Fetish in Adult Dating | Common Fetishes

Some people are open about their lifestyle, even if they are into casual adult dating and looking for partners on the Internet,  while others aren’t. I think some people are afraid to be honest about adult dating via Internet, because they worry about what others think. Unfortunately in our today’s society a lot of people think that, people who are use the Internet for  find  dating partner are a bunch of sex maniac idiots.

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Okay, let’s complicate it a bit. What about if someone into sexual fetish and always looking for new partner on the Internet for casual sex, because this person   love to have sex with multiply sex partners? Is this person, a sex maniac swinger or  have some kind of sexual fetish?

If your neighbors, think that,  people who looking for  dating partner on adult dating websites are oversexed idiots, what they think about sexual fetishes? They might think fetishes sick or are weird,  in this case I have a bad news for your neighborhood. No any fetish is weird, unless it is having sex with animal (Zoophilia) or with human corpse (Necrophilic fantasizes).

Otherwise fetishes are normal and we all have them, probably your neighbors too. They are what make sex interesting and fun.

What is fetish anyway?

A fetish is when we need something special to turn us on. It can be a thing, can be an imagination, or a sexual activity. For example that special thought we think while we are masturbating. It is what makes us really horny, not just horny. There are all kind of fetishes out there. More than we can imagine.

Some fetishes will contain actual items, such as high heels. Some fetishes will be about acts, role-plays, for example acting like a prostitute, or house keeper, while having sex. Some “hard core” fetishes might contain both actual items and acting, like wearing a diaper and acting like a baby. I don’t want to talk hard core fetishes, like, domination, pain, plastic, golden shower or water sport. They are a different category and have nothing to do with on-line adult dating or casual sex, (other than find willing partners).

Some people might be into adult dating and or casual sex, or they might not, but they get aroused from fetishes and don’t even know it. Are you a breast lover? That is a fetish. A nice long female legs turn you on? Do you like them in pantyhose? What about shaved and pierced genitals, or hairy chest, I mean men’s chest, or cock ring. That too is a fetish. Don’t run from them, they are what turn you on.

Voyeurism is the most common fetish. People love to watch and be watched while having sex. Also lot of people into Hotwifing role play and or swinging because they love to watch their spouse in sexual activity with others. This is why they swing. This turns them on. Is this practice consider as fetish? I believe so.

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Other popular fetish that almost every one of us practice is: the language. Lot of people enjoy saying things while having sex, because it turns them on. Some people (usually women) can’t have orgasm with out dirty words. For example a lot of swingers women like to “order” their sex partner: “Fuck me harder whit that hard big cock of yours!” She get turned up by just thinking about big hard cock (even if her sex partner’s cock is not that big) and if somebody watches it, that person probably will get horny too.

It is interesting how the swingers men and women deal with fetishes. For example the average swingers men has foot, crotch less pantyhose, garden belt and shaved pussy, fetish.

Women, swingers and non swingers obsess about shoes and spend a lot of money on shoes. Also women often fantasizing with threesomes and sex partners with multiple sex partners. Is this fetish? You decide!

A lot of people into sexual fetishes. Probably they don even know what they love is fetish. They love it and they don’t want to give it up and they should not. If they and their spouse, or sex partner enjoy it, just because it is fetish it is not a crime!

You are a fetish lover or not, it makes no difference, the quality of your love live or sex life, what does make difference, if the quality is missing, you can not replace quality with quantity. If you try, your relationship, will be in very serious trouble. You should find somebody to help you out, or you should educate yourself, before she’ll find some young stud to serve her sexual need. You should visit the Ultimate Sex Guide. You can learn there tons of sex games, erotic tips for foreplay, tips before and after sex.

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Understanding Oral Sex – Oral Sex How To For Men

What to do and what don’t when you go down on her. How to eat her pussy?

I know, you already know how to lick it down there, but her pussy is not ice cream, need to do more than just to lick it. Trust me, after reading this, you will will learn new things to do down there. Oral sex knowledge is more important than you think.

