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I wish you a Merry Christmas, preferable a very erotic one, with a lot of fun. I know Christmas is a family Holiday, but what about a single girl like me.

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I am student and can’t go home for Christmas, my family lives far a way. A lot of girls and even some married women like me, hope the best…

I believe there is a Santa Clause and hi is spreading his magic today. I wish I wrote a mail to him, and ask someone for tonight, but I did not.

But there is always  a hope. I hope he will bring me a bad boy from his  naughty list…

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Being alone at Christmas’ Eve is a very good reason to masturbate, but there can be other reason too.

A lot of women fantasize about casual sex at Christmas and New Year’s Eve.  Continue Reading… 

How To Host a New Years Eve Adult Themed Party

New Years Eve is just around the corner. If you have nowhere to go, you might host your own party, and if you want to go a step further, than host your own erotic New  Years Eve party.

If you do it right, your party will be a hit, that is almost guaranteed.  However you have to make your homework, to make that party a really memorable New Years Eve party.

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You need to invite the right people. In fact, the most important factor is the people with ability and willingness to participate in an adult party which might end up in casual sex. Casual sex is not for everyone, so if you are thinking about hosting an adult party you have to know people who will participate in your party. The next thing to decide is what sort of a party you want to have.

Some parties are for couples only, some are mixed, some like orgies, and some have playrooms for fun, some use the whole house and some are organized in a hotel room. As you can see, there are a lot of things that you have to deal with.

Before you do anything, you have to find a location. Host a adult party in your own home is not a good idea. The best place would be a hotel suite, with two – three rooms. One room should be dedicated to “play room”. So you have the location, than you need willing people.

The First Step Is The Invitation

Most people really want to go to a kinky party, but more or less conscious mental barriers stop them from going for what they want. Help them. Make it clear they can leave at any time. Or you can invite experienced party goers only, but there are a lot of people who are looking for new partners to party with all the time, and they can be a lot of fun. If you would like to have a really good party you should invite people with nsa sex experience and people who are curious first timers (new bie).

From this point you have to concentrate a little more on the first timers. They have to know that, you are inviting them to an erotic adult party. Probably they will have a lot of things in their mind. You have to explain to them there is nothing to be scared of NO means NO. Ask them what do they got to lose? If they are really serious they will accept your invitation because they don’t want to wonder about what could have happened if they had the courage to go.

Usually first timers will not leave the party. They have never participated in one and they cannot know what it is like. They are there for a reason, most likely they have an erotic fantasy and they will probably give it a try to make that  fantasy happen. For this reason you should let invite first timers to the event even if they beforehand declare that they are not going to do too much.  However ask them to confirm the attendance.

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Adult themed parties should be held late in the night. At late night people have calmer energy, and are more in the mood for pleasure. To make the party successful even at late night, there should be about the same number of male and female participants. It is a very bad idea to invite more males then females. However it might happen some couples would like to bring their “boy toy”. You have to be careful with extra men. Its okay, but let them know they coming together and leaving together and the boy toy has to stick with them.

Extra males might create intrigues (especially if they never participated in a party like yours) and intrigues are very destructive to the party. You don’t want a couple to leave; because one of the extra man doesn’t behave in a proper way. On the other hand some women’s fantasy is to make love with two men at once. You do not necessarily need an extra guy for this, even if you have two couples at present….

Alcohol Intake – Alcohol or Sex…

To parties like this people usually bring they own drink. Many people feel more self confident if they drink a little alcohol. Little alcoholic beverage is okay, but you do not need drunk people on your party.  Something go bad and people will blame the alcohol, easy to blame alcohol. And in addition, critical thoughts are silenced while the sex drive is amplified.

Therefore alcohol can destroy your party. Drunken people often behave badly, and that may make other people leave.

Go Slowly – Very Slowly

To help people overcome their own mental barriers, you should make sure that the action is slow. Everybody must want to go further some time before they actually do. Everybody should be horny and everybody should turned on. If someone gets into right to the action, for example goes directly from massage to penetration, others may start to think “I don’t want to do that!” Participants who rush destroy everybody else’s mood. The whole group should be do the same sort of things at the same time in the party’s early hour. Which can be talk, dance socialize, get to know each others.

Encourage the slowest. Hold back the quickest. Even if everybody is ready to go straight to the action, you should hold back. The longer you hold back the sexual energy, the stronger it will be when you let it loose.

At some point, unexpected things will happen. Let them happen. Do not disturb the group unless something or someone is threatening the entire party.

