How to respond adult dating ads

First read their profile. Very carefully and check all the words. The best word by word. When you are finished and think the description what the ad looking for is you,  send  your answer. Of course if someone looking for a couple and you are a single men, it is not the best idea to answer.

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Never be rude:

If someone is responding to your ad you should answer too, even if your answer will be  no thanks. The only time when you  are not rude if somebody writes to you, and he/she is not even close what you are looking for. Example: If you are looking for girl for NSA sex, and some bi male contact you, you wont  be  rude if ignore his mail.


There are a lot of rules in erotic dating. Who ever wrote the ad , created the profile- made the rules. Take it or leave it. If she is looking for a maximum 30 years old non smokers, and you are 55 and heavy smokers – don’t even  waste your  time to write response.  Wont work.

The above tips’ list is almost endless, how to write an how to respond to an ad, but if you keep in your mind what you read above, your change to find someone will be pretty big.

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There are a lot of other things that you should not ignore before contact someone.

For example here is one: If someone looking for romantic dating partner and you want someone for casual sex, don’t waste your time to messaging that person. It wont work.

The other, if somebody looking for local dating patter, and you are living in an other city, than that wont work either. Therefore, you have to “study”   the profile, before you select those who you contact.

Remember honesty is you best policy. Does not matter what you are looking for, romance or nsa, if you are honest sooner or later you will find your ideal dating partner

Good luck in your search.

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How to create your erotic adult dating profile

There are 4 types of people who use this site.

1. Those looking for a hook up, one night stand or NSA sex.

Those looking for a relationship of some kind, include sex friendship or friendship with benefits, maybe fuck buddies. 3. Those looking to participate in the Community aspect of erotic adult dating, to entertain themselves. This type of people seat 24/7 at the front of the commuter. They are always, chat or video chat or post comment on on-line dating magazine, or give advice etc. They are very active on the site, but they not really looking for anything.

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Those who don’t know what they want.

What ever is your reason to be here, you have to join the site and create your own profile to do anything… (it is free).
A catchy profile is:

Clear and short. Describe  yourself with creative descriptions (and be honest). You do not write I am Barbie, if you short and your weight is over 1000 LBS. Don’t write I  like to go out, watch movies and listening music. Lot of people like that! Better to give some details. Let them know what you like and don’t like! Remember: You write your profile, and an erotic profile is like an ad, so you make the rules!

Don’t write: I am funny guy. If you are funny, make your profile funny too.

Keep in mind: The age is not everything, but counts. Your age, your marital status and have children or don’t is important, especially if you are looking for somebody for no string attached sex relationship.

Practice casual sex is like swinging,  a lifestyle that couples enjoy to help them live out their fantasies with other adults. Singles can be involved in the lifestyle, and are involved, since many couples are looking for either an extra male or female to help them live out a threesome fantasy. What singles must remember when they are lucky enough to be involved is that it is a privilege and they must treat it as  privilege.

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Many of the problems single men have in trying to get into this lifestyle are brought on by themselves.

Most of them treat the ladies as sluts or nymphomaniacs. Threesome is sharing, what the single guy share? Why can not find girlfriend?  Oh, your girlfriend not into threesome or casual sex? Then you shouldn’t either, or find other girlfriend. Remember, sharing is two sided.  But if you single and really want to get into the  lifestyle, keep trying. Be friendly, clean, very polite, see things positive and who know maybe one day you  may get what  you want.

There are a lot of  more thing…

Give some idea what kind of person or persons you are looking for, but don’t over do it. Not to good idea making a picky ad. Nobody will respond. Try to use popular words, like: active, ambitious, bashful, charring, cheerful, classic, creative, dependable, easygoing, elegant, erotic, friendly, fierily, fit, flexible, generous, good lover, good kisser, honest, hot, horny, intelligent, intense, joyous, joyful, kinky, loyal, modest, mature, nice, open minded, optimistic, patient, romantic, pretty, professional, serious, smart, sweet, swingers, swingers couple, vibrant, vivacious, warm, wonderful,  wild, wholesome, young, etc. If you looking for  sex only with no commitment make it clear at the beginning.

romantic dating communityAlso a photo worth more than 1000 words. If you worry about your privacy, cover your face. You don’t need to go to professional photographer, use your webcam, or cell phone, or your digital camera. Very easy to make a photo today.