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I don’t know if women prefer oral sex verses penetrative sex. I would think that some, if not more than half do. A lot of woman can’t achieve an orgasm via vaginal penetration only, it is a sad but true fact of life. Some women don’t like to perform or receive oral sex. Most women, who into casual sex, swingers sex enjoy oral sex a lot. Chances are if a woman not into receiving  oral sex, she either had some bad experiences or she feel uncomfortable with her body.

Do You like it when she goes down on you? Then you should go down on her too! I have known several men who say they won’t lick their sex partner’s luscious spot because they think that it is gross. I’m sure your woman doesn’t think its the greatest thing in the world to have her face near your sweaty balls.

Cunnilingus & Creative sex positions are so important in love making. Women adore men who can go down on them and make them orgasm they will never forget.

Performing cunnilingus is about the most wonderful thing you can do for a woman. It makes her feel loved, admired, ultra sexy, and can give her the most exceptional orgasm. Many women prefer it to intercourse, and for most, it is the easiest and the best way to achieve orgasm.

There is nothing more exciting to a woman than to know that her partner finds her delicious.

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A very easy and fairly kinky oral sex position; She should lay down on her side with one leg in the air over her partner’s right shoulder.  Lets say her partner is a man at this example. Our man should have one arm underneath her leg on the bed and the other one placed near her pubic bone. This  hand should play with her clit, while he licks her beaver.  Visit our on-line adult dating magazine for more tips on oral sex

How can you as a man make oral sex more enjoyable for her?  Here is what you have been waiting your whole life for. Here is a list of things that you can do to make oral sex more enjoyable for her.

Tease her first. Don’t go straight for the beaver, get to know the dam first. Lick her thighs. Kiss her belly button and tummy and drag your tongue down to her vagina. Let your tongue brush against her labia, but don’t stick it in. Give her a chance to get horny and wet before you do.

Have some fun. Women love to see their men having fun while they eat them. Just don’t go cracking any jokes. She will pull your head back down to her crotch using your ears as handles.

Spend plenty of time down there. Pretend you are a miner looking for gold. Don’t spend 30 seconds down there and say you are done. Take your time. Enjoy all of her tastes and smells. Get to know every single part of her pussy.

Work that clitoris. Spend time licking and sucking the clitoris and her hood. Start out real slow and work up your speed. Most women find it easier to have an orgasm when her clitoris is stimulated.

Massage her outer lips. While you are sucking and licking her clitoris, massage her lips. Pull them away and bring them close together. This will drive her totally insane.

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Use your fingers. Use your fingers to penetrate her while you are licking her clitoris. She will love this. Chances are before long you will feel her tremble with pure delight. Also, you can rub her clitoris while you eat her out.

Put a pillow under her butt. This will give you more room for your dinning pleasure. You will be able to focus more on how to please her if you have easier access to her vulva.

Massage her nipples. Most women love it when they nipples are rubbed during sex acts. I had one girlfriend who insisted on this. She said that when I touched her nipples it made her clitoris tingle.

Stop midway through intercourse to eat her again. This will catch her by surprise. Get her all worked up by pounding the hell out of her. Just when she least expects it, jump down and start licking her beaver. She will go crazy when you do this.

Eat her while you have mints in your mouth. This will set her wild. Put a menthol cough drop in your mouth and go down there. After you are done, share it and have her go down on you while she sucks on the cough drop.

Did you ever hear about  hummer technique? Put your mouth on her clitoris and suck. While you are sucking, hum a little. Some women really like this. If she doesn’t, don’t feel like you were humming the wrong tune.

There are few  things that a lot of  woman hate.

– Bad comments. Don’t tell her that her pussy stinks. Pussy smells like pussy and taste like pussy. It should not smell like the latest French perfume. If you do not love the smell of it, don’t go down on her.

– Don’t insist on performing oral sex. If she doesn’t feel fresh, she will drop you a hint. If you push her to hard, you might get a face full of blood if she is on her period.

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– Keep your nails trim. You don’t want to damage her because your nails are too long.

– No limits. There are no limits to where you can and can’t lick.

