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I am a 44 year old woman. I consider myself attractive. My husband passed a way 3 years ago, leaving me widowed. I don’t need a husband, I don’t need commitments but I do need sex. Even though I am 44, there can be a first time…

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Because of my professional (I own and run a law office) I don’t want to get into the bar scene. I didn’t know where to find what I need, until recently. Continue reading…

On that day I got a case with a new client. She was the owner of the local swingers club, with a website. It is very similar to swingers couple’s website. She believed her website hosting service redirects her web traffic, on simple English it is stealing. But I am not here to talk about my job.

Because of my job and of course of my curiosity, I spend a lot of time analyzing her business’ website. At one night I browsed it and read a lot of very erotic ads, and those ads turned me on.

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I have long time erotic fantasies, to make love with two young guys at once, and I found an ad. “Two young couples looking for older women for adult fun,” and a phone number. I did not hesitate, I dialed the number. A man with deep sexy voice answered my call. I was very nervous, but what the heck,” I am the person that they are looking for.” I told myself. I explained everything to him.

I told him I had built up a lot of frustration the past three years and now I need men. I don’t need their wives, I just need them. Also I told him because of my personal life, discretion is a must. After this I wasn’t nervous anymore. We chatted for about two hours on the phone and at the end we set up a meeting at a café at next evening. Continue reading…

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I hung the phone up and started to think? What am I doing? At a café? I am not a virgin. I don’t have time for these dating games. I need sex and a lot and need it now or as soon as possible, and I made a plan. After several phone calls everything was ready for a party. I reserved a suite for tomorrow in one of the downtown hotels. Continue reading…

The day past by fast. Around 7, I called the yesterday’s phone number. The same bedroom voice answered the phone. I told him something happened and I can not go to the café at 8, but I do not want to cancel our date. I asked him what about if he and his friend wait for me in the hotel room. He did not have a problem with this.

Basically not a thing have happened, but this was the easiest way to invite them to the hotel room and this left me a narrow escape way, if they turn to be not attractive enough. In that case I can say that, sorry gentlemen, but I have to leave you because something happened.

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I arrived at 10. A tall handsome young man opened the suite’s door. He introduced himself as Sam and with a gesture invited me to the room. He was the deep voice guy that I talked with the day before. The living room was nicely furnished and soft music was playing. He asked me what would I like to drink. I told him a Martini is fine. Continue reading…

He yelled my order to the other room, (I figured there was the bar and the other guy) then he took my hand into his and asked me what my expectation was from this night. I thought I was to shy to talk about my expectation, because it was only XXX rated sex. However his gentlemanly manner and deep sexy voice made it easy for me. We were chatting soon about love making details, when the other guy came in with a tray, and three glasses on it.

Sam introduce me to Larry. Larry was tall and blond. He wasn’t wearing a shirt. One look at his athletic body made my juices flow. He excused himself for a moment and left into the other room while Sam invited me to dance. We were very close, I felt his penis on my crotch. I thought my nipples would burn a hole in my bra… Finally Sam’s hand found my breast and his mouth my neck. I swooned as he started to play with my hard nipples. Continue reading…

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Larry returned, but I did not see him until he pulled my dress’s shoulder straps off my shoulder. I let it fall to the floor and in one step and I was dancing with a young man who was a stranger to me, only with my sexiest lace panties and bra on. Larry rubbed his hard-on against my ass.

Then Sam knelt in front of me and Larry took my bra off. At the same time Sam pulled my panties down, spread my vaginal lips and started to perform oral sex on my pussy. Larry held me from behind by my breasts. My nipples perked out from the erotic excitement. It had been over three years since a man touched my naked body and over 20 years since someone performed oral sex on me. Continue reading…

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No string attached adult fun in Canada

I have to state it, before any misunderstanding; in the next post when I talk about adult dating, it stands for erotic adult dating or no string attached adult dating. Usually it begins with an open minded couples. A couple would like to play (erotic) with an other couple, or a husband want to share his wife with a single man.