Basically it is pretty simply really. It’s salesmanship! You are trying to capture your targeted audiences attention in a field that is flooded with very competitive competition.

The best ads in any field are attractive to the eye, clever, and well written. They are not rushed, gimmicky, or run of the mill

Define your search parameters and then compare those parameters with what others are seeking. In other words read their profiles carefully and look to see how what they are looking for compares to what you have to offer.

Taking the shotgun approach (spraying a flock with pellets hoping to hit something) is not really much of a sound tactical strategy on an erotic dating website…

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As it’s been said, at above good photos make the profile stand out and since variety is the spice of life, post a few and make sure they are good shots. Just a dick or pussy picture will not do it! Do that only, if you want to run with the herd. If somebody want to see your genital, that person will ask you, and than you can decide to send a photo, or don’t…

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Freind or lover. Make your friend your lover

Friend or date? I am sure you already heard the words “friend with benefits”. There is not that kind of friends is in my mind.

The question is, you are attracted to your friend and what happens when you want to ask a friend out on a date, but you’re scared you’ll hear, “No, thanks”?

What can you do when potential mates think of you less like a lover and more like a brother?

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This time out, we address the issue of what happens when you’re perceived to be more fit for friendship than dating. It all started with a letter from a Tools reader named Max, who wrote: What can you do when women,  all women, seem to think of you as nothing more than a friend?

I mean, being friends is good, but I’d like to get into a relationship at some point in my life…

First of all, Max, don’t be too hard on yourself. Being ‘just friends’ is an all too common problem these days when, more than ever, fewer people actually go out on dates, opting instead simply to ‘hang out,’ pick up a coffee, or take in a movie, all the while acting as if there’s no date happening.

romantic dating adsThe line between dating and just hanging around is blurry  and that’s where your dilemma starts. When you become like a brother to her. Have you ever noticed that friends often don’t arouse strong romantic feelings in some of us?

They may seem perfect in all sorts of ways: funny, great to be around, smart, trustworthy, similar, and familiar. But no matter how hard we try, they just don’t arouse strong romantic feeling in us? This is what I’d like to call the Brother Phenomenon, as when women say to you, “Oh. I could never go out with you, you’re like a brother to me.”

And you know what happens when you go out with your brother. Taboo city. Maybe this is why women can’t seem to get past the friendship phase with you. I think this phenomenon occurs because people linger too long in the getting-to-know- you phase, without getting clear right away about whether their time together are ‘real dates’ or ‘just hanging out.’

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Haven’t you ever felt the initial rush of interest for a new friend, but then suppressed those feelings because you thought that she didn’t act interested? But it could be that she felt passion for you, way back when you first started hanging out. You just couldn’t see it. Time passed, and now you’re like a brother to her. She’s known you so long, as nothing more than a friend, and you’re no longer romantically exciting. Get the picture?

Get out of that routine fast…  So what can you do to stop becoming a brother and start being a lover?

Don’t dawdle too long at the friendship stage. If your friend has any romantic feelings for you at all, you’ll have to take advantage of the window of opportunity. Ask early, or be prepared to miss the chance. Picking the right time is essential: somewhere after the “getting to know you” stage but before she starts telling you about all the men she’s really interested in. When she starts confiding, “I had an awful date last night,” be ready to step in right away, and tell her how you feel about her.

Making the switch from friends to lovers isn’t easy. You might not be up to the challenge since it is risky. What if you lose the relationship entirely? That might happen. But if yours is a good friendship, it will survive. And don’t the potential gains outweigh the risks? Just do it. Otherwise, you’ll always be stuck as a brother, wishing the man she dates were you.

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Married Couples Casual Sex Tips

Same Room Fun

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Most couple’s first casual sex experience or swinging experience is usually some type of soft swing, example same room erotic fun, kissing, touching. Usually this happens at parties with friends in the heat of the moments. Than some of them like those experiences and t.hey go further.

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Oral sex count as soft swing. Kissing, touching erotic games but not intercourse with the other couple, or people is count as soft swing.

Hard core swinging can be same room fun too. Most of the people thinks that “swinging” means partner “swapping”, but there are many different types of swinging and or no string attached sexual activity.

