Erotic dance tips for open minded people

Once upon a time erotic dance used to be a sacred ritual in ancient Egypt, common in fertility rituals and sex magic. Those days are gone a long time ago. However erotic dance still exists with several categories with unlimited styles in, for the purpose of erotic and sexual arousal. For example striptease, lap dance, poll dancing, table dance, belly dance, etc.

Erotic Dance is: The Dance That Attempt To Simulate Sexual Acts.

There are also styles of dancing that attempt to simulate sexual acts. In the 1980s, Dirty Dancing and Lambada became popular, each involving very close body contact, including grinding. Just few years back, a style of dance called “Freak Dance” shocked teachers at school dance parties across North America out.

There is no house parties that are without erotic dancing.  Swingers parties?  Swingers lifestyle supposed to be fun, and erotic dancing is a lot of fun. It can really spice things up, it can be  erotic foreplay. With really hot erotic dancing anyone can start things going. It can turn almost anyone on.

How To Erotic Dance

The most important think you should know, you do not have to be Ken or Barbie to have fun. No matter what age, shape or size you are, you can have fun, just be sensual, sexy and be yourself. If you are a woman, sensuality will give you confidence and beauty.

In the other hand if you are a man…. Men Like To Watch

Most men are visual creatures by nature. That is why porn web sites and striptease clubs are still making lots of money. Men like to watch. So erotic dancing will get most guys hot and excited even if they just watch it. Some guys like little teasing while others might like more direct action, like touching, body grinding etc.

Everyone is different, but in most cases, sexually provocative moves mixed with music and dim lighting are usually one good way to get things rolling. If the women feels she’s got the guys attention, it helps her feel sexy, so it’s a good way to get partners into the mood.

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Sexy Clothing

Also the dancer’s clothing is should be sexy, and may be gradually decreased, but nudity is not a prerogative of erotic dance. Of course I am talking about a lifestyle party not strip club…

Okay, you have a killer outfit, now all you need is a sexy attitude. It is easy – being sexy is a state of mind. If you think you’re sexy, you will be.

By now everyone is ready to make the first step. First of it you do not have to know how to dance rumba or samba. You just have to move your body in a harmony with the music. Do this as sexy and erotic as you dare.

Body Grinding

If you are a female before you go any further you should know that,  hot erotic dancing might involve lot of body grinding. It may also include you bending over while he presses himself into your backside.  At erotic lifestyle parties sometimes many men and women, all pressed against one another in an orgy of sexual simulation and dancing.

Plus quite common to see two ladies with legs intertwined and bodies pressed against one another. You will rarely see the same between two men. If you have problem with any of the above, then erotic dance is not for you.

Move Your Body

If you are dancing front to back for your partner then just grab his hands and put them on your upper, sort of inner thighs and just put your ass on right where his shaft would start.

I’m assuming you want to get him hard, do you? Move your body to the music, roll your hips and then when you’ve got him in the rhythm turn around. Right now you should be face – to – face. Put one of your legs sort of over his thigh. Have one of his hands holding that leg and put that foot on the ground behind him! Put his other hand on your ass.

Now comes the best part, press your crotch up to his dick (he should be pretty hard now) and hump him good! You will know you are do it good if he leans back a little or pulls your chest closer. You’ll know he needs more grind if he grabs your ass with both hands and pulls you in! So go for it. Remember either of you should not be naked!

As for what to do if you are a guy and dancing like this, just move your body in harmony with hers and with the music. If you’re feeling a really good vibe with her, press as close to her as you possibly can, and make it more intense. Stay moving in rhythm with her, and follow her lead.

If you would like to lead the dance, dance behind her, put your hands on her hips or above her pussy. If she puts her hands over yours, let her lead your hands wherever she wants. If you’re facing her, put one leg between hers and pull very close to her. Put your hands on her back, or if she lets you, her ass.

Grind your body to her body up and down directions. Imitate you having sex. Let her fill you are hard like a rock! Remember not to make her uncomfortable with your dancing.