Starting Activities

You might start with playing games. Laughing together makes people ease up and creates a friendly atmosphere. Use games that for example include being blindfolded and holding hands. Dancing while being blindfolded and find out who is your dance partner etc.

Or strip poker. The losers have to take off a piece of their clothe. Do not use games in which the losers must leave the room. That would only make them passive.

People usually want things, that they cannot have. Therefore, if you play a game nobody should partnering with her/his permanent partner. This will make them start to talk with each other.

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Erotic Games

The most difficult part of any erotic party, is how to start the erotic part. You can start with erotic games, like the one I mentioned above. Or give a four-handed massage for somebody. For example two ladies give a massage for one man, and then opposite way. At once have to start to play somehow. This is why you should invite experienced couple. They will know how and when to start to get serious.

There are thousands of erotic party games, you just need to google it.

It might happen, by now someone was leaving. It is okay anybody have a right to leave at any time. If somebody walks out you should tell the others he/she or they chickened out. This might stop others to leave. However if nobody leave your party yet, probably they will not leave until the end, because serious erotic activities might started around them.

People love sex, that’s why they are at your sex party and they will not leave until they haven’t try why they are there.

First Time Adult Party Goers

First timer couples and ladies who do not participates in the actual sex, should be allowed to come and look into play room, (if you have play room) even if they declared that they are not going to do too much (they may try!).

Single men with out sex partner should not be in this room. No expectation!

You should try to make your sex party an aesthetic event, to avoid the porn feeling. Is sex party aesthetic and sensual? Or is it a cool party? Or an expression of raw, sexual lust to fulfill the participant erotic fantasy…

Like anything else in the life what is aesthetic and cool for one that is disgusting for others.

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A lot of people think sex with multiple partners is immoral. They should not judge anybody, until they didn’t try it. Some others believe, they have only one life and they want to enjoy it to the max.

Hard Core Sex Party

Participation in a hard core sex party should be your own decision. Is it a swingers sex party? Than you should know swinging is much more then sex… but no commitment sex is a important part of it! Also not every swingers party is a hard core sex party. Plus in some countries illegal to organize and held on-premises parties (which is mean intercourse allowed on the premises) and in some others illegal to organize in a public place in a restaurants or in a hotel room. If you would like to have information how to organize a “regular” swingers party check out this web page.

End Here At The End

You never plan the end of the party. It will end, whenever it ends. Usually not until the next morning, when everyone used all of their sexual energy….

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Erotic Holiday Party Tips

Are you want to be wild at the Holiday Season?

You can be. Two ways  to go…

Host your own erotic party, or find a wild sex party. Sex parties are organized by people either for profit or fun. If you would like to participate in somebody else’s erotic party (for fun) in our member’s section you will find upcoming parties and events posted by members. If you don’t feel like creating your own party, then feel free to join someone else’s!

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Check our partners website out for Erotic Holiday party list.  You can find adult themed party in the Holiday season almost in every big Canadian city and of course every city in US too.

Other type of sex parties are run by adult clubs for profit.  Adult clubs or often  name swingers club will charge an entrance fee which can very expensive in the Holiday Season, specially at New Years Eve. Erotic swingers parties are divided into two categories, on premise and off premise meaning sex allowed or disallowed on the premise. If intercourse allowed on the premise, the entry fee will be even higher.

On premises sex parties are illegal in many countries but were legalized in Canada in December 2005. Previous to it was legal only in the privacy in somebody’s home. A group of open minded couples and some selected singles gathered at one person’s house and what ever have happened there, it’s have happened for fun…. Men and women love to have fun in our sex centric world.

It shouldn’t be surprising that women participate in erotic parties for fun, they have erotic fantasies also. Sometimes, they are more sexual than men’s. Women often fantasies having sex with strangers. Having sex with a complete stranger takes away the pressure. They feel like they don’t have a standard they have to live up to, since they won’t be coming back for seconds. Women engage in this type of sex because they feel that they won’t be judged.

Around New Years Eve more women fantasias about sex than men – even about group sex. Check them out here.

Group sex can be exciting for any woman, if she into this kind of  sex play. I don’t mean that they want to get “destroyed” by several horny men. Women tend to like the idea of a bunch of nude people together having sex with their partners, unless of course, if they like to have sex with multiply sex partners.

If you decide to host your own erotic party, you can find a lot of “How To Host Your Erotic Party” information on our personal website.

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Please keep reading if you decide to join someone else’s erotic party. If you would like to have a wonderful time, while you party, you should:

Show up by the time. If you are late, you might not get in. Erotic parties often happens behind close doors. You can leave at any time, but if you are late, nobody going to open the door for you.