Same Room fun is a common example, happens what ever is happens, it will happen in same room, with your partner. You may have opportunity to watch your partner in sexual activity with someone else, if you want, you can help to make your partner even happier.

Often is not just in same room, it maybe in same bad too. Hard core swinging usually mean that sexual intercourse and or partner exchange included.

However to have no commitment NSA fun, at first you have to find a willing partner. Someone who are looking for casual sex.  The easiest way to go is, create and post your profile. You can do this free. With free membership, you can not contact anyone, however if your profile is catchy, other members will contact you.

How to create a catchy profile? Continue reading…

We Have Found a Couple! What is next? 

Meet them at a neutral setting (i.e. restaurant or lounge). This makes it much easier to leave if things don’t go well. Be on time and make sure that you have given each other specific contact information (i.e. what kind of car, dress, etc). Prepare preset signals to communicate between the you and your partner, such as “Yes”, “No”, “Maybe”, and “Let’s get the hell out of here!” Generally when you are just starting out you should never arrange for another meeting that night, this gives you and your partner time to discuss your feelings before making a commitment to the other couple.

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Now We’ve Met And Want More. What is Now? 

Don’t be shy, ask! Make it clear what do you want. Open conversation the best. Talk about your rules. Same room, different rooms, swap, or just soft-swing, etc. Once everyone is agree, just go for it. Just remember, “NO” means NO, at any time.

I’m single, is swinging  just for couples? 

 Swinging is a lifestyle that couples enjoy to help them live out their fantasies with other adults. Singles can be involved in the lifestyle, and are involved, since many couples are looking for either an extra male or female to help them live out a threesome fantasy. What singles must remember when they are lucky enough to be involved is that it is a privilege and they must treat it as  privilege. Many of the problems single men have in trying to get into this lifestyle are brought on by themselves.

Most of them treat the ladies as sluts or nymphomaniacs. Swinging is sharing, what the single guy share? Why can not find girlfriend?  Oh, your girlfriend not into swinging? Then you shouldn’t either, or find other girlfriend. Remember, sharing is two sided.  But if you single and really want to get into the  lifestyle, keep trying. Be friendly, clean, very polite, see thinks positive and who know maybe one day you  may get what  you want.

How Should I Dress For a Sex Party or a Swingers Party? 

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Dress depends on the  party. Ask your host, or if it in the club other club members. Usual dress will be casual, but neat. If it will be pyjama party you should wear pyjama too. If you don’t and everyone else does it,  you will fill uncomfortable. But you can wear any dress, just  relax.

Usually ladies show up very sexy they are trying to make the best impression what they can. Man  are dressing casual, but in most of the clubs jeans and running shoes are not allowed.

Sex party, casual dressing ok. If you are serious, sooner or later you will undress in you undies… so sexy underwear would help for ladies… Continue reading…

What About Sexual Diseases, (STD)? 

 There are many scary diseases, so if you want to practice safe sex make it clear before any serious action happen. Never let anyone to dictate you:  No protection no NSA sex. It should be your and your partner choice.

The risk of disease should not be the reason not participate in NSA sex or in swinging, because it is easily prevented. I strongly recommend condoms for any type of sexual encounter. You can make your sex life as safe as you want it to be!

We are a Married Couple. Can Our Marriage Be Damaged If We Get Into NSA Sex with Buddies? 

Set up rules and keep them. If they to tight lose them, but always communicate with your partner. Don’t do anything what don’t want to do, or what make your partner uncomfortable or jealous.

If you practice casual sex or swinging this way, your marriages will improve and your relationship will be stronger and  better all the time. Continue reading…

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Quality or Quantity? We’re Talking About Sex. 

This question usually come from males. Ask any lady, not necessary most  to be swinger lady, but you can ask any  swingers couple too. They’ll will give you the same answer.  You should not test here yourself how many times you are able to do it. One quality experience is more  better then one night long  mediocre experiences. But the fore play never long enough. You can make this as long as long you wish, it just will make better quality. Continue reading…

What I should Know About the Swingers lifestyle… 

Hard to say. What is very important for me, maybe not  that important for you. Be be open, clean and positive all the time. If something bothering you,  important to let  your partner know. It is means the communications important. But I believe the most important, one-way or other, have fun, and be sure your partner have some fun  too, because if  don’t (special if your partner is your wife)  maybe that was your last swinging experience with her. Continue reading…

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Attempting to hire an escort or sex worker to go to a sex party or to a swinging event with you, if you don’t have a regular female partner, just so you can get in the door is a terribly poor idea, this is considered inappropriate at every club I have ever heard of, is generally sufficient to get you black-listed, and is a ruse that is highly likely to be noticed by others.