Many people may not be at ease with this form of dancing, so you may not want to grab them and start grinding immediately on them. Touch her erogenous zones. Stimulate her with caresses. Be spontaneous and move your body in a creative way. Tell her how you feel and tell her she turns you on. You are dancing very erotically so try to use erotic words to describe your feelings, but don’t be rude.

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Useful Erotic Dance Related Ideas

It is considered very rude to have drinks or lighted cigarettes on the dance floor. With so much movement, the drink could spill or the cigarette could burn someone.

Some ladies don’t like it when guy put his hands on their stomach. This kind of dancing is very erotic and the best place for a guys hands is on the inner thighs, the ass or the upper pussy of her.

Her Ass, Inner Thighs, Erotic Zones

If you are a guy and already discovered her body (ass, inner thighs, erotic zones) with your hands, then grind your dance partner good! She will love it and she might love it face to face a whole lot better than front to back because while guys get hard out of a girls backing their ass into their dick, she get absolutely nothing but burning thighs. With face to face it feels really good to her too because she will feel your hard dick against her genitals. Hold her close and grind her like you are in the bed with her.

Erotic Communication

Dancing is a way of communication. Erotic dancing – erotic communication. The erotic dance give an erotic message to your dance partner. This message might break social norms and rules, but it might let you partner know you have been turned on by his/her moves, you are horny and would like to go further…

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What kind of men women love to date?

How to attract women? Who is a perfect lover? A lot of guy think that a bigger penis and more staying power will make them a better lover. Some of them think it’s about how suave, and how sophisticated they are. Well… they are wrong.

Most men aren’t really clear on what they think a great lover is, but most would like to become one.

So what make women sigh and tell their girlfriends about a guy after the first time they make love with? What makes a man appealing  and successful for many women? Read more…

In this article we get tips from women all over the world, who think they know what makes the perfect lover. Do you want to be the perfect lover? Then keep reading.

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The most important thing in any relationship building is confidence. What ever you try to do, you need to  be confident.

However there are few more things, that you should know. First off, women like to be listened to. They like to feel that they are communicating with their partner, and they are much more likely to feel special and relaxed when the man they are worth focuses on them. And feeling more relaxed can lead to much better sex. Read more…

Also a man that pays honest attention to his date can make her feel like she is important and not just another body to him. What’s more, most men that women consider great lovers really truly like women and their companion. That makes a big difference. The average man in the street makes jokes about women, and doesn’t see them as friends. A man that makes women feel liked is going to be a man women like.

Also a man who touches women gently and doesn’t rush when he is kissing, touching or stroking makes a woman feel good. So many men want to get through the kissing and the foreplay and go straight to the sex, but women don’t feel that way. It makes them feel less relaxed and less like having sex at all. It certainly isn’t the way to excite and stimulate most women.

And of course, a great lover knows about the female body. He knows that most women are turned on by gentle bites on the neck and throat while being held from behind. He knows that gently pulling her head back with her hair while kissing her is very exciting for a lot of women.

He also pays attention during sex, and listens to the sounds his lover makes – or doesn’t make. He works his way gradually to her nipples and her inner thighs. If something makes her pull back a little, he is paying enough attention to notice, and will stop immediately. A lover a woman remembers afterward doesn’t just stick in his penis and hammer at her. He doesn’t stop talking softly to her the minute that intercourse is achieved. Unfortunately most men do. Read more…

What really keeps most men from being great lovers – lovers that women remember with a smile for years – is that they have a goal – and they act as if the woman is a means to that goal. They are not sharing an experience or pleasure, they are trying to get off.

Next time you are on a date with a woman, try listening to her – really listening. Talk with her, get to really know her. Enjoy her company, don’t focus on the question of whether you will have sex with her later or anything other than the time you are spending with her at that very moment. If you treat every minute you spend with her in this way, and you do not rush, and you make her feel special, she is going to feel great being with you – and that is the most important first step toward being a great lover. Read more…

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Secret of great romantic dates

Everyone want to impress their dating partner, special if is someone new… bu these days, an average and impressive date can be expensive. How can you set up a great and romantic date with out spending a fortune…

Also the money is not everything, it can be impressive, can also can be less than romantic – after all, what is really romantic about eating in a restaurant and handing out tips for servers like you handing out business cards.

