If you think about dating, you need to know, dating is an attitude, a good attitude. If you are a negative person, than you have to change your attitude, or you will fail in our today’s dating scene.
Anyone can use the next few dating tips, does not matter if long lasting romantic dating or a simple no string attached casual dating is the subject, these tips can help anyone to start to build something…
The tips are:
Be positive: A good flirt is self-confident and not afraid to take risks. Be enthusiastic and positive, it works!
Start a conversation: The best opening line is saying hello. Talk about the surroundings, ask a question, ask for help, state an opinion.
Have fun: Be playful, light hearted and spontaneous. Show your vulnerability.
Use props: Never leave home without a prop. Props are natural conversation starters. They encourage conversation and others will be compelled to start talking to you. Great props include: dogs, kids, unusual jewellery, a fabulous scent, a sweatshirt with your favourite passion, interesting ties, hats, or an interesting book or newspaper.
Be the host: Change your behaviour from the role of guest to host. You are not the passive person in waiting, but rather the welcome committee.
Make the first move: Move closer to the person you want to meet. Say hello!
Listen: You have two ears and one mouth because you should listen twice as much as you speak. Listening is a true art. Your flirting partner will be drawn to you. Everyone loves to be heard.
Eye contact: Make eye contact, but please look your partner in the eye gently (no more than 2-4 seconds) and then glance away. Don’t stare – it’s a turn off.
Compliment: Compliment your flirting partner. The best compliments have the element of surprise. The “flirtee” will know that you really noticed them. Remember, your compliments must be honest, sincere and genuine. When you receive a compliment the best response is merely, Thank You!
Being polite, please, thank you and or sorry always works. I say this not just because this is a Canadian website. Even though Canadians are know for their politeness. I heard many times: I love Canadians! You guys are so polite. You say sorry all the time.
Smile: It is contagious. It will make you so much more approachable. A smile lights up your face and draws people to you. You will be a people magnet. Try it!
Our extra tips, humour: Humour is one of the clearest markers of a successful social interaction. You can use it as an ice breaker, and in the mean time you might put a smile on your dating partner face. Sharing a laugh with others help.
If you are a man, you should know: According the latest surveys, single women attracted more to humorous men than just physically attractive men.
Remember, dating supposed to be fun. Don’t take it to seriously. If doesn’t work, turn the page and find someone else. There are a lot of men, women and even couples looking for dating partners.