I have to state it, before any misunderstanding; in the next post when I talk about adult dating, it stands for erotic adult dating or no string attached adult dating. Usually it begins with an open minded couples. A couple would like to play (erotic) with an other couple, or a husband want to share his wife with a single man.
However there a lot of men women couples, single men and women are into no string attached adult dating for many different reasons, but the end result is the same, no string attached adult fun.
It starts with a couple, or a single persons, who are looking for couples for casual sex. Easy to find a willing couple, if you are looking for casual sex with your partner, spouse, wife or husband.
We have found a willing couple! What is next?
Meet them at a neutral setting (i.e. restaurant or lounge). This makes it much easier to leave if things don’t go well. Be on time and make sure that you have given each other specific contact information (i.e. what kind of car, dress, etc).
Prepare preset signals to communicate with your partner, such as “Yes”, “No”, “Maybe”, and “Let’s get the hell out of here!” Generally when you are just starting out you should never arrange for another meeting that night, this gives you and your partner time to discuss your feelings before making a commitment to the other couple.
There is one exception, you can go further on your first meeting, if you are looking for one night stand.
We’ve met and we want more. What we should do?
Don’t be shy, ask! Make it clear what do you want. Open conversation the best. Talk about your rules. Same room, different rooms, swap, or just, some kind of soft, erotic play, etc. Once everyone is agree, just go for it. Just remember, “NO” means NO, at any time.
I’m a single man. Is no string attached adult dating just for couples?
Adult dating, erotic adult dating can be a lifestyle that couples enjoy to help them live out their fantasies with other adults. Singles can be involved in this, and are involved, since many couples are looking for either an extra male or female to help them live out a threesome fantasy.
What singles must remember when they are lucky enough to be involved is that it is a privilege and they must treat it as privilege. Many of the problems single men have in trying to get into this lifestyle are brought on by themselves.
Most of them treats ladies as sluts or nymphomaniacs. Casual sex with a couple mean, the single man is their sex toy. If you can’t handle this, than play with your girlfriend only.
Why can not find girlfriend? Oh, your girlfriend not into nsa sex? Then you shouldn’t either, or find other girlfriend. Remember, no string attached adult fun is two sided. But if you are single and really want to get into nsa sex, keep trying. Be friendly, clean, very polite, see thinks positive and who know maybe one day you may get what you want.
How should I dress for a sex party or an adult dating get together?
When I said adult dating get together, I meant; Our website have many adult groups. Some of these groups organize, adult dating get together on a monthly basics.
Your outfits depends on the get together reason. if that reason is a erotic party, than ask your host, about the dress code.
if no dress code, than usual dress will be casual, but neat. If it will be pyjama party you should wear pyjama too. If you don’t and everyone else do, you will be uncomfortable. But you can wear any dress, just relax.
Usually ladies show up very sexy, they are trying to make the best impression what they can. Men can shows up in casual wear.
But, if you plan to participate in a “swingers” party, in most of the clubs jeans and running shoes are not allowed.
Sex party, casual dressing ok. If you are serious, sooner or later you will un dress in your undies… so sexy underwear would help for ladies…
What about sexual diseases, (STD)?
There are many scary diseases, therefore anyone in casual sex should practice safe sex only. Some women’s profile states it, bare back only, or we are into penetrative sex with out condoms.
If this happens with you, than you have to think like Forrest Gump (the movie). Run Forrest, run!
Never let anyone to dictate you: No protection no NSA sex.
However, the risk of disease should not be the reason not participate in no string attached casual sex, because it can be minimize very easily. I strongly recommend condoms for any type of penetrative sexual encounter. You can make your sex life as safe as you want it to be!
We are a married couple. Can our marriage be damaged if we get into NSA Sex with buddies?
Set up rules and keep them, if you find them to tight lose them, but always communicate with your partner. Don’t do anything what don’t want to do, or what make your partner uncomfortable or jealous.
If you practice no string attached casual sex or swinging this way, your marriages will improve and your relationship will be stronger and better all the time.
Quality or quantity? We’re talking about nsa sex.
This question usually comes from males. Ask any women, they’ll will give you the same answer. You should not test yourself how many times you are able to do it. One quality experience is much more better then one night long mediocre pussy pounding.
But a fore play never long enough. You can make this as long as long you wish, it just will make better quality.
What should I know about casual sex & swingers lifestyle…
Hard to say. What very important for me, maybe not that important for you.
However always be be open, be clean and positive, if something bothering you, let your partner know it.
I believe the most important, one way or other, have fun, and be sure your partner have some fun too, because if don’t (special if your partner is your wife) maybe that was your first and last no string attached casual sex experience with her.
Interest of some men…
Attempting to hire an escort or sex worker to go to a sex party or to an adult dating event with you, if you don’t have a regular female partner, just so you can get in the door is a terribly poor idea.
This is considered inappropriate at every adult club I have ever heard of, is generally sufficient to get you black listed, and is a ruse that is highly likely to be noticed by others.
A related concept is taking along someone who isn’t really your primary partner and isn’t really interested in adult dating activity; such folks are called “tickets” (i.e. you just used them as a “ticket” to get in the door), and this practice isn’t looked upon favourably either.
If you want nothing more than to see your female partner have sex with another woman, you will probably be better off forgetting about it until she brings it up.
Wandering around by yourself attempting to find a woman who wants to have sex with your lady, or otherwise trying to push this personal choice into happening, is considered quite crass.
Finally, please remember to converse with both members of a couple you and your partner are interested in, not just the partner you are interested in having sex with. Ultimately it’s your ability to form friendships with COUPLES which will determine the quality of your erotic experience in the adult dating community.