There are 4 types of people who use this site.
1. Those looking for a hook up, one night stand or NSA sex.
Those looking for a relationship of some kind, include sex friendship or friendship with benefits, maybe fuck buddies. 3. Those looking to participate in the Community aspect of erotic adult dating, to entertain themselves. This type of people seat 24/7 at the front of the commuter. They are always, chat or video chat or post comment on on-line dating magazine, or give advice etc. They are very active on the site, but they not really looking for anything.
Those who don’t know what they want.
What ever is your reason to be here, you have to join the site and create your own profile to do anything… (it is free).
A catchy profile is:
Clear and short. Describe yourself with creative descriptions (and be honest). You do not write I am Barbie, if you short and your weight is over 1000 LBS. Don’t write I like to go out, watch movies and listening music. Lot of people like that! Better to give some details. Let them know what you like and don’t like! Remember: You write your profile, and an erotic profile is like an ad, so you make the rules!
Don’t write: I am funny guy. If you are funny, make your profile funny too.
Keep in mind: The age is not everything, but counts. Your age, your marital status and have children or don’t is important, especially if you are looking for somebody for no string attached sex relationship.
Practice casual sex is like swinging, a lifestyle that couples enjoy to help them live out their fantasies with other adults. Singles can be involved in the lifestyle, and are involved, since many couples are looking for either an extra male or female to help them live out a threesome fantasy. What singles must remember when they are lucky enough to be involved is that it is a privilege and they must treat it as privilege.
Many of the problems single men have in trying to get into this lifestyle are brought on by themselves.
Most of them treat the ladies as sluts or nymphomaniacs. Threesome is sharing, what the single guy share? Why can not find girlfriend? Oh, your girlfriend not into threesome or casual sex? Then you shouldn’t either, or find other girlfriend. Remember, sharing is two sided. But if you single and really want to get into the lifestyle, keep trying. Be friendly, clean, very polite, see things positive and who know maybe one day you may get what you want.
There are a lot of more thing…
Give some idea what kind of person or persons you are looking for, but don’t over do it. Not to good idea making a picky ad. Nobody will respond. Try to use popular words, like: active, ambitious, bashful, charring, cheerful, classic, creative, dependable, easygoing, elegant, erotic, friendly, fierily, fit, flexible, generous, good lover, good kisser, honest, hot, horny, intelligent, intense, joyous, joyful, kinky, loyal, modest, mature, nice, open minded, optimistic, patient, romantic, pretty, professional, serious, smart, sweet, swingers, swingers couple, vibrant, vivacious, warm, wonderful, wild, wholesome, young, etc. If you looking for sex only with no commitment make it clear at the beginning.
Also a photo worth more than 1000 words. If you worry about your privacy, cover your face. You don’t need to go to professional photographer, use your webcam, or cell phone, or your digital camera. Very easy to make a photo today.
Basically it is pretty simply really. It’s salesmanship! You are trying to capture your targeted audiences attention in a field that is flooded with very competitive competition.
The best ads in any field are attractive to the eye, clever, and well written. They are not rushed, gimmicky, or run of the mill
Define your search parameters and then compare those parameters with what others are seeking. In other words read their profiles carefully and look to see how what they are looking for compares to what you have to offer.
Taking the shotgun approach (spraying a flock with pellets hoping to hit something) is not really much of a sound tactical strategy on an erotic dating website…
As it’s been said, at above good photos make the profile stand out and since variety is the spice of life, post a few and make sure they are good shots. Just a dick or pussy picture will not do it! Do that only, if you want to run with the herd. If somebody want to see your genital, that person will ask you, and than you can decide to send a photo, or don’t…