– Don’t blow air in her! This can cause serious health problems!!!!!

– No bartering. Oral sex is not a deal maker. Don’t tell her because you went down on her, she should go down on you.

– Don’t tell her what your ex liked. She isn’t your ex, so don’t compare her to her.

There you go. Follow these and you will be terrific when it comes to oral sex.

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How to Seduce Your Female Dating Partner

The truth is, dating online  is an audition, or it can be like a job interview. You need to apply on-line for a new job, than comes a phone interview and if you pass, than might be 2 – 3  face to face interviews, like in the on-line dating world. The only difference is, in on-line dating you do not post your resume, you create and post your profile. I assume, you past the job interview part of your dating process and   you want more.

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Whether you’re on your third date or your third drink at your fiirst date, whether you’re with Ms. Right or Ms. tonight, there comes the time to make your move.

But the unfortunate mating call of the inebriated and/or socially challenged lesser usually goes unanswered. Sure you’re out with her, but that doesn’t necessarily mean she wants to go to that hotel room with you.

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If you want a call-back, you’re going to have to perform well, you have to impress her. We’ve all experienced an ill-fated pass at one time or another, either as the recipient or, embarrassingly, as the perpetrator.

“My friend set me up with this nightmare woman,” complains one of our member.

“She stared at me, grabbed my necklace in her fist and grunted, “Nice necklace! You look like a nerd.” I’m like, scary stalker behavior and insults… “Yeah, I really want bee with you!”

We recently overheard another sad attempt at a dyke bar in Amsterdam.  A Canadian tourist slurred, “Let’s go somewhere, right? I want to taste a beaver.” It’s not clear what her partner thought about beaver, her face expression stated clearly,  she does not have any idea what her Canadian wanna be partner want…  maybe a spicy drink.

Prepare her, tickle her fancy.

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So we all know what not to do at least when we’re not actually on a date. But what are the best ways to get a woman in the mood? The time to plan is before the nerves get jittery and the drinks start flowing. We’ve compiled some tips you should keep in mind.

Send some playful, suggestive email before your date can help to prepare her: One advantage of dating someone you meet online is you can set the mood before meeting face-to-face.

Be yourself: If you are not a movie star, don’t want to look like and act like one. Confident, self-assured people who are comfortable with themselves are very sexy!

Dress to impress: Do you have toned arms, front or back cleavage, a cute tattoo? Whatever it is, feature it!

Keep conversation upbeat and positive: Nothing kills the mood faster than talking about your boss, your ex or your financial difficulties.

If you are with friends, introduce her proudly. Everyone likes people with interesting friends.

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A lot of women are more social than men. That is the reason behind the number of women and men Facebook users. Women are dominating in the digital “battle of the sexes.” Women outnumber men on every available social media, its proves women likes friends.

Stay focused on her:  Make positive comment on her look, her hair and dress. If she wears perfume you can tell her;  I really like your perfume  and ask her; What do you wear?  Make her the center of your attention all night.

Flirt with your eyes: Look her up and down and smile. Look in her eyes when you talk to her.

Create anticipation: Touch her shoulder, does she move a way?  If she doesn’t then might be it will be your night.  If people dance, ask her to dance. Dance with her and  when the music turn to be slow whisper in positive things in hear ear. Tell her how much you enjoy her company.

If everything going on your way, she wont pull a way from you. If you feel she anticipate more, keep doing what ever you do, because she likes it. If she doesn’t she would excuse herself and leave you alone.

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Time goes and at one point you have to decide  what you going to do, go home alone, or make your next move. If your timing is wrong, you can scare her a way.

If you decide to invite her to your home, or to a hotel room, decorate it in advance for maximum appeal: Set the mood with flattering lighting and romantic music, that she might like.

Your date might not work out the way, how you planned to it. There is always a next time, or a next dating partner. You need to know no means no: If she say “NO”  at anytime for anything, than you need to back off. There is no maybe or try again, or can you please. Harassment and sexual harassment is serious crime this days and vigorously punished in any Western country.