A related concept is taking along someone who isn’t really your primary partner and isn’t really interested in swinging; such folks are called “tickets” (i.e. you just used them as a “ticket” to get in the door), and this practice isn’t looked upon favourably either. Continue reading…

If you want nothing more than to see your female partner have sex with another woman, you will probably be better off forgetting about it until she brings it up, wandering around by yourself attempting to find a woman who wants to have sex with her, or otherwise trying to push this personal choice into happening, is considered quite crass.

Finally, please remember to converse with both members of a couple you and your partner are interested in, not just the partner you are interested in having sex with, ultimately it’s your ability to form friendships with COUPLES which will determine the quality of your experience in the swinging community. Continue reading…

Erotic Prostate Massage – Prostate Milking

What is prostate, and why can it enhance sex?

At first before any misunderstanding, the prostate is a organ that males have only. The Prostate Gland is located in the region between the anus and the scrotum. It responsible to produce semen and closing the urine duct to allow for the “safe passage” of sperm.

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Because of its intimate relationship with men’s orgasm, the stimulation of the prostate can cause incredible pleasures while having orgasms. When massaged properly during sex, and especially during orgasm, the prostate can be a source of great pleasures.

However not every men are into in any kind of anal playing. If your partner one of those man, than you better stay a way from his anus area. But if he doesn’t mind anal play, we give you some useful and how to massage his prostate tips in the next few paragraph. Continue reading…

Pressing The Prostate Can Generate Orgasm

The anus area have millions of nerves endings. Because of this fact it is very sensitive plus offers a world of pleasure and sensation for everyone, who’s sex partner knows what to do there! For men, who does like anal play offers extra delights because both the base of the penis and the prostate gland are accessible. For some men, pressing the prostate itself can generate an orgasm, for others it just adds to the sensations.

You can stimulate the prostate with a finger, dildo or other anal toy through the anus. It located about two inches inside towards the belly, in the direction of the penis. In fact its location is similar to the G-spot’s location. If you have the full consent of your partner you may wish to try an advanced technique in male genital massage. Stimulate the man’s prostate gland at the same time one is stimulating the penis. Continue reading…

 Prostate Stimulating

When stimulating the prostate, being gentle is very important. If you should to do it, wear latex gloves, have short fingernails and use lots of lube.

Insert your well moisturized, rubberized, middle finger into your partner’s anus to the second knuckle, (inch – inch and a half deep) and stroke upwards in a “come hither” motion. You should feel the prostate through the rectal wall. Keep it gentle at first. If your partner enjoys it, then push a bit firmer. Some beginners find novel about anal penetration is that it makes one feel as if one has to go to the bathroom. By going to the bathroom pretty thoroughly before beginning play, and clean the anus area very well, may have an easier time not interpreting this new sensation in the old context. Continue reading…

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Ejaculatory Orgasms

Pressing on the prostate gland during ejaculation, or when a man is close to ejaculation, can feel wonderful. It is also possible for some men to have ejaculatory orgasms through prostate stimulation alone. You can combine prostate stimulation with other forms of sex! If you are using your finger or anal toys, try performing fellatio at the same time.

If your partner don’t like anus area play you can perform prostate stimulation by firmly massaging the area between the anus and the scrotum from the outside. His orgasmic pleasure will become greater. Continue reading…

Prostate Massage and Sex Game

Prostate massage is as other kind of sex or sex game. Some men enjoy it, some don’t. The amount that a man will or wont enjoy depends on his personal physiology as well as how he feels about it in general. Some men may find it unpleasant for a number of reasons, while others will experience incredible orgasms.

The relaxation and patience is the key. If you and your partner enjoy it, then do it, if not, than don’t do. There are a lot of other erotic fun to do things possible with your playmate, so don’t worry about prostate stimulation or prostate massage. Continue reading…

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