Dress appropriately. Appropriate stand for suitable, proper. Blue jeans is not suitable for New Years Eve erotic party. Ladies can dress as sexy as they dare. They can show as much skin as much they want, however nobody have to. Wear something that make you feel comfortable as well as sexy. Guys should wear dress pants.

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Circulate in the rooms and mix and mingle with many people. If you just try to chase down the sexiest couple, you might have to go home… with out sexual satisfaction. Make contact and talk with a lot of people. However you should not talk about your spouse, girlfriend, or boyfriend. Talk about life and maybe Holidays. Show you are interested in some erotic play, but don’t start the conversation talking about sex. The sex talk will come later.

Don’t drink to much. This party supposed to be a sex party, not a drinking party.

Remember, New Years Eve’s erotic parties usually organized for couples. In some cases limited single guys can attend. However either you are single or part of the couple, you can have a great time only if you leave your punk attitude at the door (if you have an attitude). Be yourself, be real and socialize. If you are a man ask a lady to dance and have fun. Maybe even ask her husband, boyfriend or partner for permission to ask his lady partner to dance with.

Talk to her man and be friendly with him too, if he doesn’t like you, you’re not getting anywhere with his lay. Take your time and don’t be in a hurry. If it is a couples game, all four of you have to find attractive the others.

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She screwed your two best friends

Why so? Is she a slut? Who is Slut anyway?

Lets say, she had sex with two of your best friends, and with your uncle who has no front teeth and has even tried to hit on your under aged brother. She wears clothes that make her tits almost fall out and shorts so short that you know she did not shave her pubes because her genitals’s hairs slightly visible.

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Everyone know her, she is the woman, who gets visited by married men and high school students, when they are super horny. They know, they will get laid. She does even in the park, she does not have problem with location…

Play with her like when a tall men plays basketball with a bunch of midgets sized children. He knows, he is going to score. We all know that society views men who have had sex with a lot of women studs. Women who have had sex with a lot of men, and no money involved are sluts.

I’m not sure how slut was born, but I have my idea. Men aren’t picky who they have sex with and a slut always horny, always ready to open their legs. Men don’t care, their brain stops when their penis get hard… and they just want to reach orgasm.

That is about it. They want to have the orgasm and leave. No strings attached, don’t need to take her to dinner or movie, no fallow up phone calls, just good old fashioned sex.

What about open minded women, if they into no string attached casual sex, or if they visit swingers club… Are they slut? No, I don’t think so, I would not call them slut, they are swingers women.

Swingers women different. They want to reach orgasm and want to have no commitment sex relationship. They are horny, being horny not a crime, (list not yet) but they are picky also. A slut takes man who ever she gets, swinger lady choose men to be her sex partners. They are able to select. A large number of men looking for women sex partner for casual sex, this fact allows women to be pickier, to be more selective than men.

Open minded women knows all they have to do is talk to a man. Be nice clean and sexy and he is in the palm of her hand. She knows that by dressing sexy, she will get her pick of men. A horny guy on the other hand, just tries to bang any woman he can. If she is good looking, that is extra pleasure for him. Men want to pass on their seeds at all cost. It is in their genes. Their sex drive is stronger. In the animal world males have to be. They have to be so the species can survive. If they weren’t like this, the species would die off.

It brings up interesting points. Why would a married woman be a swinger? Especially if she knows how society views it. It brings up many things, but most of them are pretty simple. Maybe she has a strong sex drive and she doesn’t get enough sex at home. Or she has erotic fantasies and very often horny. Or her husband is her first lover, first penetrative sex partner.

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In our today’s world, married women allowed to get horny too and they don’t have to make secret of it… Don’t be too shocked of this. Women aren’t the old fashioned women of the 50’s anymore. An orgasm feels just as good to them as it does to men. Maybe she has emotional issues, or maybe her husband talked her into it. Maybe she uses sex as a way to make her feel needed and beautiful. Some women feel that if they can attract enough men, that means they are beautiful. They know that the only thing a man cares about is what is between their legs.

An open minded who is into no string attached sex, serve her body for a selected man, (maybe for men) for a return(s) of sexual fulfillment.

Lot of men believe, easy to find sex partner for a woman. Men thinks to have no commitment sex, no women needs to be a swinger. She just should go to the first bar and let herself pick up by the first guy. He will bang her, or she might have a change to bang him. So she acts like a slut, but we just said it above, open minded swingers women are not slut…

Therefore, keep it in your mind, casual sex, sex friendship and or swinging is more just screw someone brain out. Swinging is casual sex, and sometimes develops into no commitment sex relationship, sex friendship. Which means no cheating on your partner, no pirate sexual action behind your permanent partner, no phone calls to call you for a date, no complication with family members, and lot of discretion. Read more about swinging…

Some of the today’s women may gets into casual sex or go to a swingers club, because of the above reasons, some other choose to be a slut.