Our final tip, your personal safety should be your number one priority.

Probably you’ve heard all those on-line dating related horror stories of people’s bank accounts, credit cards, gets emptied, women getting raped, men getting beat up, killed or kidnapped.

You can be a very muscular super man, she takes you a hotel or motel room, and there will be her husband with few friends, than things  can get very complicated. Yes stories like this true. Unfortunately many strange and perverted people use on-line dating website, for criminal activity.

The most important thing to being safe is – to be smart. On-line dating can be risky, and it is not a joke anymore.  Doesn’t matter you are a woman or a man, you need to know what you are doing and where you are going at all times.   Trust your instincts, if your dating partner doesn’t feel right, than don’t hesitate, go home and log into this website, try to find somebody else! There are millions of men women and couples looking for date, and not all of them criminals.

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What makes a man a great sex partner, or a great lover?

A lot of guys think that a bigger penis and more staying power will make them a better lover. Penis size definitely counts for a lot of women, but not for everyone.  Women say, penis size is not everything.

Some think it’s not about penis size, it’s about how suave you are, and how sophisticated. Most men aren’t really clear on what they think a great lover is, but most would like to become one. So what make women tell their girlfriends about a guy love making ability after the first time they make love? What makes a man so appealing and successful with many women?   Continue reading…

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First off, women like to be listened to. They like to feel that they are communicating with their partner, and they are much more likely to feel special and relaxed when the man they are worth focuses on them. And feeling more relaxed can lead to much better sex.

Also a man that pays honest attention to his date can make her feel like she is important and not just another body to him. What’s more, most men that women consider great lovers really truly LIKE women. That makes a big difference. The average man in the street makes jokes about women, and doesn’t see them as friends. A man that makes women feel liked is going to be a man women like.

A man who touches women gently and doesn’t rush when he is kissing, touching or stroking makes a woman feel good. So many men want to get through the kissing and the foreplay and go straight to the sex, but women don’t feel that way. It makes them feel less relaxed and less like having sex at all.

It certainly isn’t the way to excite and stimulate most women. And of course, a great lover knows about the female body. He knows that most women are turned on by gentle bites on the neck and throat while being held from behind. He knows that gently pulling her head back with her hair while kissing her is very exciting for a lot of women.

He also pays attention during love making, and listens to the sounds his lover makes – or doesn’t make. He works his way gradually to her nipples and her inner thighs. If something makes her pull back a little, he is paying enough attention to notice, and will stop immediately.

A lover a woman remembers afterward doesn’t just stick in his penis and hammer at her. He doesn’t stop talking softly to her the minute that intercourse is achieved. Unfortunately most men  just stick in pound and do.

What really keeps most men from being great lovers – lovers that women remember with a smile for years – is that they have a goal – and they act as if the woman is a means to that goal. They are not sharing an experience or pleasure, they are trying to get off.   Continue reading…

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Next time you are on a date with a woman, try listening to her, really listening. Talk with her, get to really know her. Enjoy her company, don’t focus on the question of whether you will have sex with her later or anything other than the time you are spending with her at that very moment. If you treat every minute you spend with her in this way, and you do not rush, and you make her feel special, she is going to feel great being with you, and that is the most important first step toward being a great lover.   Continue reading…

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Virgin Girls Browsing Adult Dating Websites

The cool thing these days it seems is for women to call themselves virgins and they brows adult dating website.  What a virgin woman want on an adult dating website? The problem, very few of them are actually virgins, but they wanna be virgin. I think women are trying to win back their dignity. Virginity is not dignity, if your virginity “expired” than that is gone for life. List from this present life…

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The lady on the above photo definitely not a virgin. A lot of them seeks sex partner here.

This kind of girls want to seem as pure and innocent while they lay on their backs for men who knows how to ride the bicycle and for those who don’t know how to ride the bicycle.

Finding a virgin girl, who is around 19 years old or older in year 2017 is like hit the jackpot on the lottery. For example in our Canadian 6/49, to select the 6 winning numbers from a possible pool of 49 numbers, the chances of winning the jackpot are 1 in 14 million. Someone wins, and someone virgin… One 19 year old girl from 14 million. They are exist, but hard to find one. I don’t know if it is worth the time, unless you want to go where no men was before.