For that matter, how can you get to know each other with a waiter coming by ever five minutes to see if you need anything?

And if a date is about getting to know each other, finding out if you like each other and have things in common, you can’t really do that if you go to a movie or a concert or club. Attraction won’t grow if you’re both involved with a plot or a band. In between your regular dates, why not try some dates that encourage spending time with each other and don’t cost a fortune.

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Stop at a neighborhood deli just before the date and pick up a full picnic lunch or dinner? Ask your date for her favorite foods, so hopefully you can include one or two in the meal. Now drive to the beach or the park (perhaps she has a preference) and find a nice spot away from any crowds. You can talk while you eat (remember napkins and something to sit on!) and then go for a walk together.

Almost every women loves flower.

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Are you a man? Why not meet your date close to her home with a single flower that you can have professionally wrapped at a florist? Make it one in a color she likes, or if you happen to know her favorite flower, have it with few nice leaves in clear or colored cellophane, just like a full sized bouquet.

If you want to end the evening doing something, maybe an ice cream parlor or the bar in a local exotic restaurant for a drink would be nice and easy. Or want to be sure that you have something to do in case you don’t end up with much to talk about? Why not go to a pier or local amusement park? Not a theme park – just a place with a merry-go-round and some pinball and other games, and maybe bumper cars and stuff. You can take turns trying to win each other toys, or play pool or some kind of ball game – and except for serious snobs, everyone loves to play.

If it is not you first date with you dating partner, than what about a romantic dinner at you place too finish you date in a style.

If your day date worked out well, you can finish the day at your place with a home made romantic dinner. Nice table, some candle light and a glass of fine wine. If you don’t know how to cook, order take out meal from a restaurant and you just have to serve it. No paper plates allowed! Use your best dinnerware, nice music and scented candles. It will touch her hearth.

Romantic movie at your place.

If you do not want deal with meal, you can do a movie at your place, but make it seem special. Then instead of the same old movie popcorn, why not see if you can buy a couple actual movie popcorn containers? They have them at restaurant supply or party supply places. If there is no party supply store in your city maybe a local theater will sell you a couple. Try a little decor – maybe you can get a couple old movie posters that used to hang at movie houses. Find out what her three favorite movies are – hopefully they aren’t too esoteric and you can find at least one for rent. Then send her an invitation, either hand-delivered or in the mail. Invite her to a movie preview (but make it clear it will be at your place, so she doesn’t get dressed up).

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For example: “You Are Invited to a Cinema Event! I will be your host and I would like to invite you to a movie premiere at my personal – home based theater. Will be playing at 8pm sharp. Please bring this invitation for seating.”

Or you can always go somewhere where you both have interests. If you both enjoy reading, maybe you can go to a used bookstore and then go sip coffee. If you and she both like roller skating, that could be fun. Or a trip to the zoo. You might even try a long drive in the car, if you have some nice scenery near where you live.

As you can see above, there are a lot of way to get to know someone. You just have to find a compatible partner and everything else work out.

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Perform for your lady almost naked

A lot of men think that, they can’t strip for their woman. They scare or  chickens out, for what ever reasons… They don’t know how much women (some) loves tripping men…

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All they should do is relax and take it one step at a time. Us ladies understand that you’re not professional dancers. We don’t care if you are, we just like to see that side of you trying to make us happy. Setting the erotic mood. In most strip bars they use a red light. It sets an erotic atmosphere. Find a place that suits what you plan on doing.

The place that you decide on should have enough lights so you’ll be able to see where you’re going. Take is easy. Don’t try to be someone you’re not. She doesn’t care if you look like a Mel Gibson. She’s interested in watching you entertain her.