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However there a lot of men women couples, single men and women are into no string attached adult dating for many different reasons, but the end result is the same, no string attached adult fun.

It starts with a couple, or a single persons, who are looking for couples for casual sex. Easy to find a willing couple, if you are looking for casual sex with your partner, spouse, wife or husband.

We have found a willing couple! What is next?

Meet them at a neutral setting (i.e. restaurant or lounge). This makes it much easier to leave if things don’t go well. Be on time and make sure that you have given each other specific contact information (i.e. what kind of car, dress, etc).

Prepare preset signals to communicate with your partner, such as “Yes”, “No”, “Maybe”, and “Let’s get the hell out of here!” Generally when you are just starting out you should never arrange for another meeting that night, this gives you and your partner time to discuss your feelings before making a commitment to the other couple.

There is one exception, you can go further on your first meeting, if you are looking for one night stand.

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 We’ve met and we want more. What we should do?

Don’t be shy, ask! Make it clear what do you want. Open conversation the best. Talk about your rules. Same room, different rooms, swap, or just, some kind of soft, erotic play, etc. Once everyone is agree, just go for it. Just remember, “NO” means NO, at any time.

I’m a single man. Is no string attached adult dating  just for couples?

Adult dating, erotic adult dating can be a lifestyle that couples enjoy to help them live out their fantasies with other adults. Singles can be involved in this, and are involved, since many couples are looking for either an extra male or female to help them live out a threesome fantasy.

What singles must remember when they are lucky enough to be involved is that it is a privilege and they must treat it as  privilege. Many of the problems single men have in trying to get into this lifestyle are brought on by themselves.

Most of them treats ladies as sluts or nymphomaniacs. Casual sex with a couple mean, the single man is their sex toy. If you can’t handle this, than play with your girlfriend only.

Why can not find girlfriend?  Oh, your girlfriend not into nsa sex? Then you shouldn’t either, or find other girlfriend. Remember, no string attached adult fun is two sided.  But if you are single and really want to get into nsa sex, keep trying. Be friendly, clean, very polite, see thinks positive and who know maybe one day you  may get what  you want.

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How should I dress for a sex party or an adult dating get together?

When I said adult dating get together, I meant; Our website have many adult groups. Some of these groups organize, adult dating get together on a monthly basics.

Your outfits depends on the get together reason.  if that reason is a erotic party, than ask your host, about the dress code.

if no dress code, than usual dress will be casual, but neat. If it will be pyjama party you should wear pyjama too. If you don’t and everyone else do,  you will be uncomfortable. But you can wear any dress, just  relax.

Usually ladies show up very sexy, they are trying to make the best impression what they can. Men  can shows up in casual wear.

But, if you plan to participate in a “swingers” party, in most of the clubs jeans and running shoes are not allowed.

Sex party, casual dressing ok. If you are serious, sooner or later you will un dress in your undies… so sexy underwear would help for ladies…

What about sexual diseases, (STD)?

There are many scary diseases, therefore anyone in casual sex should practice safe sex only. Some women’s profile states it, bare back only, or we are into penetrative sex with out condoms.

If this happens with you, than you have to think like Forrest Gump (the movie). Run Forrest, run!

Never let anyone to dictate you:  No protection no NSA sex.

However, the risk of disease should not be the reason not participate in no string attached casual sex, because it can be minimize very easily. I strongly recommend condoms for any type of penetrative sexual encounter. You can make your sex life as safe as you want it to be!

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We are a married couple. Can our marriage be damaged if we get into NSA Sex with buddies? 

Set up rules and keep them, if you find them to tight lose them, but always communicate with your partner. Don’t do anything what don’t want to do, or what make your partner uncomfortable or jealous.

If you practice no string attached casual sex or swinging this way, your marriages will improve and your relationship will be stronger and  better all the time.

Quality or quantity? We’re talking about nsa sex. 