There are many reasons why a woman might want to be a virgin. In this days and age of diseases, its not that bad of an idea. She might say, I never had penetrative sex, not yet, is it worth dying for? I can understand woman like this, but I never met one.

There are many other reasons to stay a way from penetrative sex.

adult dating By not having sex you don’t have any risk of getting pregnant. Men these days don’t seem to want to take care of their babies. Nothing would be worse than having a baby and being forced to quit school and work at a Timi’s to pay the bills. Being a single mother is tough these days and I don’t blame them for not wanting to take that chance. It is hard enough to live on your own, let alone have to worry about kids.

adult dating Some women may choose not to have sex for religious reasons. This is probably the number one reason why women stay virgins. They believe that they aren’t allowed to have sex until they are married. I used to go to church when I was a teenager and during this time a lot of girls in the church were having sex. I guess some people practice this, while others just claim that they do.

adult datingThere is the type of woman who claims she is a virgin but she will perform oral sex on you. She will allow you to stick your finger, or even two fingers in her vagina and get them really wet. She does this so in her mind she is still a pure and clean virgin.

adult datingThe next bunch of virgins are the type that allow you to touch them, but not do anything else. She may allow you to touch her breasts or lick her nipples. If you are lucky she will play with your penis, or if you are very lucky, she will give you a hand job. That is about as far as it goes with her. She might eventually end up being like the “virgins” who will learn how to perform oral sex on you, but I wouldn’t count on it though.

This might sound odd, so make sure you are sitting down for this next one. Some “virgins” enjoy anal sex. Usually women who originate from countries where sand is everywhere as far as you can see and camels still in use for transportation. They feel since they aren’t using their vagina’s it really isn’t sex. Anal sex is called anal sex for a reason, because it is sex. Just like oral sex is sex.

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She never had vaginal penetrative sex, but she might experienced double anal penetration… and she is still virgin. Strange things happens. I guess it doesn’t matter in the long run. All that matters if you can get into her sweet anal love canal. I won’t argue, if she thinks she is virgin, so what?

Sometimes when a woman hasn’t had sex in a while, the vagina can shrink back to its normal size. Though she isn’t really a virgin, she will seem like it and will feel like she is a virgin. Than she will tell you, you are the first man in my life, but she wont tell you since when. Wonders can happen…

Some women are what they call “virgins again“. This really blows my mind. Basically they started to screw in high school, they screwed all their class mate, plus everyone else who bothered to move between their legs and than decide they will be a virgin until they get married. I’m not sure how they can feel they are a virgin again, but who am I to understand anything about a woman. I think this usually happens after a woman climbed into some unwanted pregnancy, or might picked up some nasty STD. Those think can make her to decide that “No sex until marriage“.

Why is this so important? To a man, he could care less really. Getting to lay a virgin is like winning a jackpot on 6/49, but after a certain age you realize that is not just luck, that is a time consuming hard work. Does it worth? Personally, I want a woman who can screw my brain out in the bed and on the kitchen counter too, not someone who has never done anything kinky before. Other than not having to worry about disease, to me and probably most men, this whole virgin thing is plain stupid.

The reason why some women are so obsessed about this is, they want to remain pure. Their virginity is the only thing that they see as making them pure and clean. They can talk like a sailor and they can take two dicks in they butt hole. Are they pure, or are they better than a girl who had 2 lovers in her 19 years of age?

I am amazed that this is still an issue. After all women have the same rights as man have since the 1960’s, so why no one worry about guys and virginity?

I used to know a girl in my home town, she screwed the high school football team, than next year she screwed the next year’s team too. I know this for fact, I played in both year’s team. Than I moved a way and did not see her for few years. Than we ran into each other once, and after the Hi, how are you, long time no see, she told me, she is virgin again… Well I let her believe she is virgin again, because I realized she is more than likely a nut case and needs to be avoided…

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