Is there any man who hasn’t wondered the thrill of woman’s firm buttocks pressed close against his groin, hugging, squeezing and kissing the full length of his manhood. A tight unique sensation sure will pleasure him… and leaving him extremely satisfied.
So why wont more lady agree to pleasure their sex partner with the back way? Taboo or terrific?
Without a strong sexual relationship women are usually opposed to providing their man with back door access. Just like have sex with a virgin girl for the first time, men need to be gentle and have a firm grasp on how to use sexual discipline. A man with little self control experimenting with anal sex for the first time can ruin this experience for his lady (and potential future sex partners).
A man needs to reiterate to his partner that if she begins to experience extreme discomfort the act will cease immediately! She may want to stop now… but if handled correctly she may be willing to try again at another time. Patience is key.
Gentlemen, please remember anal sex is more than a French Kiss! You are with the woman you respect and you want to make her happy with giving her a orgasm. Don’t let movies or videos you have had seen involving anal sex cloud your mind or fill you with unrealistic expectations.
For ladies the anal sex for the first time is uncomfortable and scary, but should not be painful. It should not be rushed. Relax, caress, kiss and fondle her… and in return, she may just give you the most unforgettable sex act you have never experienced before.
Anal Sex How To:
Always use a condom! There is no excuse to have anal sex with out condom! Anal sex can produce bleeding plus the anus area is a home for a lot of bacteria. Those bacteria harmless in and around the anus, but everywhere else they might make troubles… Protect yourself!
The lubrication is key to have a great anal sex! Unlike the vagina the anus wont get wet when she is in the mood. You have to get her back door lubricated. Use water based lubricant only, like KY jelly. It is not health hazard to her and it wont damage the condom.
Be gently, very gently. Play with her anus. Insert your well lubricated finger in. First just the tip of your finger. She have to get comfortable with the new sensation first. If she doesn’t have pain push your finger all the way in. Remember, you supposed to take your time and be very gently. She have to learn how to loose her anal muscle, because this ring muscle automatically try to close the entry door. Also lot of people like to use butt plug or anal toys to get her muscle relaxed in her butt.
Two muscle rings called sphincters surround the anal opening. If you insert a finger about one half-inch into your anus and press your fingertip against the side, you can clearly feel the two sphincter muscles. There is less than a quarter-inch between them.
The external sphincter is controlled by the central nervous system – just like the muscles of the hand, for example. You can readily tense and relax this sphincter whenever you want.
The internal sphincter is quite different. This muscle is controlled by the involuntary or autonomic part of the nervous system, which governs such functions as heartbeat and stress response.
The internal sphincter reflects and responds to fear and anxiety during anal sex. It will cause the anus to tense up automatically even if the passive partner is trying to relax. Precautions about safety and comfort are essential here.
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Anal Sex And Lubrication
If she is okay with, than try to push in to the rectum your rubberized and well lubricated penis. Go slow. Allow your partner to set the depth and pace. While you are inside her, concentrate on helping her to relax, whisper erotic words in to her ear. Stop immediately if she asks you to!
The outer portion of the rectum, like the vagina, has several nerve endings. The highest concentration of nerve endings is around the anal opening itself, so you don’t need to deep anal fuck her, except if she ask you to do so.
I love anal sex, anal penetration. The problem is, my boyfriend’s penis is to big for anal penetration, does not matter how much lube we use.