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Make sure that you’re both in a good mood, You don’t want to catch her on a bad day when she’s not into it. Remember you love this woman so show her what you’ve got. She won’t make funny comments on your stripping abilities. Give her a good time.

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Here are few things you should keep in mind when perform for your lady – almost naked.

The whole idea is to tease her. You have to let her wonder what’s under your clothes and what you’re going to do next. Yes you will eventually be fully naked but not too soon. This will come with time. Be patient. When stripping for her you start with taking off your top and move down south. Your underwear is usually the last things left.

I personally not a big fan of thongs on a man. I like the white boxer look. We can still see what you’ve got down there without you having to bunch it all up in a thong. If you decide to wear boxers pick a pair that’s not too flashy.


Women love seeing men in uniform. A policeman or fireman’s uniform is always good to see on a man. We want to know what you’re up to but we love to be surprised too.

*It’s very important to practice what you plan on doing in front of her. It’s good to know your movements before the time comes. If you forget a move it’s okay just come up with something else. Women usually dance in front of the mirror. It lets us see what we look like when we’re dancing and how we look in certain positions.

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It’s okay to be a bit foolish when dancing. We know that you’re not a professional dancer so stay calm and so will she. Make it fun for the both of you.

While stripping for her go up to her every once in a while and kiss her. Touch her shoulders ,whisper in her ear maybe if you feel confident enough shake your ass in front of her. But remember you’re teasing her don’t give her too much of you.

If you want when you’re almost naked ask her if she’s like to get up and dance with you. This is the foreplay of erotic dancing. Soon you’ll both be doing the horizontal mambo.

It’s okay to act funny and have a good time but you want to remember there are certain steps you should follow. Some men don’t know how to dance and that’s okay. Here is a little hint for you :sway your hips from side to side and turn around every few minutes to show her another side. For the men who know how to dance go for it!

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Here are those steps you want to follow when stripping for her.

First you want to take off your socks and then remove your shirt and toss it at her gently.

Take off your belt slowly and tease her with it. Then let her take it off. Move down towards unzipping your pants. let your pants fall and then get out of them)

Slowly dance towards her and take her hands to your boxers and let her remove them from your body.

When picking the music pick what suits the dance you want to perform. If you want to strip fast then pick a more upbeat song. If you want slow and romantic then try using r&b. You can ask her what she likes and pick a song from that selection.

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My friend and I did his wife

My best friend Jack, was always oversexed. As a single man he spent a lot of weekend sex parting and he loved to go to swingers club too. I figured that, when he will get married, he would slow down.  Eventually he married a lady, but I never met with his wife, not yet anyway. I used to work outside of the country when they started to date. At the time when I got back to the state, they have been married more then six months.

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One of the first thing that I did, was to visit Jack. That was my first meet with his wife.  She was a dark-haired, average looking Hispanic lady with grapefruit size of tits and very nice shaped long legs. More importantly her personality was much more better then her look. She played pool as a man, liked watching sport news on TV and did not offended at our course language.

Few weeks were gone by and I begun to forget she is a women, even though I found her sexually very attractive. Then one Saturday afternoon Jack reminded me how sexy she was. We had a few drinks while watching the hockey game and just as the third period started Ria brought in a plate of nachos.

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– You really found the prefect wife I said.
– Yeah, isn’t she a piece of beauty? Jack asked, sliding his arms around her. His hands dangled down to her boobs and begun caressing them. I looked quickly to the TV, but Jack voice turned me back to them.

– And her boobs are the best I ever had. Come here and fill them. I wasn’t sure what should I do. Jack had always been wild horny guy, but he just offered to take a close look at to his wife boobs. Did he really want me to check out his wife tits front of him? I looked at Ria, she drew her tongue across her lips very sexily. I realized she wanted me to do it. Well what the hack, am I a healthy man or what? I asked from myself and somehow I went over the sofa next to her and begun touching her boobs.

They were killer, I know that from the first moment when I saw her. She never wear bras, she doesn’t need them. Her boobs are tight and pointing to up direction. Her nipples poked through the fabric of her blouse.  Continue Reading…

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