This question usually comes from males. Ask any women, they’ll will give you the same answer.  You should not test yourself how many times you are able to do it. One quality experience is much more better then one night long  mediocre pussy pounding.

But a fore play never long enough. You can make this as long as long you wish, it just will make better quality.

What  should I know about casual sex & swingers lifestyle… 

Hard to say. What very important for me, maybe not that important for you.

However always be be open, be clean and positive, if something bothering you, let  your partner know it.

I believe the most important, one way or other, have fun, and be sure your partner have some fun  too, because if  don’t (special if your partner is your wife)  maybe that was your first and last no string attached casual sex experience with her.

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Interest of some men…

Attempting to hire an escort or sex worker to go to a sex party or to an adult dating event with you, if you don’t have a regular female partner, just so you can get in the door is a terribly poor idea.

This is considered inappropriate at every adult club I have ever heard of, is generally sufficient to get you black listed, and is a ruse that is highly likely to be noticed by others.

A related concept is taking along someone who isn’t really your primary partner and isn’t really interested in adult dating activity; such folks are called “tickets” (i.e. you just used them as a “ticket” to get in the door), and this practice isn’t looked upon favourably either.

If you want nothing more than to see your female partner have sex with another woman, you will probably be better off forgetting about it until she brings it up.

Wandering around by yourself attempting to find a woman who wants to have sex with your lady, or otherwise trying to push this personal choice into happening, is considered quite crass.

Finally, please remember to converse with both members of a couple you and your partner are interested in, not just the partner you are interested in having sex with. Ultimately it’s your ability to form friendships with COUPLES which will determine the quality of your erotic experience in the adult dating community.

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Friendship After NSA Sex. Is it a Sex Friendship?

This goes to all out there. How often do you stay friends
with someone after you had nsa sex with? I have ran across
many profiles that say, friendship before sex, but not after…

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But what about after sex?

Friendship would be fine with me, before sex. I think it is important to know who is going to be in your bed. But afterwards, what happens?

I recently I met a nice guy, list I was sure he is a nice guy, but I am not so sure anymore.  We had a date than one more date and I had the pleasure of enjoying his company.

He was sweet and cool and we had some really good erotic connection or chemistry instantly. We liked the same things and he mentioned I was best sex friend material.

That night, we slept in a hotel, ripped each others clothes off and got into the shower. We played and teased, and he tasted wonderful…

We then went into the bedroom where he penetrated me for hours. At next morning we started again and we made each other orgasm few more times. Than we left with “See you soon”. Yet, since then, I’ve tried to talk to him and he won’t even return my call.

Do people make it a habit not to talk to their  nsa fling afterward or was it just a misunderstanding on my part??? Continue reading…


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I have ex-lovers I’ve been friends with for years. One old nsa girlfriend in particular I’ve stayed in contact with over 15 years.

We still get together sometimes, however no more sex.

It all depends on whether the relationship ended bitterly. My x partners are very special to me, because I’ve shared something with them that I could never have shared with platonic friends.

Of course one night stands does not count… Maybe he meant to have one night stand only, but did not want to tell you, because he saw how much you enjoy his company.

Or he is a married man and just cheated with you on his wife… He is the only one who know it… Continue reading…


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It is kind of wild for me. I can’t make friendship with anyone after 1 date… I need more time for that.

However I can have nsa sex on the first date with a young bull, and I am here for nsa not for making friends. I have more than enough friends, I don’t need more. I need sex!  Continue reading…

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In general, I have stayed friend with my ex-boyfriend,
but the men that were pickups  for nsa fun, for brief flings, fade quickly.

If  there is chemistry, than nsa sexual relationship can happen, but the mental connection for friendship might not, so the nsa thing will fade away, with out any mental connection.

However if I build friendship, that will brings some kind of strings and attachment and I don’t want that. I am here for nsa sex, and I think your sex freind was the same. He did not want to go any further, because he did not want any relationship.

90% of people on this website are like him. Sex only, nothing else. Continue reading…

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