Why would a women be a slut? Because they were molested. This one is going to take some explaining. Being molested as a child changes everything that you know. We are always taught as a child that our bodies and special and that we need to protect them from strangers. Well, often times they don’t tell us what to do if uncle child molester wants to touch our private parts. We don’t expect people who love us and people we look up to to hurt us. So children are apt to allowing family members to molest them. If they are a young child, they probably don’t know any better. We live in such a sexually oppressed world, that they probably don’t know they are doing a sexual act.

This really does effect a lot of women. More than we can imagine. There are millions and millions of women who were raped, some of them when they were kids, just look at today’s Hollywood celebrities and court cases. I think women who are molested might become sluts because it helps cover up the pain. Sex is like a drug to them. It is like acceptance too. They knew it pleased the molester when they did sexual acts, so in their minds they would like to please everyone. But it just my thoughts. If I am wrong, its not the fort time…

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Spice Up Your Sex Life. Make Her Bang You.

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Swingers spice their sex life up with sex partners outside from their permanent relationship and no string attached swingers sex parties. They might organize a gang bang or a similar themed sex party, special around this time of the year (Halloween) but swinging and sex partying is not for everyone.

You don’t need to be a swinger to spice your sex life, or love life up.  With a little imagination you can make things very erotic, even kinky if you wish to, and if your partner is willing to participate in. For example if you are the male part of the couple, here are some ideas for you.  Sex is usually controlled by men (well not really, but men think they are in the driver seat if we are talking about sex).

For a change let her drive, let her dictate by giving her total sexual control over you. I mean what I say, let her be on the top, actually on top of you. It’s already sounds good, doesn’t it? Continue reading…

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It is simple; you get to lie on your back while she jumps on you and does her erotic things. Let her control what ever she wants to, the speed and the deepness. I guaranty it won’t be bad at all. Most men dream about a hot horny babe riding on top of them, even half dead men want to die like this. So ask her to do it. Ask her to screw you hard, ask her to let you feel that you are not in control.

Probably you going to obtain a really big orgasm, it might be the biggest that you ever had. Do not do anything and have a mind blowing orgasm, I am sure you are going to like it.

After few times and several orgasms, you will want her to always be in control, you want to lie on your back and have a mind blowing orgasm, again and again.

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As the time goes by, you can put some kink into your sex, let her punish you, let her dominate you.

Sex can be good if you see what you do and can be great if you don’t see what other(s) do with you. You have to feel it.

That is why blindfolds are so popular. Blindfolds are great tools to learn for her, how be in control in the bedroom.

Have her put them on you and you have nothing else to do.

Lie on your back and happens what ever  happens, but you should not take those blindfold off. Continue reading…

There are millions of blindfolds  on the market, but you can make your own. Use a man’s neck-tie or a silk stocking. Let her tie them around your head so you can’t see, and let your private erotic show begin.

The show where you don’t need to see, you just have to feel. She can tell you what she is going to do in great details. In fact she should tell you before she does it.

She might give you alternatives: “Maybe I will put ice cube on you dick or Martini on your chest and I’ll lick it up. I might bite your nipples.

What do you think, which one should I do?”  Or she can hold a buzzing vibrator to your ear and explain you in details how she going to masturbate with it. I hope you did not take you blindfold off and did not run away. To make sure you won’t do it, she should chain you to the bed first.

Are there any more stockings in the house? Use as a rope and let her tie you to the bed with it. Just be careful – if she can’t reach the orgasm,she might sit on your face, and you can not run away. She might even give you a prostate massage with her vibrator. Oh you like that? I wonder why? Continue reading…

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There is one more thing that you need to know. Don’t do this too often. If you do it every second day, sooner or later it will be routine again. It is just an example how can you spice things up with some creativity.

There are tons of ideas, different sexual role play scenarios are all over the internet, but you can make your own with a very little creative. For example if you really want to get wild, you can buy a variety of masks costume and even whips for erotic play. These whips from sex store wasn’t created to cause excruciating erotic pains, they designed and made them cause little pain with big pleasure.   A whip to get real punished if you are being a bad boy.

If you go this far, make sure that both of you are okay with it. It won’t be fun if one of you feels uncomfortable and the target is having fun, pleasure and orgasms. Continue reading…


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