First read their profile. Very carefully and check all the words. The best word by word. When you are finished and think the description what the ad looking for is you, send your answer. Of course if someone looking for a couple and you are a single men, it is not the best idea to answer.
Never be rude:
If someone is responding to your ad you should answer too, even if your answer will be no thanks. The only time when you are not rude if somebody writes to you, and he/she is not even close what you are looking for. Example: If you are looking for girl for NSA sex, and some bi male contact you, you wont be rude if ignore his mail.
There are a lot of rules in erotic dating. Who ever wrote the ad , created the profile- made the rules. Take it or leave it. If she is looking for a maximum 30 years old non smokers, and you are 55 and heavy smokers – don’t even waste your time to write response. Wont work.
The above tips’ list is almost endless, how to write an how to respond to an ad, but if you keep in your mind what you read above, your change to find someone will be pretty big.
There are a lot of other things that you should not ignore before contact someone.
For example here is one: If someone looking for romantic dating partner and you want someone for casual sex, don’t waste your time to messaging that person. It wont work.
The other, if somebody looking for local dating patter, and you are living in an other city, than that wont work either. Therefore, you have to “study” the profile, before you select those who you contact.
Remember honesty is you best policy. Does not matter what you are looking for, romance or nsa, if you are honest sooner or later you will find your ideal dating partner
Good luck in your search.