I asked her what she likes on it and she said,  it gives her sexual energy… and makes her fill powerful.

I would lie if I say I don’t like when she swallows, and in fact it makes me really exited. Continue reading…

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But just recently we had a chance to play with a couple, the women’s breast was extremely beautiful and her blow job technique was really good too, and before she took me to the no return point via blow job, she told me, she loves when a man cum on her face and or on her breasts, but she did not like to swallow.

I asked why, and she said, the cum makes her skin nice, and she do not swallow, because she never did and she wont try for safe sex reason. I think her reason is a respectable reason.

But I know there are ladies, like my wife, who loves to swallow.  So this question is for them; Ladies… why do you like to swallow a man’s load….or why don’t you? Continue reading…

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Human’s tongue is covered with small bumps called papillae which in all purposes, our taste buds.

By swallowing, I don’t taste a thing.

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When I swallow… I didn’t wanna spit it out on my floor, or on my car seat, or run to the bathroom.

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I have met women that like to swallow and others that just don’t, it depends on their preferences and their mood..

If I cum hard in their mouth, they don’t have to much choices, so they usually will swallow to start.

I leave it up to them can’t force the issue, I can make look like it was an accident, but if I do it twice, than probably that was it for my sex play, it is up to them. She swallow or don’t makes no difference for me, as far as I have  my share of orgasm… Continue reading…

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I love to swallow and let it go down deep in my throat. I love to see my mans face when I make that cum disappear.

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For me it’s not an open and shut case, it all depends on the mood of the moment. Like most our pleasure most of
the time depends on our partners experience. If he’s really into the blow job he’s getting then okay…

If he likes it but maybe something else might give an even bigger charge then let’s change things up. As for me I’m okay with where to cum, just not in my hair!

If it’s my choice I’d say deep in my ass after about two hours of play. The play would of been good or you wouldn’t be in there in the first place. Continue reading…

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